A Timely Wife

When Li Ruosong and Chengdong came to the study, Li Ruoshan was already endorsing the book shaking his head. Chengdong listened carefully, and the content was quite familiar. Seeing Li Ruoshan's seriousness on the back, Li Ruosong and Chengdong deliberately slowed down With a voice, the two tiptoed to the seat opposite Li Ruoshan and sat down, each took a book and began to read.

What Li Ruosong was reading was "Shangshu", while Cheng Dong took a copy of "Spring and Autumn". The two did not talk much, but quietly read and practiced calligraphy. Li Ruosong has a good memory, and almost no need to repeat the content after reading it once. You can keep it firmly in your mind by reciting it. Cheng Dong doesn't have such a good memory as Li Ruosong, so he reads while copying, and he can basically remember everything after copying.

"In ancient times, those who wished to manifest morality in the world first ruled their country; those who wanted to rule their country first ordered their families; those who wanted to order their families first cultivated their bodies; those who wanted to cultivate their bodies first rectified their hearts; If you want to be sincere, you must first extend your knowledge. Extending your knowledge lies in the investigation of things. After you understand things, you will know them. When you know them, you will be sincere. If you are sincere, you will be sincere. Then the family will be in order, the family will be in order and then the country will be governed, and the country will be governed and then the world will be peaceful." Li Ruoshan stopped suddenly when he recited this, he propped his little head and thought for a while, looked at Li Ruosong and Cheng Dong on the opposite side, and smiled mischievously for a moment.

"Brother, brother-in-law, brother-in-law doesn't understand this paragraph, please give me some advice." Li Ruoshan stood up, walked in front of Li Ruosong and Chengdong, and said respectfully.

Hearing Li Ruoshan's question, Li Ruosong and Cheng Dong looked at each other, Cheng Dong nodded to Li Ruosong and said, "Since it's a question, please explain your own understanding first."

Li Ruoshan was stunned, and said a little embarrassedly: "I haven't had time to think about it, but, um, I don't understand."

Chengdong twitched the corners of his lips clearly, the child probably wanted to test them, but unfortunately, the wishful thinking was wrong, the smarter the child, the harder it is to discipline, the only way to make them obedient is to be better than them, Or they are better than them in one aspect, otherwise once they feel that you have no real ability, let alone being obedient, they may not be happy even if they stand with you.

Chengdong looked at Li Ruoshan, and said with a serious face: "Learning is a very serious thing. I don't know if you have heard of a saying. It is better to have no books than to believe in books. If you want to clarify learning To understand, you must have your own understanding and perception.

Everyone has different growth experiences, different living environments, and different levels of education. For the same sentence or the same thing, everyone will have their own understanding. We can communicate, but we cannot teach. For example, You like rice, and I like noodles. Although they are both staple foods, each has its own preference. At this time, we can communicate why we like this staple food, but we cannot force each other to eat the same thing as us.

You said what are the benefits of rice and how delicious it is. After I heard it, I thought it was good, so I would like to taste it, and then I fell in love with rice. But if you insist on forcing me to eat rice without saying anything, just let me eat it, then it is very Maybe not only will I not like rice, but I will hate rice because of it, so from your heart, you want me to admit that rice likes rice, but it backfires and makes me even more disgusted.

Of course, if you want to influence others, you must be very proficient, or understand the thing of adding rice very well. If you don’t understand it yourself, how do you influence others?Compared with you telling me that rice is good, very good, and you telling me that rice is sweet and flat in nature, it has the functions of nourishing the middle and nourishing Qi, strengthening the spleen and nourishing the stomach, benefiting the essence and strengthening the will, harmonizing the five internal organs, clearing the blood vessels, improving ears, improving eyesight and stopping annoyance , Quenching thirst, and antidiarrheal effects, known as "the first of the five grains", eating porridge in the morning can nourish body fluids, which method do you think is better?

Of course, if you really don’t know anything about it and just think it’s delicious, then you can ask me why rice is so delicious. I want to know more about it. If you ask me like this, even if you think about it, I won’t refuse to answer you.But if you want to test me to see if I'm an idiot and if I have any goods in my stomach, then I will definitely not be happy to answer your questions, even if I explain it to you, it will be very difficult. Most of the time it was just to perfuse you. Do you think what I said made sense? "

Li Ruoshan blushed as he spoke, he was a very smart child, Cheng Dong just stopped, seeing that he was already ashamed, he comforted him softly: "Your brother and I are your family members. It’s okay to joke occasionally in front of us, because you are our younger brother, we have the responsibility and obligation to teach you and tolerate you, but this kind of bad habit cannot be cultivated, because outsiders will tolerate you except your family. Yes, but your family will not spend more time with you than outsiders. Unless you will always be by our side in the future, do not go out, do not communicate, otherwise you will always have contact with other people, Even living with other people, because of this, you have to learn how to get along with people, how to make people want to get along with you, this is very important to you, understand?"

Li Ruoshan blushed, nodded obediently, "Yes, Ruoshan understands."

"Very well, then tell me how you understand what you said just now, and then your brother and I will tell you our understanding, so that the three of us can learn from each other's strengths and make up for each other's weaknesses. Good for everyone, okay?"

"Okay, then I'll think about it first, and discuss it with you and brother later, okay?" Li Ruoshan asked a little cautiously, he was afraid that Chengdong would dislike him because of his actions just now.

Looking at Li Ruoshan's pitiful little eyes, Cheng Dong couldn't hold back his serious face just now, and couldn't help laughing. He touched Li Ruoshan's head and said, "Of course it's possible, go ahead, take care of yourself first." Comprehend and comprehend."

Li Ruoshan saw that Chengdong smiled, so he also raised a smiley face, and returned to his seat with the book in his arms.