[Football] Mr. Squirrel, would you like some nuts?

~~~~~The premise of compromise and sacrifice is "I love you"~~~~~~

After returning home from the game, Lahm was still agitated.He trotted all the way up the stairs, and when he reached the door of the master bedroom, he took a few breaths slowly, suppressing the heaving of his chest.

Because it was a bit late, he didn't see Jianguo's mother, nor his own mother.

Pushing open the door, Ram saw Jianguo sleeping on the bed with the doors and windows tightly closed.And An Bo, who was wrapped in swaddling clothes, was sleeping next to Jianguo, and it was so dark that it was impossible to tell whether she was awake or asleep.

Ram went to the window first and opened it halfway.Then he went around to the bed again and half knelt down.

Jianguo has fallen asleep, completely unaware that Ram is back.But her daughter, An Bo, was awake, but the strange thing was that she didn't cry, but looked around with her eyes open.

Newborn children are highly myopic and cannot see far.So Ram leaned in front of his daughter and stared at her.

One big and one small looked at each other like this, and it was extremely quiet for a while.

Ram suddenly felt warm in his heart, he slowly stretched out his hand, and touched Ambo's hand.

Unexpectedly, Ambo suddenly grabbed Ram's index finger, squeezed it tightly, and started crying.

Ram was taken aback, and Jianguo also woke up.

"You're back." Jianguo asked casually, and then reached out to comfort his daughter.

"Yeah." Ram nodded, trying to withdraw his hand, but found that Ambo was holding it tightly.If I pulled hard, I was afraid of hurting her, "What's wrong, did I scare her?"

"Maybe she's hungry." Jianguo also guessed, she had only been a mother for a day, so she didn't know anything.

"Then do you want to breastfeed?" Ram asked a silly question.

"Give it a try." Jianguo was obviously more stupid than Ram.

Just as Ram helped Anbo to be picked up and was about to hand it into Jianguo's arms, Jianguo's mother walked in.

"Oh, why didn't the child call me when he woke up?" Jianguo's mother walked to the bed, hugged An Bo, and let Jianguo breastfeed.And when she turned her head, she yelled again, "Oh, why are the windows open. It's still confinement, and the windows can't be opened. Philip, go and close the windows."

Ram froze for a moment, then remembered the custom of confinement that Jianguo had told him.Although he felt that it was necessary to keep ventilation, Jianguo's mother had mentioned it now, the night was getting late, and the wind was getting cold, so let's close it first.

Watching Jianguo breastfeeding Ambo, Ram stood aside and was always ready.But Jianguo's mother waved her hand and told Ram to go to the guest room to rest.

Out of respect for the elders, Ram obeyed them one by one.And today he was tired enough, and he really didn't have the energy to argue with Jianguo's mother on the issue of the differences between the East and the West.

How did he know that on the second day, Jianguo's mother and Daniela had another argument.

Daniela wanted to take Jianguo and Ambo out for a walk, the weather was very nice with a warm spring breeze outside.But Jianguo's mother was not sure about life and death. She said that Jianguo was still in confinement, and the child was not yet full moon, so he could not walk around.

Daniela didn't know about the habit of confinement, she just felt that both the child and Jianguo needed some fresh air and sunshine.

Jianguo persuaded the two for a long time, his mouth was dry and his head was dizzy.This time, although Ram did not express his opposition to Jianguo's mother, judging from his expression, it was obvious that he was on the same front as Daniela.

"Why can't you go out, it's good to get in touch with the outdoor environment. The room doesn't get the sun, and it's not ventilated." Daniela walked to the window and opened it while talking.

"Oh, you Europeans just don't know how to take care of yourself. If a woman doesn't confine herself well, she will suffer from a lifetime of illness." Jianguo's mother closed the window again while talking.

"I haven't sat down before. I'm in good health." Daniela came to explain.

"Hey, it's because you have a good physique, but you, your complexion is still not as good as mine. Look..."

"Mom, stop talking!" Jianguo hurriedly stopped his mother. Although the two were communicating in Chinese and German, they had to understand each other's meaning just by looking at their expressions. "Just make a compromise. Don't Sitting for 40 days, sitting for a week is enough. It is good to take the child out after the full moon, and now the flu virus has also recovered in spring. What do you think, Philip?"

Ram looked at Jianguo, but he didn't expect that she would actually throw this question to himself.Although I stood resolutely by my mother's side just now, but now this situation has pushed him to the point of the knife.He had no choice but to agree with Jianguo's suggestion, "Ahem, that's fine."

But this compromise method made the two mothers unhappy. Daniela felt that Jianguo's mother was old-fashioned, and she had all kinds of strange ideas like a medieval witch.But Jianguo's mother felt that Daniela didn't know how to take care of herself, which would make her daughter sick.

