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"Children who have not been able to build an intimate relationship with their families in childhood will generally be extremely eager to establish an intimate relationship in their future life and interpersonal interactions, but often this desire and excessive dependence will make others daunting. After all It is very difficult for someone to take on or fully accept the emotions, lives and responsibilities of others. These are too heavy. In addition, children who have experienced trauma in childhood often have not learned how to interact and communicate well with each other and establish a solid relationship. Intimacy, adopting the wrong method, such as being too concerned about the contributions of both parties, being too possessive leads to too much interference with the other party, paying too much attention to one's own emotions and ignoring the other party, resulting in failure to establish an intimate relationship, and failure often leads to two extreme results. One extreme is to completely give up building intimacy with people, alienate people, and close oneself, and the other extreme is to frequently look for the next partner, lose reason, hurt each other at will, and be hurt by others.”

"The friend you mentioned has a good parent-child relationship and a happy family. It's just that his parents died suddenly when he was young. Without all his relatives, he will be more eager than ordinary people to establish a stable intimate relationship and seek the love he had when he was young. Ease and stable happiness, rejection of parting, aversion to separation, and resulting desire for monopoly, strong sense of insecurity, anxiety, etc., are all normal."

"However, the past experience makes everyone who is now. In the past, people liked to analyze the influence of the original family on everyone. Now we pay more attention to personal self-improvement and growth. No matter what experience, no matter what the past is, it is what constitutes who we are now. Face up to the imperfect situation we have faced, accept our own imperfections, and try our best to satisfy our wishes and heal our huge psychological wounds without hurting others. This is what we hope to be able to do now. Made it."

"Then if you really love him, you should try your best to meet his psychological needs, let him get peaceful and stable love, help him establish a relatively strong intimate relationship with others, and distinguish how to communicate and get along with each other in different intimate relationships. Healthy teacher-student relationships, friendships, etc., are a good start.”

The gentle female psychologist smiled and said, "We still recommend that your friend come to do psychological counseling on a regular basis. Proper psychological counseling can greatly relieve his emotions and make him no longer anxious. In fact, this is not very serious. Serious problems, as long as regular psychological counseling, and some soothing exercises for his spiritual power, such as meditation, can be improved quickly."

Shao Jun nodded: "Thank you——he is a bit reluctant to see a psychiatrist, and I will persuade him when I have time." He got up and said goodbye to the psychiatrist, walked out, paid the fee, and went out to his shuttle parking place. It was late autumn, and the fallen leaves were falling. On the side of the straight boulevard, next to the shuttle, Anatole was waiting for him wearing an autumn leaf-colored windbreaker with his pocket in his pocket. Seeing him coming out, he smiled and said, "Is the consultation over? This psychological The doctor is really the best in Luoxia at present, and the appointment is scheduled until next year, so I made an appointment with a friend."

Shao Jun said, "Thank you."

Anatoly turned his head and looked at the scenery: "This is facing the Central Park of the Principality. The autumn scenery is the most commendable. You have been very tired for a while. Take a walk here to relax? I will be a tour guide for you." Well, after all, you have been working for me all these years, and you have no entertainment at all." Ever since Anatoly failed at the cruise auction, he and Shao Jun have returned to a calm and polite state, but one is concentrating on technology, and the other is finally Putting away the love brain, fully respecting Shao Jun's opinion, fully authorizing Shao Jun in the laboratory and project development, most of the business contacts and conversations on weekdays, the relationship between the two has actually improved, and they have discussed and discussed things, and become Pretty good partner.

Shao Jun nodded: "Okay."

The two walked slowly on the boulevard covered with golden yellow leaves. Anatoly asked Shao Jun: "Have you decided to participate in the alliance mecha technology exchange forum? You have never been interested in the past, and the invitation letter to our laboratory is not enough." It was for other experts to go, I thought your theoretical level was too detached, and you disdain to participate in such forums and technical exchanges."

