so many troublemakers

After the country announced the two-child policy, it is hard to say whether those born in the 40s and [-]s have any ideas, but those uncles and aunts who are in their [-]s and [-] are more active.

If there is no difficulty, it must be born naturally!There are difficulties to overcome difficulties and also to live!

In short, it is a must!

However, these uncles and aunts are not satisfied with just having a second child. They have to have a boy to feel that it is enough, as if there is a royal throne waiting for someone to inherit it at home.

The 23-year-old girl complained about her parents and second-born brother.

Almost a year after the two-child policy came down, her parents began to sound out the girl's words.Parents took turns to ask her if she wanted a second brother.

A girl in her 20s has been on the university campus for two years, and she is considered well-informed.

Upon hearing what her parents said, alarm bells rang in the girl's head, and she immediately realized that her parents wanted to have a second child.

A great fire of iniquity will start, and it must be strangled in the flames.The girl didn't have the heart to be tactful with her parents, so she simply and directly made her point clear: she couldn't accept her parents giving her a younger brother or younger sister.

In order to appease the uneasy little hearts of her parents who want a second child, the girl also listed the impossibility of having a second child in her family.

The first point is that it is not safe for advanced maternal age.Both parents are 47-[-] and nearly [-] years old, definitely the oldest among the elderly, and the risk of having a child is extremely high.Even if the parents go all out and don't care about the danger, the children born will definitely not be as healthy as those born to young and middle-aged people. What if there is any congenital disease?

The second point is who will take care of the child after it is born.Even if the child is lucky and is very healthy and lively after birth, who will take care of this little guy?My parents are also in their fifties, and they should retire soon to take care of their old age, but in the end they have to take care of a little one.Too much work and not worth it.

The third point is that I can't afford it.The girl's family conditions are average, not to mention the cost of marrying a wife and having children when she grows up, the education expenses from kindergarten to high school alone are a lot, who will bear the expenses?The salary of the parents after retirement is indeed enough for the old couple to live alone, but if they add a child, will they definitely be well off.

Seeing that the girl is so straightforward, the parents don't fix those twists and turns, and the parents' reply is also very ambitious.

Both of them said that the child will take care of him and raise him, and let her rest assured that the girl will not be dragged down.The old couple also earnestly said that they had another child for the sake of the girl, for fear that the girl would feel lonely after the old couple left.Those who have younger siblings look after each other and take care of each other.

The girl was silent for a while, but she didn't argue with her parents any more. She knew that her parents always had an argument of 'for her own good'.The two sides have different views, and neither can convince the other, and it will be a waste of time to talk about it.

So after the girl expressed her firm position of 'I firmly disagree with you having a second child', she returned to school early to find a part-time job and started working.What the girl thinks is that if she kills herself and disagrees, she will just delay it for three to five years, and when they reach their fifties, they will no longer have such thoughts.

It is absolutely unrealistic to say that the girl's decision not to let her parents have a second child is all for the sake of her parents.Who can have no little thoughts of their own?It's just that when a girl speaks reason, she must choose what is good for her parents.

From the girl's point of view, the second child born to her parents is definitely a [-]% drag on her.

First of all, there is the issue of bringing children.Parents say they are not allowed to take care of their children, but can the girl really not take care of them?She thinks she can't stand her parents taking care of the child and doing nothing, so in the end, she said no, but she still has to take care of the child.

Secondly, if there is a brother or sister with an age difference of more than 20 years, it will be difficult for the girl to marry in the future.Marriage is never a matter between two people, but a union of two families.Before getting married, the family conditions of both parties must be considered.

Before there is a second child, the girl's condition is not to say that she is in demand, but she has no worries about getting married.But once there is a second child, such a young child, it will be very difficult for the girl to marry well.After all, the other party will consider that if something happens to the girl's parents in the future, the responsibility of raising the child will definitely fall on the girl.Isn't this just an invisible oil bottle?No one is helping the poor. To marry a daughter-in-law, you have to raise a child for your family... Ha ha.

What's more, when you are old, you are not well-bred and easily spoiled.It may be that the girl feels that the world is around her.As far as these relatives, friends and classmates around her are concerned, one counts as one.Those who are old enough to have children, if they are gentle and quiet girls, some of them are well-raised after all if they are pampered and pampered by their parents; but what about those boys? 90.00% did not learn well above nine.Judging by the eager attitude of the parents, the girl is not at all optimistic about their upbringing of the second child.

In the end, it is impossible for the parents to raise the child alone, and the girl still has to raise it.It is impossible for a girl to ignore her parents in the future. Seeing her parents living a tight life, she must be saving money and wanting her parents to live comfortably.But the parents would definitely rather wear the patches themselves, and spend all their money on the second child.Thinking of this, the girl felt uncomfortable.

Whether you don’t raise it or not, it’s actually the girl who is raising it.