Because the baby needs to be fed every few hours, change diapers and so on, Jianguo and Ram don't have a chance to have a serious discussion on this issue alone.So the pressure on both sides piled up, and the atmosphere at home became very tense, without the slightest joy of having new members.

Not sleeping well at night, and worrying about his two mothers, Jianguo's mental state is really bad.Seeing Jianguo's disheveled hair and haggard face, Ram felt very distressed.But there was nothing he could do, he couldn't make sense either way.

But at the beginning of June, the child didn't wake up so frequently at night, and after Jianguo's sleep quality was guaranteed to a certain extent, she and Ram finally had a chance to have a good chat.

"My mother's visa is about to expire, so let her go back then. And Daniela, she should take a break too. I will take care of the child myself, and it's not a big problem now." Jianguo's decision was actually a consideration After a long time, she has two jobs herself, and it is actually very difficult to find time to take care of the children.But in the current situation, if she doesn't take the initiative to raise children in her hands, it will only get worse.

There are still people taking over the work of the foundation. After all, in this developed country with high welfare, many people rush to do this kind of work.The more troublesome thing is the restaurant. Let alone researching the dishes, the social network has not been updated for a long time.

Although it hurts to let go of Jianguo now, but when she saw her daughter's face, she felt that it was all worth it.

Not working in a company, but being integrated into the society can be regarded as the realization of self-worth, self-improvement, and outstanding female representatives.It takes ten years to grow trees and a hundred years to grow people, which is also very important.I also know when discrimination against housewives has become mainstream thinking. This is obviously a great job.

Your career is important, but your children are even more important.Moreover, after An Bo went to kindergarten, Jianguo could resume his old career, and the impact would not be too great.

The 10/11 season is over, and Ram Xia has been staying at home since the beginning of the break.He followed three mothers to learn how to warm milk, change diapers, and wash baby clothes. He was too busy.

Seeing Ram's performance like this, Jianguo's mother finally agreed to return to China after the end of June.But she still kept instilling in Jianguo the idea that "you must hold the financial power in your hands" and "women must have a job no matter what, otherwise the husband will find someone outside, and you will have no chance to cry." .

Regarding the first point, Jianguo never thought about it at all.After getting married, Jianguo never asked about Ram's salary and how much money he had in his account.She believed in Ram's character, and she didn't think he still had the energy to spend money outside.

As for the second point, Jianguo will occasionally update the social network.It's just that what she uploads is more about parenting experience and baby food, not new Chinese food recipes.

Although he lost a few fans, Jianguo gained more.

After a woman becomes a mother, her focus will shift more to her children, so Jianguo's baby recipes are even more popular than her previous Chinese recipes.

Ram looked at the comments on Jianguo's social network with some envy. He felt that he was really unpopular on the Internet.Among the hundreds of thousands of comments, no one mentioned himself.

"Philip, go pull up the carrots." Jianguo was playing in the yard with Ambo in his arms, and by the way, ordered Ram who had just thrown away his diaper.

"Oh, my princess, do you want to eat carrots today?" Ram smiled and teased his daughter while pulling out carrots.

And An Bo spit out two bubbles of saliva in response to his father.

"It's not she who eats it, it's me." Jianguo smiled. An Bo is only three months old, and she is planning to wait a little longer before adding supplementary food.

"Oh, my dear, I want to eat it too." Ram pulled out three roots, walked to Jianguo's side, and wanted to rub her face.

"Oh, you have mud on your hands, and you've washed them off." Jianguo avoided it, saying with disgust.

Ram was really devastated, and he was completely reduced to a third-class citizen.

Eat with mother and daughter, there is no need to be picky.It was An Bo who slept in the children's room by herself, but as soon as there was any sound from the monitor, Jianguo was extremely nervous and jumped up immediately to check.

Don't say umm, just kiss and hug, Jianguo is very perfunctory.It's not because she wants to do this, but because she is a mother for the first time, it will inevitably make her physically and mentally exhausted, so how can she still have romantic thoughts.

Although Ram has tried his best to help, many things still need to be done by Jianguo himself.And Jianguo decided to take care of his own children and suspend his career, and Ram felt a little guilty.

If he is not a football star, but an ordinary bank clerk, or a baker, he may choose to be a househusband like some men.

But which one is more important, family or career, is really hard to decide.In the face of different situations, as long as it is a choice made by oneself, it is worthy of support.

Seeing that Jianguo played the role of mother so well, Ram felt a lot less indebted.

After taking the carrots into the kitchen, Ram turned on the tap and started washing.He washed very carefully, just like a doctor washes his hands before an operation.