Be gentle

After seeing Xiao Zhen, Bai Wenxue was filled with emotions. Although it is not easy to comment on other people's family affairs, she also hopes that things will have a happy ending.

During lunch, everyone expressed condolences to Hua Ran, which made her very embarrassed.And when Xu Chen came to say hello, she remembered Bai Shuyi's words.

Xu Chen has a crush on her, even now she is not willing to believe it.After all, the age and family background of the two are too far apart, and there has been no in-depth communication.But since Bai Shu got jealous of him, she couldn't help but be more serious.

In addition to the hot springs, the hot spring villa has many other entertainment and leisure facilities. Jiang Yizhen came to ask Huaran and the others to go to the spa together. Bai Wenxue and Meng Yun were very interested, and the children wanted to play in the game room.

Huaran was somewhat resistant to spa treatment, so she rejected Jiang Yizhen and the others, and planned to stay with Bai Shuyi in the afternoon.The two of them had just finished exchanging their hearts in the morning, and Bai Shu and her were so sticky, it was very embarrassing.

Naturally, it was impossible for Xu Chen to go to any spa, and he went to play games with the children.

Although Bai Shuyi was a bit jealous of him, he didn't hate him, and he had just been dyed and smoothed by flowers, so he didn't have much reaction to Xu Chen's colleagues.

Xu Chen often plays games with his nieces and nieces at home, and he is very familiar with these.After Bai Shuyi played a few rounds with him, he completely forgot about his rival in love.

Huaran is not very good at the game, she stood aside and saw the two of them having a great time playing, it was very funny.Gu Wan took Su Yan to play with the dancing machine, while Wen Zhiyun was fighting with the claw machine.Like Huaran, Bai Chao likes to be quiet and doesn't like to move. Seeing a few friends playing crazy, he took the initiative to help them buy drinks.

After Huaran found out, he went with him to the vending machine.

Bai Chao was shy, so Huaran took the initiative.She remembered that Bai Shuyi had mentioned that Bai Chao wanted to learn embroidery, so she just took this opportunity to ask him.

"Chaochao, Xiaobai said earlier that you want to learn embroidery, is that right?"

Bai Chao was extremely embarrassed, but still nodded firmly, "Well... I really like it after watching the game. Sister Xiaoran, you are so good, I, I yearn for you very much."

For Huaran, it is very gratifying that someone is interested in embroidery and wants to learn from her.

"I am not qualified to be a master now, but if you are really interested, I can teach you some basic things. It's just that the embroidery works look gorgeous and beautiful, but the process of learning and making will be very tedious and hard. It still takes a lot of practice.”

"I, I know, I have been paying attention to the competition, so I understand that embroidery is very hard... But I want to learn, sister Xiaoran, as long as you are willing to teach me, I will definitely not give up halfway."

Bai Chao was a little anxious, showing a rare positivity.

Huaran has known Bai Chao not for a short time, but in terms of personality, it is really suitable for learning embroidery. She is calm and patient, and her thoughts are also very delicate.

"Okay, okay, I believe in you. It's just that you are still studying, let's take it slowly without affecting your studies."

Bai Chao was excited and happy, and thanked repeatedly: "Thank you, thank you, sister Xiaoran, I will work hard! I will take care of my studies, and I will persevere to the end."

"I believe you can."

After the two bought drinks and returned to the game room, Bai Chao was still excited and had a lot of conversations with Huaran.Huaran knew that he was embroidering cross-stitch, and said that he wanted to take a look when he went back. Unexpectedly, Bai Chao brought one with him this time, so he immediately got up and went back to his room to get it.

Hua Ran didn't stop him when she saw him in a hurry, and it was obvious that Bai Chao really liked these things.

Bai Chao feels that he is very lucky. He has friends who understand him, a girlfriend who doesn't mind him, and a teacher who encourages him.He truly felt that he was getting happier and more courageous, and those troubles seemed to be buried in the deepest part of his heart.

He went back to the room and took the cross-stitch and came out full of joy, but he ran into someone in the corridor after walking a few steps.

Kevin walked towards him, saw him staring blankly at him, and greeted him kindly: "Isn't this...Xiao Baibai's friend? Huh? What are you holding in your hand?"

Bai Chao was a little flustered, so he plucked up the courage to show him what was in his hand.

"Yes, it's cross stitch..."

Kevin looked at the work in his hand carefully, and said in surprise: "Wow, it's a good work, did you embroider it?"

