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There is a premise for me to accept Shi Qiang's plan and cooperate with commending the outstanding female representatives of Dayin.

It must be of practical help to improve the status of Dayin women.

Shi Qiang and the others may still be at the stage of exploring this "real" concept, but I am different, I am very clear about the requirements behind this concept.

I let Shi and Luo do the work, because I affirmed their abilities, and I also wanted to see their shortcomings through actual combat.I can say that I am familiar with this method of training subordinates.

In my previous life, I met a lot of new civil servants, and everyone was ignorant at the beginning. At this time, whether there is anyone who guides them correctly will have a great impact on their future.Although it is a bit exaggerated, I do have a good reputation as a mentor in the department. Many young people feel that they are not so lucky. When they first entered the agency, they met seniors like me.

This reputation is quite good, why should I not accept it?Sometimes I help other cadres to teach newcomers, and I can get some favors. If the popularity is good, my work can also be carried out.After all, the most common thing people do in poverty alleviation is to ask for money. This is disgusting everywhere. In addition, if you don’t find the right way to help the poor, you will lose money. Don’t let comrades in other departments owe me something and be thin-skinned to me , How can this appropriation be obtained?

I was able to lead a large group of people to do a good job in poverty alleviation. It is not because I have strong ability and I have two hands that can turn stones into gold.But it’s hard work for those who can, so I often move my nest, and once I moved to a very strange remote mountainous area.

The mountains and rivers here are beautiful, the traffic is not particularly blocked, and it is reasonable to say that they are not so poor that they have to rely on the state to help the poor, but people in this place can't make a fortune holding Baoshan.Because, the atmosphere in this place is bad.

It is very feudal, very backward thinking, and sexism is serious.There is also a very strange phenomenon. It is not easy for the villagers here to give birth to boys.As soon as you enter the village, the most you see are women.

Those who farm in the fields are women, those who chase and fight on the path are girls, and those who go up the mountain to chop firewood are women.As for the men in this village, they either sit under the trees and enjoy the breeze, or play cards huddled at home.

According to my understanding, women account for two-thirds of the population in this village. A family usually has two to three daughters before it is possible to have a son, and some families have no sons at all.Coupled with the patriarchal custom here, sons are valued, and sons are not easy to give birth to, and even more so. As long as a family has a son, it is pampered like a jewel, and even the husband will be extremely favored by his wife and daughter. Pay attention to.

To what extent has this relationship between sexes become deformed?Even if the man cheats, the wife of this family will bear with it for this rare man, and even acquiesce in the existence of the cheating partner.Even if the man is domineering at home and domestic violence against his wife and daughter, no one will dare to resist.I even heard that women in this village envied a woman in a family with few victims of domestic violence, thinking that she lived a happy life, and the woman looked even more satisfied.

This strange three views scared our whole group for a long time, and the little girl in the group was so shocked that her eyes almost fell out.

In such a place, there is a shortage of male labor, and women only know how to revolve around men. Every family has many children, is poor and does not want to make progress. Even if they raise high-quality and highly educated young people, some people have three views. The problem is that the other part of the Three Views is okay, and they refuse to return to this magical hometown again.

No one, no money, even me.

"And then? How did you solve the village's troubles and make the village rich?" Both Shi Qiang and Luo Chun put aside the matter of commending candidates and listening to me tell the story.

"This place is indeed a difficult point in poverty alleviation. The men here are basically abandoned. They love leisure, hate work and don't think about making progress. The only thing they are motivated to do is to lie on their wives, daughters and sisters to suck blood. The only women who can be the labor force are too humble. I feel like I can't do anything well without a man, even if outsiders know that her man is an idiot."

"However, at the beginning, we did not have such a deep understanding of the customs of this place. We still used our past experience to do this. Combining the local natural conditions and customs, we formulated a series of agricultural poverty alleviation measures." Said while recalling.

"Then, you failed?" Shi Qiang answered.

"Yes, we have failed, we have failed in the bad local patriarchal habits."

At that time, our working group formulated a short-term economic crop cultivation plan, and had already applied for special funds for poverty alleviation.The local village committee is also very supportive of our work, after all, who doesn't want to earn money.We also believe that the yearning of the village to get rid of poverty must overcome everything.But obviously, we were wrong, and it was ridiculously wrong.

Our funds will be distributed to households to promote economic crops and support every household to start planting.However, the feedback given by the farmers was very bad. As soon as they got the money, most of them planted an acre and a half of land without any hesitation, and spent the rest of the money.

The most inconceivable thing is that the money was spent on the enjoyment of the men in each household. The women in the family hardly struggled, so they provided the money to their husbands, sons, older brothers, younger brothers, Let them spend it on gambling, on electronics, or on so-called investments.

The most bizarre thing is that when we asked why these people did this, the man in the family said confidently, what do I do with the money my wife and daughter earn?If they can't make money, what do I need them for?The women in the family said that we can live a good life only by providing for the men, and there is no way to do this.

I think what people in this place want is not to help the poor, but to help the intellectuals.It's just out of my mind.

"Unexpectedly, there is such a person!" Shi Qiang couldn't believe it.

