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On the day of the wedding, Song Yi was drunk to the point of intoxication. The wedding night in the bridal chamber had a splitting headache, and he fell asleep on the bed without doing any business.

Their new house was purchased and renovated by their father-in-law and mother-in-law long ago, and they just waited for Liu Yan to get married and live in it.When Liu Yan and he went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register, they also transferred half of the property rights of the house to him.

The new car was also driven to the garage door by a certain brother-in-law a few days after the wedding and handed him the keys.Liu Yan does not have a driver's license, and the car was obviously bought for him.Song Yi was rather flattered.Although it's just a Passat.

Now Song Yi also has a house, a car, a wife, and is about to have a child.Life couldn't be more pleasant.

He moved out of Gu Luming's house. On the day of the move, Gu Luming had to go to work, so he didn't come to see him off.The move this time is not the same as last time, there are many more bits and pieces.Song packed things into boxes one by one and asked the workers of the moving company to help move them down.When moving those books, the master worker was also sweating profusely from exhaustion.Song sent up the prepared water and passed a few cigarettes.

When the last box was moved out of the house, Song Yi stood at the gate, looking around the nest with nostalgia.He couldn't bear it, and took out a pen and paper to write a message for Gu Luming.

Say, Xiao Gu, don’t turn on the air conditioner to be too cold; don’t bring the reserved blankets on the sofa into the room; just change the water for the lucky bamboo next to the TV table once a month; It's his wife, don't call her the wrong person; do you want to consider getting a dog: ………

Xiao Gu, don't cook for others.

As soon as Song finished writing, he pressed the paper under Gu Luming's usual water cup.left.

As he drove home, the more he thought about it, the more hypocritical what he had written.Wanting to go back and get the paper back, he no longer has the key.

The intersection between him and Gu Luming became less and less, there is no common home, they are almost like two parallel lines, there is no chance to meet.

Liu Yan's belly gradually showed signs of pregnancy. She didn't resign and still went to work with her big belly every day.Song Yi also felt that there is no need to pamper a pregnant woman too much. Proper walking exercise is not only not harmful, but can help the mother adapt to pregnancy and give birth with more strength.

Liu Yan's abdomen was quite normal, but one day she suddenly told him mysteriously that her uncle who was an official in the city was about to be promoted, and somehow he was demoted to a village and town as a secretary. up.

Song Yi asked her, which uncle, you have so many relatives.

Liu Yan said, Liu Zhang's father.Didn't you stay with Liu Zhang for a long time on the day of the banquet, and you even said to introduce him to your family.

Song Yi suddenly realized that it was his father.so suddenly?Did he offend some leader?

Liu Yan was puzzled, but she just didn't know. My uncle is very tactful. He must know who he offended, so he wouldn't be so ambiguous.

Song Yi shook his head, there was nothing he could do.

Liu Yan said, I know, I am not asking for your help, but just telling you.

Song Yi said, and went to busy with his own affairs.

The married life of Song Yi and Liu Yan is basically the same as before marriage. The only difference is that they live together. Now they don't even need to send text messages. If there is anything, they can talk face to face on the same day.Liu Yan is not very good at cooking, and Song Yi is even more difficult about it.She was still pregnant, Song Yi didn't want her to suffer from the fumes, so he hired a nanny to act as a cooking aunt first.Anyway, when the child is born, a nanny is still needed.Liu Yan is definitely not a woman who would resign and take care of her husband and children at home.

His father-in-law and mother-in-law were going to help him transfer work, but he refused. Instead of working in an agency, he might as well teach in a school honestly.

Four months into her pregnancy, Liu Yan's morning sickness was still severe, and she felt nauseous whenever she ate slightly greasy food, and she couldn't even see the big tonic that her mother-in-law stewed for her.So the vegetables at home were replaced with clear soup with little water, less oil and less salt.Her acidophilic temperament also came out, and she had to prepare big bags of sour plum preserves and hawthorns.

The mother-in-law was in trouble, and racked her brains to make up for Liu Yan.Try to make her very unhappy.I pinched my nose and ate it, and went to the toilet to vomit after a while.Vomiting heart-rending.

Song Yi was very worried about her physical condition, so he didn't let her go to work, and asked her to take care of her at home.Song Yi called Hu Jiayi again, explained Liu Yan's symptoms, and followed Hu Jiayi's instructions to take care of Liu Yan's body.

After she stayed at home on maternity leave, she didn't like to go out for a walk. Song Yi sometimes advised her to go out for a walk. She said she was tired after walking around the garden of the community twice and wanted to go back.Song Yi had to take her home.

Song Yi couldn't take care of Liu Yan when he was at work, and he would ask the nanny to report the situation when he came home at night.

Once, the nanny told him in private that Liu Yan always sat alone in the room in a daze.At first the nanny thought it was due to Liu Yan's personality, but she took a closer look and found that Liu Yan was just sitting there without doing anything.Pretty scary.

Song Yi couldn't figure out what was going on with Liu Yan.

By chance one night, he got up to go to the bathroom at night, and when he turned on the bedside lamp, he found Liu Yan sitting by the window, not knowing what he was doing, which shocked Song Yi greatly.He was frightened awake in an instant, and asked why Liu Yan didn't sleep.Liu Yan said she couldn't sleep, so she got up to read a book.Song Yi said, why don't you turn on the light, can you read the words?Then Liu Yan stared blankly at Song Yi without speaking.

Liu Yan's hair was loose, and she was very creepy when she was illuminated by the cold light.

Song Yi walked over, sat next to her, held her shoulders, and said in a gentle voice, "What happened? If you have anything to say, let's share it together, don't hide it in your heart alone."

