What to do if you are stalked by your ex-boyfriend's younger brother

When Zhou Di said these words, his tone was calm, as if he was just talking about someone else's business.And these plain and straightforward words reached Guan Ze's ears, like knives one after another, piercing his eardrums with pain.But once he interrupted the consultation process, Zhou Di's trust in Deng Changhua might be difficult to re-establish.

So Guan Ze couldn't do anything, just watched silently, and even had to deliberately hide his emotions to minimize his sense of existence.

But Deng Changhua could see it more clearly than Guan Ze. The young man's fingers were intertwined, and then he let go after clenching, which was an obvious expression of suppressed anger.Deng Changhua's expression didn't change at all, and he continued to ask: "Did this incident have a great impact on you at that time?"

Zhou Di paused briefly, then continued: "At that time... I was very angry, but more of it was fear."

"So until now, do these anger and fears still affect you?"

"No." Zhou Di replied quickly, and then fell silent.

Deng Changhua did not rush, but just waited quietly. After a long time, Zhou Di folded his hands again, and then slowly said, "Yes, until now, I am still very angry. I can't forget this matter, and I can't help it. Brother has too deep feelings."

"So this is the original reason for the quarrel between your brothers?"

Zhou Di lowered his eyebrows and thought for a while, then said: "To be precise, it's not. The first thing that made me hate my brother happened when I was 4 years old. Although it's a bit vague, I still remember the general idea."

"If it's convenient, you can talk about it in detail."

"At that time, my brother had just come to our house and lived in the bedroom on the third floor, while my parents' bedroom and I were on the fourth floor. After a while, my mother asked me to change bedrooms with my brother. I didn't want to, so I kept crying, but my mother didn't care, and changed the bedroom for us. One night, I had a nightmare and wanted to go to my mother. But because I was sleepy, I didn't know that I was on the third floor, and I didn't know the rooms on the third and fourth floors. The pattern is different. Mo Hei went to look for her according to his usual memory, but he stepped on the ground and fell down the stairs. I don’t remember anything after that, I only remember the pain, and...a scar was left, right here."

As Zhou Di lifted his bangs up, Guan Ze saw that there was a suture scar about ten centimeters long on the edge of Zhou Di's hairline. Because it was just at the edge of the hairline, Guan Ze had never Not found.

But looking carefully now, the scar is actually very obvious and a bit grim. If it goes down a little bit, Zhou Di will be disfigured.

Guan Ze couldn't help froze, imagining Zhou Di's disfigured appearance, and then he felt so distressed that his breathing became very difficult.

Deng Changhua took the time to give Guan Ze a comforting look, then turned around and continued to ask Zhou Di: "Then what was the reason for changing the room? Do you still have memories?"

Zhou Di said: "At first I didn't know why, I thought I did something wrong to make my mother unhappy. Later, after listening to the private discussions among the drivers, I realized that it was because I was afraid that my father would think she was partial... In order to make my father happy, she You must treat my brother better than me. Later, some small things happened one after another, and I gradually felt that what the drivers were talking about behind their backs was true."

Guan Ze felt restless and kept frowning.

Deng Changhua leaned his body towards Zhou Di and said slowly, "So you still feel aggrieved and angry?"

Zhou Di bowed his head and said, "I won't feel wronged, but I'm still angry."

"I think I can understand your anger." Deng Changhua looked at Zhou Di, and continued gently, "Is there anything else that troubles, disturbs, or angers you? You can tell me."

In the following time, Zhou Di talked a lot one after another, from when he was very young to now.In the end, Guan Ze felt that the sadness and heartache for him was almost unbearable.

Even though he was mentally prepared because he had been to Zhou Di's house, Guan Ze still did not expect that Zhou Di actually grew up in such an environment without any warmth and care, and no one ever gave him support, not even him. His biological mother, and never had.

His past made him what he is today, and it was understandable that he couldn't control himself when he was angry.Guan Ze now feels that it is normal for him to retain this bit of anger.

It's not that he has resentment in his heart, but he is still that little sun.

However, occasionally, he also needs others to warm him.

When he came out of the consulting room, Zhou Di's footsteps were much lighter, and he looked in a better mood than before.

The two stood on the side of the street waiting for a taxi, Zhou Di kept approaching Guan Ze, but this time Guan Ze did not deliberately distance himself from him.

"Dr. Deng is really amazing." Zhou Di said with emotion, "At first... I didn't think there was anything wrong with me, but when I chatted with Dr. Deng, I seemed to unconsciously say a lot of things that I would not normally say. After saying this, I actually feel like I have unloaded some burden, and now I feel very good."

