From the discussions of the princes, Han Jiao learned more about King Duan's symptoms.
Fortunately, Xie Xiu's symptoms of Asperger's syndrome and traumatic stress disorder are quite different.
Asperger's syndrome is a congenital physical defect, which can only be improved through long-term training and cannot be cured. However, traumatic stress disorder can be greatly alleviated or even completely cured through external intervention.
Being beaten by the sixth brother may not have brought huge psychological trauma to Xie Xiu, but because the beating was related to Xie Xiu's pain of losing his wet nurse. Every memory fragment in the process can trigger a series of events. The painful reaction made Xie Xiu unable to approach King Yan again.
When Han Jiao was studying psychology, she worked as a volunteer to help juvenile delinquents in a local public institution alleviate mental disorders caused by childhood trauma.
Those teenagers who are extremely aggressive are mostly in an environment without a sense of security for a long time in childhood, which leads to the overactivity of the amygdala in their brains, which is responsible for detecting danger, and they are in a state of fighting or fleeing at any time physiologically , so they are extremely sensitive to any red flags of suspected maliciousness.
Because the limbic system area of the brain that judges danger signals operates faster than the prefrontal cortex area responsible for rational analysis, the patient's anger may appear rational one step ahead, appearing reckless, irritable, and irrational.
When the danger is removed and the patient's mind resumes functioning, the patient may realize, through recall analysis, that he has overreacted and feel guilty about it.
In fact, the oversensitivity of the limbic system of patients with traumatic stress is a physiological problem, and it is not self-control by reason, so they often fall into a vicious circle of rage and self-blame.
In addition, such patients may often be accused of being "impulsive, unreasonable and bad-tempered" by people around them, and gradually develop self-loathing and social fear.
That is to say, a situation like Xie Xiu's self-isolation, extreme sensitivity, numbness and avoidance.
According to the memories of the princes, it can be concluded that before the death of the wet nurse, although Xie Xiu behaved weirdly and stupidly, he did not have any strange behaviors such as deliberately ignoring his brothers and yelling while hugging his head.
Asperger's syndrome is very different from typical autism. In theory, this kind of gifted patients are as willing to participate in social activities as ordinary people, but they are easy to offend because of their difficulty in understanding non-verbal information. people.
As long as Xie Xiu is freed from the fear, he can regain the meaning of life and go to the things he is interested in, instead of being selfless like now, enduring fear and pain for the sake of the ninth brother and the teacher, numb survive.
To heal the psychological trauma, one must first find out the source of Xie Xiu's pain.
The way the brain works is sometimes contradictory. In order to protect itself, major traumatic memories will be broken into fragments, making victims try to forget and avoid them. But as long as these fragments are not fully integrated, the brain will never truly forget them. Only Putting together all the memory fragments of fear and trying to understand the whole thing from the sidelines can truly free you from the pain.
Xie Xiu didn't want Xie Duo to be called someone else's brother. At first glance, he looked like a possessive maniac like a stinky brother, but Han Jiao felt that the actual reason might not be the case.
Xie Xiu was afraid of the identity of "brother" because of the beating of the sixth brother. This conflict destroyed his sense of trust in his brother.
He was worried that Xie Duo's feelings would be hurt by other "brothers" in the future, so he said "be careful, don't just call others brother".
Xie Xiu felt that only his elder brother would never hurt Xie Duo, and no one else could be trusted.
He had to restore his sense of security to the other brothers first.
The princes who are involved in party disputes cannot be invited, so they can only ask the old eight and ten and the salted fish boss for help.
"So, His Highness Prince Duan was quite cheerful before the age of 11?" Han Jiao looked at the Eighth Prince.
The eighth prince thought about it carefully, and corrected: "You can't say he is cheerful, he... how should I put it, Brother Seven was dumbfounded when he was young, and ignored strangers, but he talked a lot with my brother, and often called fourth brother The fifth brother was so angry that he didn't know how to repent after being scolded. He would do the same next time. The brothers had nothing to do with him, so they didn't play with him anymore. There are also the fourth and fifth children. At that time, they often Bully Old Seven."
Speaking of this, the Eighth Prince turned to look at the two younger brothers: "Do you remember what happened at that time? Lao Shi is too young, Lao Jiu still remembers it? The second brother didn't like Lao Qi before he left the palace. Fortunately, he Leaving the palace early, the fourth and fifth are afraid of the sixth brother, and dare not bully the seventh openly."
