tell me

——I am easily affected by what others say, and I can't learn to say no.For example, a few days ago, a senior who had always had a good relationship with me asked me out, but in fact, my relationship with him has always been just a netizen relationship, and I don't even know what he looks like.And what he likes are very sunny, like chorus operas and the like. I am very lowly and only like to stay at home, watch dramas, read novels and check Weibo.I know that we must have nothing in common to talk about, but because we are very familiar, it is not easy to refuse, and he has helped me a little before... But I don't understand, is it not good to be a pure netizen?

——It is difficult to reject others because they are afraid of losing their goodwill. Pursuing goodwill is a human physiological instinct and an emotional need. In fact, this is a common feature.According to your situation, if the senior has helped you, it is still necessary to express his gratitude to him, of course, this is only when you are sure that he is a good person.

But it is very necessary to learn to refuse some inappropriate requests, because these requests will not only spoil your mood but also waste your time.With all due respect, people who blindly ask others for help are not worth dating when there is no interest and emotional relationship and no return.

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The outdoor sunlight was so strong that people could not open their eyes. Du Yu didn't open an umbrella, but simply covered it with his hands.A group of people with big bags and small bags had already gathered at the school gate, they were talking and laughing, as if they were not going to support education in some impoverished urban area but going on an outing somewhere.

"Shan Qing," Du Yu rolled up the mat with his left hand, and walked towards them with the suitcase in his right hand, "call the name."

The woman named Shan Qing pushed up her glasses and nodded at him. She turned on her phone and checked the list one by one.

"There's only one left." Half a minute later, she shook the phone at Du Yu.

Du Yu glanced at Yang Yang's army: "Who? Call and ask."

"Oh, here we come." Shan Qing stretched out his finger and pointed at the back, Du Yu naturally looked back.

The person who came was wearing a black cotton short sleeve with cranes printed on it, under the short sleeve was a pair of army green overalls with tight feet, and a pair of high-top canvas shoes were so white that they looked casual and handsome.Although he was also carrying big and small bags, he insisted on stepping out of the demeanor of a catwalk model.

When Du Yu saw this person, he was not a little happy but frowned: "What's going on? Why is Lu Yinke here? Their project is not at the same time as ours, is it?"

"Uh...Didn't Han Wentao tell you?" Shan Qing scratched his face with his index finger in embarrassment, "Lu Yinke changed with a member of our team, and Han Wentao helped him operate."

"Why didn't anyone tell me about such a big thing?" Du Yu scratched the handle of the suitcase with his fingernails, and became extremely irritable.

Shan Qing pouted helplessly in the direction of Han Wentao.

As for Han Wentao, ever since he saw Lu Yinke coming, he started to sneak behind that man, as if Du Yu couldn't do anything to him with his backing.

Du Yu just watched coldly the two people approaching him step by step in the distance, until Lu Yinke put the mat in his arms upright on the ground, and smiled at him with white teeth.

Du Yu ignored him, but turned his head and said two words to Han Wentao:

"explain."

"This," Han Wentao pinched his schoolbag strap nervously, "Well...that's... Brother Lu said he wanted to exchange things, but I thought you two had a good relationship, so I transferred them directly without reporting to you. Hey, hey Don't scold me, I was wrong, I was wrong, if you scold me, you will be stupid."

"Which eye of yours sees that we have a good relationship." Du Yu said harshly, "Is this the reason why you didn't report it?"

"Isn't it because of the photo Brother Lu posted last time? I was surprised for a while!" Han Wentao argued in a low voice, "Besides, didn't I report it to Sister Qing! She didn't care if she heard it was Lu Yinke Yeah, it almost flew off."

"I didn't!" Shan Qing was about to pat his dog's head as soon as he heard it.

"Okay, okay, don't blame Xiao Han, I made the unreasonable request first, so he can't refuse me." Lu Yinke moved closer to Du Yu's line of sight, "It's just an exchange, the two items are the same, and it's not a kick. The original person, I have talked to him."

Du Yu finally took a good look at Lu Yinke who had come over hard: "You also know it's an unreasonable request? The president doesn't lead the team, and he came here to be a team member. How can we afford it?"

Lu Yinke rolled up the mat in his arms and stretched out his hand to push his arm, smiling obsequiously: "I can afford it, I'm just a younger brother."

"Forget it, I chartered the bus to the train station, the master is already here, get on the bus first." Du Yu felt the vibration of the phone and suddenly turned his head to Han Wentao with a smirk, "Wait, It's time to clean you up."

After he finished speaking, he dragged his suitcase and took the lead towards a bus that had just arrived not far away. Shan Qing noticed the subtle atmosphere and ran to the team as if nothing had happened.In the heat waves, only the shivering Han Wentao and the regretful Lu Yinke were left.

"Actually, you can take care of me too! Just smile!"

A man surnamed Lu shouted loudly towards the back of the person in front of him regardless of his appearance.

It takes nearly five hours for the bullet train to travel from city N to city H, and the seats at the train station are already filled to the brim. Du Yu and his party can only carry their suitcases and stand in a long queue in front of the ticket gate.

He glanced at Shan Qing who was sitting on the suitcase fanning the wind with a leaflet, and then glanced forward again. The hot and boring temperature, together with the colorful flow of people, did not completely overlap with certain fragments.