Guan Ze looked into his eyes and said, "Yes, Dr. Deng is indeed an excellent psychiatrist."

Zhou Di took Guan Ze's hand and shook it, and said, "But I also want to thank brother Guan Ze. If it weren't for you, I might not be able to relax so much. There are some things that I don't even want to mention. It's because of you... that I mustered up the courage to say it."

Guan Ze slowly withdrew his hand and said, "It's better to say it than to keep it in your heart."

"Yeah... And in the end, Dr. Deng also said that I don't have a big problem. After he said it, I felt very relieved. However, I still think that Dr. Deng's suggestion is very necessary, and I will come again in the future. For consultation. But...Guan Ze brother, you still stay with me like this time, okay?"

"Well, as long as you're well."

Guan Ze replied softly, putting all the boy's smile into his eyes.

At the same time, Deng Changhua stood by the window of the consultation room, watching the intimate gesture of the handsome young couple on the street.

Because Guan Ze was the consultant today, he focused more on that boy.

The boy seemed to be a very simple person, and he was quite cooperative with this consultation, and his desire to confide was very strong.Such a person is almost open to experienced psychologists.

Deng Changhua clearly saw that the child had some psychological barriers due to the complex family situation and lack of care in childhood.He is guarded and irritable, but likes to hide his anger with a well-behaved appearance.

But none of this is serious, this level of rebellion is nothing, even for a happy adolescent.Everything about Zhou Di is so just right.

Anger and irritability are all to the point, and the fluke and fear after making a mistake are comparable. During the consultation process, his small movements such as frowning and clenching fists seem to support these appropriate emotions.

He is by no means a submissive little sheep, but he has no viciousness to retaliate against anyone.

Based on what Deng Changhua has seen, no matter whether he uses professional knowledge or years of experience to analyze this young man, he can get such a result.So Deng Changhua passed the same message to Guan Ze and Zhou Di.

Deng Changhua also knew that after hearing Zhou Di's statement today, Guan Ze would make the same judgment.

But in fact, there is an elusive but lingering intuition telling Deng Changhua that this young man is not as simple as they see.

Because everything is "just right", it is too perfect, too precise, so perfect that it is a bit fake.

Deng Changhua couldn't help coming up with a bold idea. He thought, what he saw was what the boy wanted him to see?So the young man's cooperation is just Deng Changhua's self-righteous cooperation.He thought he was leading the boy to reveal his state of mind, but in fact it was the boy guiding him and asking the boy what he wanted to answer.

To be able to guide the thinking of a psychologist in the opposite direction during the consultation process, either the consultant’s professional knowledge far exceeds that of the psychologist, or the consultant’s IQ is so high that he can easily fool an experienced psychologist.

Deng Changhua assumed that Zhou Di's situation was the latter, and he was by no means like "just a little clever, and he was reluctant to get into Beijing University" as he said.

If this assumption is true, Deng Changhua will analyze it based on what he saw before, and then he will come to a conclusion: Zhou Di is likely to have antisocial personality disorder, and he himself is quite aware of his problem, so he perfectly puts everything in his All external manifestations are hidden.

If these two assumptions are true, then this young man who looks so sunny is really terrifying.

While thinking about it, Deng Changhua saw Zhou Di holding Guan Ze's hand and dangling downstairs. No matter how you look at it, he was just a spoiled brat.

Deng Changhua rubbed his temples tiredly, closed his eyes and fell into deep thought again.

He was indeed worried about Guan Ze, but his professional ethics as a psychiatrist determined that he could not make judgments rashly based on intuition, nor could he tell Guan Ze his judgments without Zhou Di's permission.

All he could do was to sincerely suggest that Zhou Di continue to come for consultation so that he could continue to observe Zhou Di's condition.

When Deng Changhua opened his eyes, the two young people downstairs had already hailed a taxi. Zhou Di carefully helped Guan Ze open the car door, and put his palm on the roof of the car to prevent Guan Ze's forehead from hitting the roof.

The care and tenderness at this moment are not pretending.

It's worth his effort to pretend all afternoon, it's not that he really wants to tell himself all this, the person he wants to confide in is actually Guan Ze.Deng Changhua thought, at least he didn't have any malice towards Aze, and one can rest assured that he would not hurt Guan Ze.

Then, Deng Changhua looked at the taxi, which gradually disappeared from his sight.