Shao Jun said: "This year Geli has a mecha bio-battery energy application. It's interesting. I want to hear it." In fact, Daniel wanted to hear it. He overheard the experts in the laboratory discussing the mecha master Geli's this year. The topic is mecha bio-battery. I am very curious. I have been asking myself to listen to it. I thought it would not take much time to go back and forth by spaceship, so I simply accepted the invitation letter and told Onegin to borrow a private spaceship. With that, the itinerary was set.

Anatoly said with a smile: "It's a pity that I still have many official receptions here, so I can't go with you. But it doesn't matter if you don't go, even if you go, you won't understand." He smiled, honey Ordinary eyes began to release their charm unconsciously again, Shao Jun smiled: "Don't be humble, at least if you go, you might buy a lot of good things and make the researchers in the lab go crazy for a long time. One of your rare advantages."

Anatole laughed again, the fallen leaves rustled in the autumn wind, the quiet man with black hair and black eyes smiled, exuding unspeakable charm, Anatole couldn't help but said: "Duin, you are such a mysterious person man."

Shao Jun was surprised: "Why did you say that suddenly?"

Anatoly said: "You never say where your hometown is, and you never mention your past experience. Your school, your job, etc. are all a fog. A strong person like you, in Biological research and mech research are so deep, it really shouldn't be a person who appears out of thin air."

Shao Jun smiled and said nothing, Anatoly smiled: "No one can understand you, you hide yourself too tightly, like a besieged city, but because of this enigmatic past, you are very attractive People want to explore and approach."

Shao Jun said: "Count, you are a smart person."

Anatoly laughed at himself: "I'm not really a smart person."

Shao Jun said: "How come, at least you know how to weigh the interests. In exploring my past and the huge benefits of new energy, you chose to keep in the dark and not investigate anything."

Anatoly was surprised: "I thought you couldn't be sarcastic. It's really hard for you to say such acrimonious words that interests are paramount."

Shao Jun couldn't help laughing: "I'm leaving for Lorraine tomorrow, please take care of the laboratory."

Anatoly said: "It's okay, including Daniel, I will let Elena take care of him."

Shao Jun said: "I will take Daniel away, he also wants to listen to the forum."

Anatoly saw Shao Jun's serious appearance of treating the pet robot as a real child, and had a slight headache: "Well, it's just that Irina will miss Daniel even if she can't see him."

Shao Jun nodded: "Tell her that Daniel will bring her a gift."

Anatoly said in frustration, "Okay, thanks little Daniel." He really wondered if he was the only one who wasn't normal when his daughter and Duin both treated Daniel as a real kid.

On the second day, Shao Jun arrived in Lorraine in Earl Onegin's private spaceship. This time, the Alliance Mecha Technology Exchange Forum was held at the Gloria Hotel. After Shao Jun checked into the hotel, he basically lived in seclusion. Look carefully at the information.

After reading it, I was quite disappointed. Even if Daniel didn’t say anything, he, who had been trained by Gu Luo and Daniel, and even assembled a whole mech himself, could see that most of the technologies in these essays were commonplace. It can be seen at will in the Xingwang paper library, and there is no big breakthrough or creativity.

There is only a brief introduction to Ge Li's mech bioelectricity thesis, but just looking at the introduction does not reveal where the big breakthrough lies.

Daniel was also a little disappointed: "I thought he could really make a big breakthrough. Many people in the field of bioelectricity think that there is great potential, but no one has been able to make a breakthrough. If the bioelectricity in the biomechanical system can really be used , our mechs can be greatly improved again.”

Shao Jun flicked his petals: "Just listen to it tomorrow."

Sure enough, the lecture hall was bustling with people on the second day, all of them came to listen to the speech about the bio-battery by Mecha Master Ge Li.

Ge Li stood on the stage with a proud face on his face: "What I am here to demonstrate to you today is a miraculous bio-battery. This is a biological protein in the body of insects. It was collected and undergoes certain oxidation-reduction treatments to form electrode active substances. Afterwards, it can generate extremely powerful electric energy and has a very high energy conversion efficiency. As long as it is properly processed, it is believed that this new bio-battery can be applied to mechs, greatly reducing the possibility that current mechs rely entirely on gold-tin energy. The following Let's take a look at the relevant experimental data."