"Why is there no such person? One willing to fight and one willing to suffer. I have seen this kind of people a lot. Isn't that how my grandparents and aunts treated my uncle with all their heart and soul? Do you see what they got? They are still willing That." Luo Chun said disdainfully.

"But this is different. The women in that place are too selfless, and the men are too selfish!" Shi Qiang's family conditions are much better than Luo Chun's, and when she is not married, she is also the same as the male descendants of the family. Being favored is very difficult to understand.

"Indeed, as Luo Chun said, there is no substantial difference between the two, but the problems in Ah Chun's family involve more and represent more complicated human nature. Here we only talk about male and female issues." I said Make a sound to appease.

"Then, how did you solve these villagers whose mud can't support the wall?" Shi Qiang was distracted.

"Actually, the problems in this village cannot be solved by poverty alleviation, nor can I, a department in charge of poverty alleviation, solve them." I continued my narration.

Indeed, the problems in this village are seriously beyond the scope of my team.But our special poverty alleviation funds can't be wasted. Fortunately, this money has the prefix "special", which means that it can't be used for anything other than poverty alleviation.Because of the ignorance and ignorance of the villagers, the money was embezzled, and it was the villagers who were punished.

Because the amount is not particularly huge, it is basically confiscated and fined.This is a matter of course, but the villagers are collectively confused, and they really think that the money is theirs in their pockets.These villagers who suffered heavy losses resisted like crazy, and finally reached the point where they had to use law enforcement teams. During the process, personal injuries were caused, and the injured were law enforcement officers.

So the problem that could have been solved by fines has risen to violent incidents, and even detention can't solve the problem at all.What is even more reversible is that because this incident actually involved the vicious crimes of local villagers killing female infants and abducting and selling male infants.At this point, this is no longer a poverty alleviation issue, but a serious crime accident.At that time, the major media continued to follow up on this news, and people all over the country paid attention to it.

"Okay, that's the end of the story," I said.

Shi Qiang listened intently, and didn't realize until I finished speaking. She asked with some doubts: "What do you want to explain by telling us this story?"

"Where is Ah Chun? Do you understand?" Luo Chun has been indifferent since I started telling the story of the magical village. I guess she has some experience.

Sure enough, Luo Chun took a deep look at me and said, "I remember you said that patriarchy has largely been eliminated in your hometown, and women can also show their faces and live a free life. However, the woman in your story, Being ignorant and not aware of it, being persecuted is still grateful for the persecution's little alms."

"Indeed, I said that it is a fact that everyone in my hometown is equal, and extreme inequality is also a fact." I answered her this way.

"Isn't that ridiculous? It's obvious that we are pursuing equality, but we can't solve the inequality that has existed for many years. Isn't this contradictory?" Luo Chun's expression is no longer sweet, but much more gloomy.

Seeing this, Shi Qiang hesitated to speak, hesitated for a while, and decided to wait and see what happened.I sighed, messed up Luo Chun's bangs, and broke the gloomy atmosphere surrounding her: "Yes, this is what I want to tell you, even in my hometown, the seeds of civilization and equality have been planted for a hundred years , this kind of bad habits rooted in the hearts of the people from a long history is not easy to completely change, and how can we act too hastily?"

"You guys are outstanding. In just two months, you have allowed the noble women in Beijing to have a certain right to speak, and let the men see how strong women are, how dazzling they are. But, you forget that men can respond to the occasional Outstanding women express their admiration and love for their wives and daughters who have a little wisdom, but they will not allow women to perform too well, or even just radiate as strong a light as they do."

"Women who show excellence beyond their tolerance limit will only get slander and abuse. Men will denounce her as a witch, and women who are used to men's control will be like a demon, ridiculing outstanding women and displeasing men. , you can’t get happiness. Think about it for yourself, isn’t that the case?”

I asked the two of them, and after hearing what I said, both Shi Qiang and Luo Chun couldn't help thinking, and then Shi Qiang said sullenly: "That's true, in fact, the heroine who rescued her husband's family recently had a relationship with her husband. He left because her husband couldn't bear the fact that everyone kept mentioning that he was rescued by his wife."

Luo Chun also said depressingly: "There is also the proprietress of Lin's Pastry in Beijing. Her in-laws heard that she has made money, and they want to marry back the divorced daughter-in-law. Now she has not gotten rid of this group of shameless in-laws. People have received a lot of criticism."

I looked at them quietly, and there was something in my eyes, right, you see, I didn't mean it wrong.But Luo Chun was not convinced, and she said bravely, "It is precisely because of this that we should commend them in time, so that they have the confidence to resist oppression, right?"

"Then let everyone know your purpose. Some decent courtiers began to speak ill of you and asked me to divorce you so that I could find some virtuous and virtuous concubines. The reason I keep going on is that I was confused by beauty, no? A qualified monarch actually speaks for women." I continued Luo Chun's words.

"Yeah, it might not be like this." Luo Chun lacked confidence.

"Then, what can the emperor do?" Shi Qiang couldn't stand it any longer, grabbed Luo Chun who was still racking his brains to argue, and asked me aloud.

I stood up and stretched my muscles, walked around with my hands behind my back, and then slowly said under the expectation of the two: "The way is to let men also participate in your plan, so that they have nothing to say."

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