Han Jiao's eyes lit up, and he asked, "Will His Royal Highness King Yan protect King Duan in the past?"
Xie Duo lowered his head, as if he didn't want to talk about it.
"Yes." The eighth prince replied decisively: "At that time, the sixth brother is the best to the seventh brother, right? If you don't believe me, ask the ninth brother."
Han Jiao turned to look at the big boss.
Xie Duo looked sideways out of the window, deliberately avoiding his questioning gaze, and replied softly with an impatient look, "I don't remember."
Han Jiao hesitated to speak.
The big boss probably doesn't want to talk about the past. The two brothers who used to be harmonious have come to this point, which makes the big boss unhappy.
The gap between past and reality is often cruel.
But this gap is good news for Han Jiao's treatment plan, which shows that before the trauma happened, King Yan had given King Duan genuine care.
With this condition, the treatment will be much simpler. As long as Xie Xiu is recalled of the care and love of the sixth brother, the treatment effect will be twice the result with half the effort.
"I understand." Han Jiao took a deep breath, and seeing the three princes looking at him curiously, he announced, "His Royal Highness Duan Wang is still sad about the past. He will suddenly hit someone, he became like this because he was sad, we can't let him be sad like this for the rest of his life."
Several princes reacted differently.
Xie Jing smiled awkwardly.
Xie Duo bowed his head coldly.
Because of his young age, Xie An hadn't had much contact with Lao Qi, so he had a little expectation and asked happily: "Can we help?"
From the reactions of the eighth and ninth princes, it can be seen that the princes who are familiar with Prince Duan are completely desperate.
The brothers must have tried a lot to restore King Duan to normal, but it didn't work, and the more they tried, the worse it became.
Han Jiao immediately put on a confident look: "Of course I can help. Weichen has treated patients who behaved abnormally due to the death of their relatives, and all of them have been cured."
"This... can it be cured?" Xie Jing looked surprised: "Is there a prescription?"
"No need to drink medicine." Han Jiao said solemnly: "Your Highness needs to cooperate with His Highness Duanwang to play some games. Generally speaking, twenty games will improve, and forty to eighty times the effect will be significant and even cured. .”
Xie An was pleasantly surprised: "Playing games can also cure diseases? What game? Hurry up and teach me, sir!"
Han Jiao immediately took out the first healing game he designed from his sleeve, and was about to explain it to the princes, when he noticed the big boss suddenly stood up from the corner of his eye, turned around and left.
"Your Highness?" Han Jiao hurriedly turned his head and called the big boss: "Where are you going?"
Xie Duo stopped but didn't look back, and said in a low voice, "Don't mess around, Brother Seven is not sick, he just has that personality, and no one can change it."
"Didn't I say he was sick!" Han Jiao hurriedly got up and followed, stood in front of Xie Duo and explained, "He is injured. Does the injured person need treatment?"
Xie Duo took a deep breath and turned his head away.
Han Jiao was not familiar with such a stinky brother, such a desperate young man with a negative attitude who refused to give him a look to respond.
Xie Duo is the only one who maintains brotherhood with King Duan, and Xie Duo is the one who tries to change Xie Xiu the most, but every time he tries to hurt Xie Xiu, it can only bring Xie Duo deeper despair and guilt.
He had come to terms with it, and persuading him to try again would only evoke in him the anguish of hopelessness and guilt.
Xie Duo bypassed Han Jiao and walked out of the academy.
It was unexpected that Xie Duo would be so resistant to treatment before, and Han Jiao was about to chase him out, but was pulled back by the people behind him.
"Mr. Xiaobai." Xie Jing blocked Han Jiao's way nervously, and reminded: "Lao Jiu is angry, don't talk to him at this time, he is very strong, he can break you up if he touches you."
Han Jiao frowned and said, "Why is Your Highness suddenly angry?"
"I forgot to tell you." Xie Jing explained: "You can't say that Brother Seven is sick in front of Lao Jiu, and you can't say that he is stupid, you can only say that Brother Seven has a weird temper."
Han Jiao understood, closed his eyes depressedly, and explained anxiously: "I'm not saying that Prince Duan is sick, I mean..."
"I understand, I understand." Xie Jing felt the same way: "Lao Qi is indeed abnormal, we all know it, but Lao Jiu won't let you say that, sir, forgive me, I will make up for you on behalf of Jiu Di."