He turned on the light screen, displaying detailed experimental data and experimental results related to the bio-battery.The place below was boiling, and someone asked loudly impatiently: "Then, Master Ge Li, what kind of insect is this insect?"

Most of the people present here are mecha experts, and most of them have dabbled in the biological field. Looking at the frighteningly high values ​​above, they all know that they should not be the insect species discovered so far. An entomologist has already stretched out his hand and said: "press Based on such energy and data, this insect should be very large, at least as large as a building."

There was an uproar.

Ge Li smiled: "Yes, this is a newly discovered species. We have already arranged a spaceship. Tomorrow I will take you to observe this insect on the spot. Of course, you can rest assured that safety is absolutely guaranteed. I have already I have applied to the First Legion of the Alliance for the accompanying protection of the military's mecha squad, so please don't worry, the discovery of this insect will greatly improve the energy structure of the mecha, and all of you here are the leaders of the Alliance's mecha researchers. We are the best, and we look forward to everyone’s brainstorming to get greater inspiration from this special insect and promote the further development of the alliance’s technology.”

"Finally, I would like to remind everyone that because this technology is a matter of confidentiality, from today until tomorrow, all of you here have participated in military projects involving secrets. Please keep it strictly confidential, and I will let everyone sign the confidentiality statement later. Agreement, starting tomorrow morning, from tonight to tomorrow, please abide by the confidentiality discipline for the time being, hand over the communication device, and tomorrow's observation place, and it is also forbidden to take pictures. The confidentiality agreement will be sent to your room later, of course, if you do not If you want, you can leave immediately."

The experts at the venue discussed a lot, but they all understood that this kind of insect is probably an alien creature discovered by the military. It is understandable to want to control the range of knowledge as a secret project, and many people have already shown excitement on their faces. It is obvious that being able to participate in such a major military secret-related project is a very important opportunity and challenge for many unknown experts.

Daniel had already hugged Shao Jun's arm tightly and whispered: "Jun! I want to see! If there are such big insects, the important thing is not bioelectricity, but biological tendons and biological nerves! That's our biological machine. The key to improving armor!"

When Shao Jun heard about the secret-related military project, he already felt suspicious. How could the secret-related military project be announced so easily on the forum without screening?Or have the experts who received the invitation to the forum already been screened?

But Daniel strongly demanded: "You must see it. If such an insect really exists, I think our biological mecha will have a very powerful improvement!"

Shao Jun asked: "Can secret-related projects be disclosed to us ordinary people so casually?"

Daniel was a little unconcerned: "It's mainly to guard against the empire. The military may be in a hurry. After all, the empire has been stuck in the neck. The participating experts have been screened. I read the list in the morning. All laboratories with imperial capital Experts, none of them, are all laboratories belonging to the old alliance family, and judging by the situation of Gerry’s research, it is estimated that this secret will not be kept for too long. This kind of alien creature must not be rare, and the military cannot guarantee monopoly. The whole world will know about the publication of the results. It can only be said that it is a rush to research and develop ahead of the empire. That's why so many top experts have been summoned. It is definitely not enough to rely on Ge Li's research alone. It must be very strong. team."

Shao Jun also dispelled some doubts slightly: "You are right."

Daniel eagerly said: "Then let's go and see?" He was so hungry for exploration of the unknown biological field, and now his heart was full of that huge insect. If he got a sample, he knew its tendon, its The principles of nerves, bones and joints, etc., are artificially copied and acted on the mech. What a huge improvement it will be!It can be said that there is no one before or after, and the mecha manufactured in this way will be the most important weapon of the country and the god of death on the battlefield.

Shao Jun said: "Okay. It's just that you must pay attention. We have watched it secretly, and we will study it when we go back. If you have any thoughts, don't rush to say it."

Daniel said happily: "Of course!"