Liu Yan's tears fell, and she said, "It's okay, don't worry."

Song Yi said, "Why don't I worry about your appearance?"

Liu Yan burst into tears, "Don't ask, please, don't ask."

Song Yi frowned.

Shi felt that Liu Yan was strange, and Song noticed the details that she didn't pay much attention to on weekdays.Liu Yan always stares somewhere in a daze, prefers to stay in the room, neither watching TV nor reading.He would cry out of nowhere, no matter how hard he coaxed him.When touching the bulging belly, the gesture changes from touching to pinching.She is very sensitive to the ringing of the phone, whether it is the ringtone of the landline at home or someone's mobile phone, it can give her a lot of stimulation.

Her mental condition is very bad.

Song Yi observed for a while and suspected that Liu Yan had antenatal depression.He consulted Hu Jiayi, and after thinking about it, Hu Jiayi suggested that he take Liu Yan to see a psychiatrist.

Where did Ruilin get Lao Shizi's psychiatrist, Song Yi could only let Liu Yan go back to her mother's house first, and let her father-in-law and mother-in-law stabilize her emotions.He told his father-in-law and mother-in-law that Liu Yan may have depression and should consider treatment.The father-in-law and mother-in-law reacted very strongly, and they did not want to believe that their daughter would be mentally ill.

Song's head was as big as a bucket, and he was upset.

After finding someone out for a drink, I looked through the address book and called Gu Luming.

He and Gu Luming made an appointment to drink at the food stall, which was the one they used to go to.

My heart is uncomfortable, and drinking is bitter.He told Gu Luming that Liu Yan might suffer from antenatal depression, but his father-in-law and mother-in-law refused to treat her.

Gu Luming was a little surprised, is it serious?

Song nodded and took a sip of wine. It was very serious. If he died after seven months, the child might not be able to survive.

Gu Luming said, then be tough and sneak it over.

Song Yi smiled wryly, father-in-law and mother-in-law guarded me tightly, guarding me like a thief, there is no chance.

Gu Luming said that it would be enough to call the doctor home, and it would be hard to tell if he changed into regular clothes.

Song Yi raised his head again, and was awakened by Gu Luming's words.

Song Yi took out a cigarette and handed one to Gu Luming.After lighting a match, Gu Luming moved closer to light a cigarette with lowered eyebrows and downcast eyes.

You said, why is it so complicated to have a baby?Song Yichong exhaled a puff of smoke with a deep tone.

It's even more troublesome after the baby is born.Gu Luming said.

How do you know? You don't seem to have experience in this area.Song Yi looked at Gu Luming.

Gu Luming shook his head, it's my sister's child.After giving birth, she was so busy that her head grew big, and she lost about ten catties during the time she took care of the child.Babies, especially before one and a half years old, are the most vulnerable and the most troublesome.

Yes, raising children can be exhausting.Song Yi's eyes widened, and he said softly, as if he had anticipated that in the not-too-distant future, he would be in a hurry, full of crying babies in his daily life.But he chuckled again, and said to Gu Lvming, but you see such a small child, who is gradually able to walk, throws himself into your arms and calls daddy inarticulately.Very fulfilling.Saying that, Song Yi happily smashed the cigarette filter.

Gu Luming snorted, it doesn't look like you still have this habit.

Song Yi retorted, what, I am a father's love, a father's love!When my son is born, let you play.

Gu Luming said, it turns out that just letting a child play with others is also called fatherly love.

The two looked at each other and laughed together.

After staying all night, Song Yi and Gu Luming went home with some reluctance.

During this time, Liu Yan lived at her mother's house. During this period, the nanny was sent back, and Song Yi lived alone at home.

He went home and quietly smoked two cigarettes in the dark living room.A sigh dissipated in the smoke.

Later, Song Yituo found a female psychiatrist who had rich experience in dealing with prenatal depression in pregnant women, and invited her to Ruilin, and brought her to the home of her father-in-law and mother-in-law.Song Yi said that this is an obstetrician who came to give Liu Yan a physical examination.

Liu Yan has been pregnant for more than eight months, so she should go to the hospital for regular checkups.She is very thin, only her belly is straight, which makes people feel chilled.

Song Yi used the doctor to do a special examination for Liu Yan, and left the psychiatrist and Liu Yan alone in the same room on the grounds that it was not easy for outsiders to watch.Two hours later, the doctor came out and told Song Yi kindly with a smile that there was nothing wrong with Liu Yan's body, but she needed to keep up with her nutrition and walk around properly.The mother-in-law said yes, and ran into the house to see Liu Yan.Song Yi sent the doctor out, and the two started talking.

The doctor asked, "Her symptoms are already very serious, why did she start psychotherapy now?"

Song Yi smiled awkwardly, "I didn't find out earlier, but after I realized it, her parents didn't agree."

The doctor also smiled wryly, understanding very well.There are still many prejudices in big cities, and mental illness is even more distasteful in small places.Parents certainly don't want their children to go to the doctor for this reason.She explained that Song Yi often talked with Liu Yan in his daily life to stimulate her reaction nerves, "Do more things she likes to do. You are her husband, so you should spend more time with her. Depression patients are very fragile psychologically. , is also very pessimistic. Emotionally needs the protection of relatives and lovers."

Song Yi nodded repeatedly.

The medicine prescribed by the doctor was said by Song Yi to be a vitamin to trick Liu Yan into taking it, and of course the mother-in-law believed it.

The psychiatrist had an immediate effect.In the half month after that, Liu Yan became much more refreshed, able to laugh, and ate more.Some flesh came back from his body.

Song Yi finally felt relieved to let her live in her mother's house. He had a hunch that this child must be a son, so he would be so troublesome.