Xie An also got up and came over to comfort Han Jiao: "Sir, don't be sad, Brother Jiu is like this, he is usually very talkative, but whenever someone calls Brother Seven a fool or sick, Brother Nine will be very angry. It is estimated that he has been beaten now, but fortunately he is gone, you must not chase after him, wait until he calms down."
Han Jiao nodded and thanked the two princes for their persuasion, and then asked them both: "I really can restore His Royal Highness Duan Wang's character before the age of 11, do your Highnesses believe it?"
"Trust me! Mister is the best!" Xie An has always been the most face-saving and good boy, after all, young children are easy to fool.
Xie Jing looked a little embarrassed: "Sir, do what you can, it is best to be able to restore nature, but there is no need to force it."
Han Jiao said solemnly: "But this matter must have the cooperation of the Ninth Prince."
The two princes were silent, they both knew that this matter was something that Lao Jiu couldn't touch, who would dare to persuade him to participate in the "treatment" of King Duan?
"I want to have a talk with him in person." Han Jiao looked at death as if he were home: "Please trouble your Highnesses, Rong Chen, to go to the South Third Institute."
"Don't! Sir..." Xie An hurriedly said: "Ninth Brother is very scary... You haven't seen it before, we can take you to see Seventh Brother, Seventh Brother is fierce, we can stop him, Ninth Brother If you get offended, calling the entire imperial army may not be able to protect you..."
Han Jiao swallowed tears into his stomach.
Who said he hadn't seen it before? Han Jiao is very familiar with the "hell-level boss who took the head of a general among millions of troops" in the original book!
But Xie Duo had to help in this matter, because King Duan only felt safe with Xie Duo. Of course, Mr. Li Ge was not bad, but could Han Jiao let Mr. Li know that he wanted to restore the relationship between King Duan and his brothers?
There is no way out!
The Ni Lin of the big boss has to be touched this time, and...
And in fact, Han Jiao felt that Xie Duo would not really fight with him, he didn't know where his confidence came from, maybe it was simply tired of work.
The author has something to say: Cotton essence should be more confident, as long as the ambition of marrying a third husband is not exposed, the big boss should be able to talk (
Fortunately, Xie Xiu's symptoms of Asperger's syndrome and traumatic stress disorder are quite different.
Asperger's syndrome is a congenital physical defect, which can only be improved through long-term training and cannot be cured. However, traumatic stress disorder can be greatly alleviated or even completely cured through external intervention.
Being beaten by the sixth brother may not have brought huge psychological trauma to Xie Xiu, but because the beating was related to Xie Xiu's pain of losing his wet nurse. Every memory fragment in the process can trigger a series of events. The painful reaction made Xie Xiu unable to approach King Yan again.
When Han Jiao was studying psychology, she worked as a volunteer to help juvenile delinquents in a local public institution alleviate mental disorders caused by childhood trauma.
Those teenagers who are extremely aggressive are mostly in an environment without a sense of security for a long time in childhood, which leads to the overactivity of the amygdala in their brains, which is responsible for detecting danger, and they are in a state of fighting or fleeing at any time physiologically , so they are extremely sensitive to any red flags of suspected maliciousness.
Because the limbic system area of the brain that judges danger signals operates faster than the prefrontal cortex area responsible for rational analysis, the patient's anger may appear rational one step ahead, appearing reckless, irritable, and irrational.
When the danger is removed and the patient's mind resumes functioning, the patient may realize, through recall analysis, that he has overreacted and feel guilty about it.
In fact, the oversensitivity of the limbic system of patients with traumatic stress is a physiological problem, and it is not self-control by reason, so they often fall into a vicious circle of rage and self-blame.
In addition, such patients may often be accused of being "impulsive, unreasonable and bad-tempered" by people around them, and gradually develop self-loathing and social fear.
That is to say, a situation like Xie Xiu's self-isolation, extreme sensitivity, numbness and avoidance.
According to the memories of the princes, it can be concluded that before the death of the wet nurse, although Xie Xiu behaved weirdly and stupidly, he did not have any strange behaviors such as deliberately ignoring his brothers and yelling while hugging his head.
Asperger's syndrome is very different from typical autism. In theory, this kind of gifted patients are as willing to participate in social activities as ordinary people, but they are easy to offend because of their difficulty in understanding non-verbal information. people.
