tell me

——I am a very face-saving person, but it has brought me a lot of distress.

Because of saving face, I missed many opportunities for promotion and salary increase; because of saving face, my family relationship was extremely disharmonious, and I often slapped my face in the family to pretend to be fat. No matter how difficult the situation is, I will not tell others, just to maintain a delicate and beautiful appearance.

I live so tired, not only tired but also useless, but I really can't get rid of it.

——First of all, it is good to save face, which means you have to be strong, responsible and self-disciplined.

But I think you need to make it clear that properly giving up face does not mean abandoning dignity, nor does it mean that you bow to others.At the level of interpersonal relationships, this is a kind of tolerance rather than a show of weakness, and it is more deterrent when it really touches the bottom line.

In terms of social relations, as long as it is not a matter of principle, try to fight for what is beneficial to you.Because you can only succeed if you fight for it, and only if you succeed can you have the right to speak, and only if you have the right to speak can you not be afraid of other people's comments-at least on the surface, they are all respectful to you, and you are also qualified to punish them.

In fact, with all due respect, no one will pay special attention to you except the people you are close to, and you can do whatever you want with the people who are really close to you.There is no need to save face in front of strangers, even if you lose face, you can't remember it; the affection between acquaintances is controlled to a certain extent, and you can hold back small things by yourself, and only others will help you with big things.

Finally, remember that the face of ordinary people can't solve anything, not even credit.

**

It was almost evening when the two left the gymnasium, and the sky was still bright, but the moon, which was whiter than the sky, had already hung out, hanging low and low on the roof of the building, with an astonishingly round shape.

Like a ruffian, Lu Yinke was carrying a schoolbag that was a color darker than his clothes on one shoulder, and rubbed his arm against Du Yu's, sticking to him as he walked forward.The colors of the upper bodies of the two are distinct, and their styles and temperaments are also very different, just like a seasoned rock bass player entangled with an ignorant and frail scholar.

"It's the middle of the month again..." Lu Yinke looked up at the disc in the sky, and suddenly changed the topic, "Hey baby, I said I sent you so many WeChat messages, did you read them? "

"I didn't read it, it's annoying." Wen Ruo's little scholar didn't even lift his eyes, "Don't call me that."

"The chairman?" Lu Yinke mumbled twice, "It was used to tease you before, but now it's a bit..."

"That's right!" He suddenly realized, "You are still my elder brother Yuyu."

Du Yu finally gave him two eyes, "Okay, brother Keji."

Satisfied, Lu Yinke swayed his body and bumped him twice, the corners of his mouth seemed to be raised to the sky.But before he shut up for a few seconds, he started chattering again, and opened his mouth coyly.

"By the way, that... Du Yu, love letter... what do you think?"

Hearing the word "love letter", Du Yuwei's face under his hat secretly blushed a little, so he turned his head and coughed softly, "The word is too ugly."

Upon hearing this, Lu Yinke immediately became unhappy, "What do you know? It's called Lu's Cursive! In the future, you will have to recognize this font when you sign a million-dollar order!"

"Just you?" Du Yu was amused by him, his cheeks puffed up a little like a little hedgehog, "Then you go on."

"No, but to be honest, how do I write my love letter?" Lu Yinke kicked a stone on the side of the road, and the small stone bounced and flew far away, as if it had been splashed on the ground, "This is my love letter." It's the first time I'm writing a love letter, even if it's not good, you can't scold me."

He waited for two seconds, but still didn't get a response, so he turned sideways and stood in front of the white-clothed scholar, acting like a rascal molesting a boy from a good family, "Say it quickly, I won't let you go if you don't tell me."

Du Yu was too lazy to reach out to push him, but it was too naive and embarrassing to be stuck in the middle of the road, so he reluctantly answered with a specious tone in a cold tone.

"It makes people angry."

"Angry?" Lu Yinke's back steps stagnated, "Why? Is it because I didn't hand it over to you personally?"

"Oh, please understand this. At that time, you didn't answer me a word, and I didn't see me when I looked for you. I was afraid that you would tear me up in person." He explained, "Don't worry about it because of this." You get angry with me for trivial things, I am so obedient, and I have been worried for a long time."

Du Yu remained silent and did not make any follow-up explanations, as if he had tacitly agreed that he was angry at this, but the two hands in the one-piece pocket got mixed up in a place where no one could see, and no one knew.

They went to the cafeteria together. The cafeteria was extremely crowded today, almost all the seats were gone. After searching three times, they found two vacant seats next to a young couple.

Few people would sit in the seat next to the young lovers, because they are afraid of the shock, and they don't know whether they are eating rice or dog food.But Lu Yinke is not afraid, they are also lovers, so they just sit together to see who should be separated from whom.It doesn't matter to Du Yu, it doesn't matter where he sits, as long as he can eat.

He ordered fast food this time, because he didn't need to show off in front of Lu Yinke any more, so he even skipped the meat dishes, which was so light that he couldn't arouse his appetite.Instead, Lu Yinke brought over a large bowl of spicy hotpot, which was full of meat products.

"Just eat this little? You're not fat, don't lose weight." The boy next door said to the girl.

Lu Yinke took a big spoon and began to add meat to Du Yu's dinner plate, "I know you can eat spicy food, so I ordered medium spicy food. Eat more, you are too thin, and it doesn't feel good to hold."