Bai Chao blushed and nodded, "I want to learn embroidery from sister Xiaoran, so, so..."

Kevin clapped his hands suddenly and said, "You like embroidery? So you watched our show, right? Ah, then you must know me!"

"Um……"

Kevin patted him on the shoulder and encouraged him: "Xiaoran is very good, you will be fine if you learn embroidery from her."

Bai Chao's eyes were a little sour, and he asked softly with the hot eye sockets: "Mr. Kevin, don't you think it's not good for boys to like embroidery?"

It was the first conversation, and the other party didn't know him at all, but he was able to encourage him so sincerely, neither perfunctory him because of his young age, nor did he think it was strange that boys like embroidery.

"It has nothing to do with boys or girls. Don't you see that there are men among the contestants? As long as you work hard, both men and women can succeed in a field."

Bai Chao bit his lip and nodded, hesitant to speak. Kevin realized that he actually had something else to say, and waited patiently for him.

"Ms. Kevin... Can I, can I ask you a question? I apologize if I offend you, but, but I really want to know... I'm at a loss..."

Bai Chao will follow the Silk Dream Cup every episode, and when Kevin confessed his experience in the show, he was deeply shocked.

How much courage and pain does it take to physically change gender?

This thought vaguely flashed in his mind, but he never dared to think deeply about it.

"Is it about... changing gender?"

While not every transsexual has obvious traits, Bai Chao is clearly one of the easier to spot.Especially Kevin himself has had such an experience, so it is easy to guess this.

"Um……"

Kevin can see that Bai Chao is a bit introverted, but he doesn't know whether his personality is innate or acquired.

"It's not convenient to talk here, do you want to go to my room and talk? It won't be long."

Bai Chao just hesitated for a moment, nodded and agreed, this matter is really important to him.

Kevin is very good at taking care of people. After inviting Bai Chao into the room, he kept talking to him so that he would not be too nervous.

Bai Chao didn't dare to look around, but he still saw a lot of medicines on the counter.

Kevin poured him a glass of water and couldn't help laughing when he saw his eyes: "Don't be nervous, just chat casually, what do you want to know?"

Bai Chao relaxed a little because of his gentle attitude, and took a sip of water from the water glass before opening his mouth slowly.

"Mr. Kevin, can you tell me why you chose to be transgender?"

Kevin smiled, "If you ask why, then I can only answer for myself. If you ask why, then I can tell you... I want to be with the one I love."

"The person you love... Does he, he not accept your original gender? Then you don't think that you..."

Bai Chao seemed a little disappointed.

"Chaochao... I think Xiaobai and the others call you that, so I'll call you that for now. The matter between me and my wife can't be explained in just one or two sentences, and it's not really constructive to you. I can only say a few words as a person who has experienced it.”

"Um……"

"First of all, you have to make it clear that this matter of sex change must be for yourself. Only you can decide and be responsible for yourself. What I just said may have misunderstood you. Although my lover did use this reason, it is not because It's my gender that doesn't accept me. And before I met her, I was... just as confused about it as you are."

"I couldn't accept the constraints others put on me about gender, and then I started to hate women's bodies. She made me accept that me. I don't know if you are like me, because some people really can't accept or even hate themselves. biological sex."

When Bai Chao was in the most pain, he would think almost every day why he was not born a girl.He does often fail to face his body, and is often ashamed of it.I can't show my breasts like other boys, and I can't cope with some of the natural reactions of puberty.

But in terms of disgust, it doesn't seem to be that serious.

"Transgender was a choice for me, I wouldn't put it in a noble way, but I thought it through and have no regrets."

Bai Chao nodded.

Kevin continued: "Secondly, you must also understand that sex change is not a simple and easy thing. It is not only the pain during the operation, but also the long-term medication and possible health problems after the operation. Of course, there are also other people's incomprehension, Arguments with family and all that."

"You have to think carefully about which side you can bear. After all, the essence of many choices in the world is to choose the easier side in pain."

Bai Chao's expression was a little heavy when he heard this. Kevin saw him silent, and laughed, "I said this in the hope that you would be more cautious, but in fact things are not that bad, are they? I can see that you have a group of very good people. My friend, your sister also understands you very well. No matter what decision you make in the end, I hope you can enjoy life well. Love the people around you, and love yourself.”

The author has something to say: This chapter is dedicated to the little angels of the Bai Dynasty.