As long as Xie Xiu is freed from the fear, he can regain the meaning of life and go to the things he is interested in, instead of being selfless like now, enduring fear and pain for the sake of the ninth brother and the teacher, numb survive.
To heal the psychological trauma, one must first find out the source of Xie Xiu's pain.
The way the brain works is sometimes contradictory. In order to protect itself, major traumatic memories will be broken into fragments, making victims try to forget and avoid them. But as long as these fragments are not fully integrated, the brain will never truly forget them. Only Putting together all the memory fragments of fear and trying to understand the whole thing from the sidelines can truly free you from the pain.
Xie Xiu didn't want Xie Duo to be called someone else's brother. At first glance, he looked like a possessive maniac like a stinky brother, but Han Jiao felt that the actual reason might not be the case.
Xie Xiu was afraid of the identity of "brother" because of the beating of the sixth brother. This conflict destroyed his sense of trust in his brother.
He was worried that Xie Duo's feelings would be hurt by other "brothers" in the future, so he said "be careful, don't just call others brother".
Xie Xiu felt that only his elder brother would never hurt Xie Duo, and no one else could be trusted.
He had to restore his sense of security to the other brothers first.
The princes who are involved in party disputes cannot be invited, so they can only ask the old eight and ten and the salted fish boss for help.
"So, His Highness Prince Duan was quite cheerful before the age of 11?" Han Jiao looked at the Eighth Prince.
The eighth prince thought about it carefully, and corrected: "You can't say he is cheerful, he... how should I put it, Brother Seven was dumbfounded when he was young, and ignored strangers, but he talked a lot with my brother, and often called fourth brother The fifth brother was so angry that he didn't know how to repent after being scolded. He would do the same next time. The brothers had nothing to do with him, so they didn't play with him anymore. There are also the fourth and fifth children. At that time, they often Bully Old Seven."
Speaking of this, the Eighth Prince turned to look at the two younger brothers: "Do you remember what happened at that time? Lao Shi is too young, Lao Jiu still remembers it? The second brother didn't like Lao Qi before he left the palace. Fortunately, he Leaving the palace early, the fourth and fifth are afraid of the sixth brother, and dare not bully the seventh openly."
Han Jiao's eyes lit up, and he asked, "Will His Royal Highness King Yan protect King Duan in the past?"
Xie Duo lowered his head, as if he didn't want to talk about it.
"Yes." The eighth prince replied decisively: "At that time, the sixth brother is the best to the seventh brother, right? If you don't believe me, ask the ninth brother."
Han Jiao turned to look at the big boss.
Xie Duo looked sideways out of the window, deliberately avoiding his questioning gaze, and replied softly with an impatient look, "I don't remember."
Han Jiao hesitated to speak.
The big boss probably doesn't want to talk about the past. The two brothers who used to be harmonious have come to this point, which makes the big boss unhappy.
The gap between past and reality is often cruel.
But this gap is good news for Han Jiao's treatment plan, which shows that before the trauma happened, King Yan had given King Duan genuine care.
With this condition, the treatment will be much simpler. As long as Xie Xiu is recalled of the care and love of the sixth brother, the treatment effect will be twice the result with half the effort.
"I understand." Han Jiao took a deep breath, and seeing the three princes looking at him curiously, he announced, "His Royal Highness Duan Wang is still sad about the past. He will suddenly hit someone, he became like this because he was sad, we can't let him be sad like this for the rest of his life."
Several princes reacted differently.
Xie Jing smiled awkwardly.
Xie Duo bowed his head coldly.
Because of his young age, Xie An hadn't had much contact with Lao Qi, so he had a little expectation and asked happily: "Can we help?"
From the reactions of the eighth and ninth princes, it can be seen that the princes who are familiar with Prince Duan are completely desperate.
The brothers must have tried a lot to restore King Duan to normal, but it didn't work, and the more they tried, the worse it became.
Han Jiao immediately put on a confident look: "Of course I can help. Weichen has treated patients who behaved abnormally due to the death of their relatives, and all of them have been cured."
"This... can it be cured?" Xie Jing looked surprised: "Is there a prescription?"
"No need to drink medicine." Han Jiao said solemnly: "Your Highness needs to cooperate with His Highness Duanwang to play some games. Generally speaking, twenty games will improve, and forty to eighty times the effect will be significant and even cured. .”