Of course, the last sentence was whispered in a volume that only the two of them could hear. He didn't want to be left alone in the cafeteria by Du Yu again.

The boy next to him looked at Lu Yinke with a strange look, and his eyes drifted back, as if unwilling to be outdone, he said to his girlfriend, "I'll go upstairs to buy a cup of milk tea with you later."

When Lu Yinke heard this, he bit his chopsticks, and suddenly spoke in an excited tone, "By the way, let's go to the movies this Saturday. There's a very exciting suspense movie recently. I invite you."

The boy next door glanced at him again.

Du Yu ate the food unmoved, picked up a beef ball that Lu Yinke gave him, took a bite and tasted it, he thought it was not bad, and swallowed it in two mouthfuls.

"Not on Saturday, I have a part-time job."

"You still have a part-time job? Aren't you always with..." Lu Yinke almost bit his own tongue, and quickly swallowed it back, "Aren't you talking to me all the time, how can I treat you badly?" A little guilty.

A young couple next to them finally couldn't take it anymore, packed up their dinner plates in embarrassment, picked up their schoolbags and fled quickly. Only the girl quietly looked back at their silhouettes and smiled inexplicably twice.

Du Yu raised his eyes, glanced at Lu Yinke lightly, picked up another beef ball and chewed it in his mouth.

"Happy?"

Lu Yinke smiled and pretended to be stupid and stupefied, "Huh? What did you say? I don't understand why you're not happy." He put down his chopsticks and stared at his lover for dinner. .”

As soon as he finished speaking, he laughed again, his two canine teeth were sunny and playful, vaguely and a little tempting, "Hey, it's really embarrassing to say this word..."

"Yes, but AA." Du Yu finished eating, took out a tissue and wiped his mouth, and passed one to Lu Yinke, "I'm surprised that you still know how to be embarrassed."

Lu Yinke paused as he took the tissue, "Damn it, just now I thought you were going to say 'Yes, but you need to pay extra', it scared me to death."

Du Yu stood up with the dinner plate in his hand, leaned over Lu Yinke who was still sitting on the chair, the corner of his mouth suddenly raised an arc, and the white decorative light ball above his head illuminated his face like a god descending from heaven.

"Do you think it's useful to add money to things I don't want to do?"

Lu Yinke was stunned for two seconds, watching his back as he went away, and suddenly ruthlessly clenched the napkin in his hand and threw it into a bowl.There were a few rays of brilliance in his eyes, and the corners of his mouth trembled even though his nails were deeply embedded in his palms.

"Damn..."

He whispered almost gritting his teeth.

The sky had completely darkened, and a gloom enveloped everything.As soon as Lu Yinke could see, there were a few wisps of torn cotton-like thin clouds in the distance, an unreal beauty completely enveloped him, and he couldn't help being in a trance.

He suddenly realized that he was exactly the same as this sky.The dark and gloomy sky was his state of mind, and the tattered clouds were his thoughts.The moonlight in the low sky was undisturbed, still bright and soft, emitting a faint cold light that was small but enough to illuminate one side, just like Du Yu.

The moonlight will gradually fade and illuminate his heart, and he also wants to hold the moonlight in his arms like the sky forever until dawn.

He thought again that he kissed Du Yu today, deep and shallow, several times.Du Yu even took the initiative to kiss him. Although he had a wonderful intention of revenge, his glass jar was already filled with sweetness, which was something he never dared to think about before.

"Do you have anything else to do tonight?" Lu Yinke secretly put his right hand into Du Yu's wide one-piece pocket taking advantage of the darkness.

His hand was very hot, but Du Yu's hand was cold, as if he couldn't warm it no matter how he covered it, so he gently pulled it aside, quietly put his five fingers into his hand, and then carefully closed it.

There were not many pedestrians, and students came and went, but they didn't have the energy to pay attention to what the two men were doing on the road.Du Yu didn't chase him away, but silently put the other fingertip on Lu Yinke's fiery five fingers.

This is not an easy answer, it is a signal!A signal worth a thousand words!

Just like the little hedgehog not only stretched out its soft body to him, but also stretched out its short arms. The next step is to climb up on him dodgingly.

His expression darkened a bit, and he unconsciously clenched Du Yu's right hand even tighter.

"Well, there is something to do." Du Yu moved his hands. He didn't know why Lu Yinke suddenly used his strength. "The party school team has to rehearse a stage play, and we have to rehearse at night."

"...Formalism. I didn't participate, I'm so bored." Lu Yinke muttered dissatisfiedly, "Then I'll just watch you rehearse."

"No need, you go back first, it will be a long time, at worst I will..." Du Yu hesitated for a while, and finally whispered, "I will look for you when the time comes."

Lu Yinke chuckled lightly, with a nasal sound in his breath, his right thumb slightly rubbing against the knuckle on his little finger, "What do you want to find me at night? You can't say this to others, huh?" He paused for a few seconds after saying this, "It's okay, I have a lot of time, and I spent too little time with you before, so I want to see you more."

Du Yu didn't think of that layer at all, and his fingertips suddenly felt a little stiff.He pursed his lips with trembling eyelashes, and ruthlessly threw Lu Yinke's warm hands out of his pocket.

"...Then I'll do as you please." He said in a nonchalant tone.