Lu Yinke looked at the phone with his forearm propped on the lever, his thumb kept sliding down, and with his other hand in his trouser pocket, he glanced lazily forward.

"What are you looking at?" He raised the corners of his mouth frivolously, and his eyes collided with Du Yu for a moment.

Du Yu slightly looked away, as if it was just an unfortunate coincidence.

"I didn't look at you again."

He seemed to be uncomfortable being stared at, and unconsciously touched his slightly slender neck with his right hand: "Why did you change it?"

"Oh, isn't it obvious?" Lu Yinke raised his eyebrows exaggeratedly, pulled out his left hand from his pocket and pinched Du Yu's forearm, "Of course it's for you, I'll go wherever you go."

His palm was large and warm, with some rough calluses at the base of his fingers.When he secretly squeezed Du Yu's arm, the palm of his hand moved slightly with the bones, and the touch was as crisp and itchy as when the father insisted on shaving the child's tender face with the beard when he was a child.

Du Yu felt his hairs stand on end and wanted to laugh, but he finally frowned and turned his head away, and retracted his arm like an electric shock.

"speak English."

Lu Yinke rubbed his palm with his fingers, which was empty due to loss of control, and the palm was somewhat resistant due to the wetness of thin sweat.

He frowned, and the frivolous smile slowly faded from his face, just like the melting snow at the foot of the snow mountain, and a cloud of mist rose up.

"Why are you so thin, don't you eat well?"

For some reason, he suddenly lost the mood to tease Du Yu. The usually raging flame was submerged in the flood and could only burp with smoke.Although he couldn't say it, he just felt panicked, like a sunflower withered in the sun.

"Okay, I won't tease you," he said weakly, "The activities in my club collided with my competition, and I don't want to argue with it because of this, so I just changed it."

Du Yu nodded, looking clear in his heart.

"Don't make fun of your emotions next time, you're so annoying."

Lu Yinke grinned, a little less serious but a little lonely: "Isn't it also because I like you?"

"It is because of this that you appear insincere. Your liking is too cheap, so you are always dumped." Du Yu used the information Han Wentao once provided him as an argument. At the regular meeting, he forced Du Yu to chatter and drink.

"I haven't been dumped all the time," Lu Yinke muttered to himself, "We all broke up peacefully, and they all told me that if I went to find them one day, they would come back."

"Then you don't go looking for it?"

"What are you looking for? Don't look for it." He lowered his voice, "They were the ones who came to look for me. They bully me and won't refuse if they are good-tempered. After talking to me, they only used me as bragging capital, and dragged me out to walk the dog. The same mess, and in the end they all pretend to be victims, hypocrisy."

Du Yu sneered: "A good temper won't refuse? Just by what you said, I think you are talking one-sidedly. Take a step back, even if what you said is true, then your behavior now is no different from theirs .”

"Sigh." Lu Yinke sighed heavily, "I won't tell you anymore, you always don't believe me. Fortunately, we are still friends, we don't even have the most basic trust, I'm tired."

If you don't talk, don't talk, Du Yu is also happy to be quiet.

He took out his mobile phone neatly, and opened the software neatly. In just a moment, he put on the earphones and memorized the words.His fingers moved little by little, and his eyes were extremely focused, as if the other end of the screen was not cold words but his lover.

Lu Yinke stared at his relaxed posture for two seconds, then finally lowered his head quietly again, the folds of his double eyelids were pulled down as if extremely tired, and the corners of his mouth, which was always slightly raised, formed a pale line almost invisible.

In this way, a group of people stood in front of the ticket gate for nearly an hour before getting the right to swarm in.

Du Yu found the seat according to the ticket number in his hand. He first pushed the ticket into the luggage rack above the seat, and then pressed the lever to put the suitcase in.

There were many people passing by. When Du Yu bent down to reach the bottom of the box, his knees suddenly went weak, and he couldn't help but rushed forward.

He saw that he was about to hit the corner of the box, but a strong arm wrapped around his waist, and the fingers of the palm on the side of his waist were slightly bent, and he was easily pinned back.

Du Yu's abdomen hurt from being strangled by him, but there was a slightly familiar heat and touch on the side of his waist. He sighed softly in his heart and deliberately didn't turn his head.

"I told you that you eat too little, you're so small that you can't even lift a box, what's the matter." Lu Yinke stretched out his arm and patted him on the shoulder, "Get out of the way, I'll help you."

Du Yu was indifferent, and bent down stubbornly again as if he didn't hear it.

This time his knees did not flicker, and his straight spine bent into a graceful arc with the bent half of his body, slightly protruding through the thin top, as if it could be broken with a single palm, fragile and fragile.

He is really too thin, Lu Yinke thought, he looks so weak.

He put on an expression of worry and pity on his face, but he slowly clenched his five fingers in the dark, and his slightly long nails were embedded in the palm of his hand, leaving a half-moon mark.

He seemed to be holding something, and seemed to want to hold something.

The box was placed firmly on the stand, and Du Yu finally turned around.

"I'm just short of calcium recently." His voice was unexpectedly soft, with a slight embarrassment.

"But thank you," he said.