Xie An was pleasantly surprised: "Playing games can also cure diseases? What game? Hurry up and teach me, sir!"
Han Jiao immediately took out the first healing game he designed from his sleeve, and was about to explain it to the princes, when he noticed the big boss suddenly stood up from the corner of his eye, turned around and left.
"Your Highness?" Han Jiao hurriedly turned his head and called the big boss: "Where are you going?"
Xie Duo stopped but didn't look back, and said in a low voice, "Don't mess around, Brother Seven is not sick, he just has that personality, and no one can change it."
"Didn't I say he was sick!" Han Jiao hurriedly got up and followed, stood in front of Xie Duo and explained, "He is injured. Does the injured person need treatment?"
Xie Duo took a deep breath and turned his head away.
Han Jiao was not familiar with such a stinky brother, such a desperate young man with a negative attitude who refused to give him a look to respond.
Xie Duo is the only one who maintains brotherhood with King Duan, and Xie Duo is the one who tries to change Xie Xiu the most, but every time he tries to hurt Xie Xiu, it can only bring Xie Duo deeper despair and guilt.
He had come to terms with it, and persuading him to try again would only evoke in him the anguish of hopelessness and guilt.
Xie Duo bypassed Han Jiao and walked out of the academy.
It was unexpected that Xie Duo would be so resistant to treatment before, and Han Jiao was about to chase him out, but was pulled back by the people behind him.
"Mr. Xiaobai." Xie Jing blocked Han Jiao's way nervously, and reminded: "Lao Jiu is angry, don't talk to him at this time, he is very strong, he can break you up if he touches you."
Han Jiao frowned and said, "Why is Your Highness suddenly angry?"
"I forgot to tell you." Xie Jing explained: "You can't say that Brother Seven is sick in front of Lao Jiu, and you can't say that he is stupid, you can only say that Brother Seven has a weird temper."
Han Jiao understood, closed his eyes depressedly, and explained anxiously: "I'm not saying that Prince Duan is sick, I mean..."
"I understand, I understand." Xie Jing felt the same way: "Lao Qi is indeed abnormal, we all know it, but Lao Jiu won't let you say that, sir, forgive me, I will make up for you on behalf of Jiu Di."
Xie An also got up and came over to comfort Han Jiao: "Sir, don't be sad, Brother Jiu is like this, he is usually very talkative, but whenever someone calls Brother Seven a fool or sick, Brother Nine will be very angry. It is estimated that he has been beaten now, but fortunately he is gone, you must not chase after him, wait until he calms down."
Han Jiao nodded and thanked the two princes for their persuasion, and then asked them both: "I really can restore His Royal Highness Duan Wang's character before the age of 11, do your Highnesses believe it?"
"Trust me! Mister is the best!" Xie An has always been the most face-saving and good boy, after all, young children are easy to fool.
Xie Jing looked a little embarrassed: "Sir, do what you can, it is best to be able to restore nature, but there is no need to force it."
Han Jiao said solemnly: "But this matter must have the cooperation of the Ninth Prince."
The two princes were silent, they both knew that this matter was something that Lao Jiu couldn't touch, who would dare to persuade him to participate in the "treatment" of King Duan?
"I want to have a talk with him in person." Han Jiao looked at death as if he were home: "Please trouble your Highnesses, Rong Chen, to go to the South Third Institute."
"Don't! Sir..." Xie An hurriedly said: "Ninth Brother is very scary... You haven't seen it before, we can take you to see Seventh Brother, Seventh Brother is fierce, we can stop him, Ninth Brother If you get offended, calling the entire imperial army may not be able to protect you..."
Han Jiao swallowed tears into his stomach.
Who said he hadn't seen it before? Han Jiao is very familiar with the "hell-level boss who took the head of a general among millions of troops" in the original book!
But Xie Duo had to help in this matter, because King Duan only felt safe with Xie Duo. Of course, Mr. Li Ge was not bad, but could Han Jiao let Mr. Li know that he wanted to restore the relationship between King Duan and his brothers?
There is no way out!
The Ni Lin of the big boss has to be touched this time, and...
And in fact, Han Jiao felt that Xie Duo would not really fight with him, he didn't know where his confidence came from, maybe it was simply tired of work.
The author has something to say: Cotton essence should be more confident, as long as the ambition of marrying a third husband is not exposed, the big boss should be able to talk (
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