Although the girl has hid back to school, she still cannot escape the curse of the second child.Every time her parents called, they tried to test her, and even though the girl refused to let go, she felt tired.So not only did I have fewer phone calls, I even didn't bother to go home during the winter and summer vacations.In junior year, the girl stayed at school to look for a part-time job to make money. In senior year, she directly found an internship and had no time to go home.

After two years of delay, the parents stopped mentioning the second child when they called, and the girl finally graduated.The girl who naively thought that everything was over, flew home happily.

Her parents picked her up at the airport, and her mother held a smaller child in her arms.

Then his parents told the girl that the child was her brother.

a bolt from the blue……

The girl was stupid at the airport at that time.

Later, on the way home, her parents explained to her that when they talked to her two years ago, her mother was already six months pregnant, but her mother had always been fat so the girl didn't notice it.

That is to say, the girl's parents never meant to ask the girl for her opinion. They were just informing her at the beginning, and the girl was acting affectionate on her own.

Now that the child is two years old, the attitude of the parents is tougher than the girl: "We have already given birth, so do what you like, we don't expect you anyway, and you are going to marry."

As soon as these words were said, the girl burst into tears.After living for more than 20 years, the girl realized that her parents were so patriarchal.

After arriving home, the parents directly asked the girl to quit her job first.Her father said that her mother could not take care of the child alone and needed her help.When his younger brother is more than five years old, it is easy to take care of him, and the girl will go out to work again.

The girl who didn't want to communicate with her parents at all wanted to go back to her room to be quiet, but when she opened the door, she found that the room was not her own either.His single bed was gone, and the whole room was full of messy toys and all kinds of children's things—it seemed to have been completely owned by his younger brother.

From head to toe, a pot of ice water mixture poured the girl a heart-to-heart coolness.

The girl knew this time. In the past, her parents treated her well because she had no sons. Rare things are valuable. Only one child is worth something. After having a son, the little girl is no longer a rare item, and immediately felt that raising you for so many years is enough, what more bicycles are needed!

Without further ado, the girl packed up her things and went back to Chengdu overnight. The next day, she contacted the company where she practiced earlier and signed a five-year contract.

For the girl now, any salary is not important, the most important thing is to escape from that brother's house.

The views of netizens are mainly divided into two factions.

One faction said: Well done!I'm not referring specifically, I'm referring to all the parents present here whose daughters are already ninety-nine and still have to have a second child, 3000% patriarchal.It’s right to run as far as you can. In the future, when your income is stable, you can send money to your parents every month.In the future, if you earn 1000, you can beat 30000, and if you earn 10000, you can beat [-], as long as you are worthy of your conscience. 【applaud】

Another faction said: Your parents have to get your consent to have a child?Raising you and raising a crime?Your mother is so old, and you don't help take care of the children. What do you do if you are tired and sick?When something really happens in the future, it will be too late for you to regret it.Your parents are unlucky enough, they worked so hard to raise a white-eyed wolf【白眼】

Ji Lingchen thought about it, and clicked forward.

Ji Lingchen: Children are not appendages of parents, and being young does not mean that they are not members of the family.All family members need to be respected regardless of age or gender.

PS: Don't keep talking about parents raising children, okay?Because they were raised by their parents, so the children have no human rights at all?Primitive people are not as feudal as you.Besides, reproduction and caring for offspring is the law of survival in nature.Emperor penguins know how to raise their children. The hungry father can go without food for four months to take care of the baby; the mother octopus doesn't even care about death for the baby.Humans can't be inferior to animals, right?What truly embodies human civilization is that children support their parents.In the future, if you call your child a white-eyed wolf, you can make an issue of whether you support your parents or not. //@Magic Tucao Jun:  …

Disciplinary Inspection Commission No. [-]: Crazy call for Dajiji! ! !

ygeaongahg: I am the girl who was underestimated. Every time I was treated differently, I would think that if I didn’t love me, why did I have to give birth to me?

A fish: Being alive and being happy are two different things. When I was a child, every time my mother beat me because of my brother, I thought why not kill me [smile] You guys are easy too.

An Rushiling: Let's not talk about those things when I was a child, it's boring, let's talk about what happened when I got married.I didn't have a penny of dowry, and I didn't let me take the bride price from my in-laws back to Xiaojia, leaving my brother to buy a house and pay the down payment.I married my husband empty-handed, I didn't even have a pair of new quilts, and I really sold my daughter.Now my brother doesn't care if they think of me and wants me to take care of them?Hehe, give them 1000 yuan a month, I am worthy of them.

Eat melon passerby: I hope those Fan Shengmei, who caress their younger brothers and demons, will be sober. If they can't sober up, will they be done with it?Don't harm good boys.What a crime I committed in my previous life, I want to marry you [Tan Shou]

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