Then there is no more

Although Shen Yi generously offered a heavy gift (actually she didn't), Anping Bo's Mansion couldn't accept it calmly.

Uncle Anping thought over and over again, and solemnly wrote a reply to the Shen family.First of all, our Bian family has received your wishes, but the situation is more complicated, and many things need to be discussed in the long run, so don't be rash.Then he said, please Shen Yi take care of the family with peace of mind.Finally, a time was set to meet.

The date of meeting is set in ten days.Uncle An Ping was not in a hurry to see Shen Yi, because he felt that Shen Yi's health was not in good shape, so he gave Shen Yi enough time to recuperate.Furthermore, it happens to be Taixue's holiday in ten days' time.On that day, Bian Jingyu stayed at home all day.

In this dynasty, although men and men can engage in marriage, there are many rules here that are rather vague.Among them, the rules of etiquette such as three media and six engagements are the same as those in marriage between men and women, but what about after marriage?After a man and a woman get married, the man dominates the outside and the woman dominates the inside. This rule has been established.If a woman wants to be a strong family with a woman's body, and wants to show her face outside, there is a way to set up a female household.But when a man marries a man, since everyone is a man, why should one be separated and confined in the inner courtyard?And who should be trapped in the inner courtyard?

This is a question worth pondering.

If in the overall social environment, it is extremely common for men and women to get married, then a set of applicable rules can also be developed if everyone agrees to become a custom.However, in the overall social environment, most people choose to take the road of marriage between men and women. Relatively speaking, marriage between men and women is not very common, so there is no such thing as a convention.Everyone crossed the river by feeling the stones, and gradually developed two sets of completely different rules.

The first type is that the two men who get married either have similar status, or are in love with each other, or have some kind of gentleman's agreement. After they get married, they will be each other's husbands. There is no such thing as a "man's wife".Both married couples can go out and have the same social status.If they want to have children, then both of them can take concubines.Of course, if the two are really happy with each other, they will often not take concubines, and they will each adopt a nephew from the clan to their knees.

The second type is that the status of the two married men is very different, and one of them needs to depend on the other.Then, when these two people get married, the one with the higher status will naturally be the husband, and the one with the lower status will be the male wife.A man's wife is a vassal of her husband and cannot show her face or take part in the imperial examination.Husbands can take concubines and have children, but male wives cannot.Even if a man and wife want to adopt a child, they can only adopt nephews from the husband's family.

The marriage deed is slightly different in these two cases.

In real life, there are also two men whose social status differs greatly, but they love each other and cannot bear to let the one they love suffer, so they choose the first situation.Whether to choose the first type or the second type, there is no hard and fast rule here, it only depends on the word of heart.

When Anping Bo just made an agreement with Shen Deyuan, he mistakenly thought that the Shen family wanted to raise Shen Yi as a daughter, so what he thought in his heart was to let Bian Jingyu marry Shen Yi as a husband.Later, Uncle An Ping knew that he had misunderstood, so he decided to let Bian Jingyu and Shen Yi choose the first way to form a bond.

Since it is the first way, both of them can walk outside, so there is no such thing as "you can't meet before marriage".Otherwise, if they encountered a situation where their mutual friends wanted to entertain all their friends, would they still deliberately avoid it?It's nothing more than a friend's banquet. If both of them happen to be students and were assigned to the same examination room during the imperial examination, should one of them be allowed to give up the opportunity?This must be impossible.

Therefore, Bian Jingyu and Shen Yi, the young unmarried couple, did not have so many taboos between them, meeting and talking were not hindered.Uncle An Ping wanted to let Bian Jingyu and Shen Yi cultivate some friendship before they got married, so he set the day to meet Shen Yi on the day when Bian Jingyu went to rest.

Along with the replies, they were sent to Shen's house, as well as various medicinal materials sorted out by Lu's family.

Lu Shi brought a large amount of dowry with her when she married Uncle Anping. She has managed well these years, and she probably has more silver in her hands than Uncle Anping.Therefore, for the Lu family, things that can be settled with money are nothing to worry about!Knowing that the female members of the Shen family were not in good health, Mrs. Lu prepared several nourishing medicines that women could use in special times.She was also meticulous in her work, and she didn't choose expensive gifts, all the gifts were exactly what the Shen family needed.

Uncle An Ping also asked Mrs. Lu to add some medicinal materials for nourishing qi and nourishing blood. After all, "Shen Yi's body is too weak and she can only write from left to right"!

Those idlers wandering around Shen's house had already dispersed when Uncle Anping and his wife came to Shen's house in person.The people living around saw that the uncle had come, and saw the carriage with the emblem of the uncle's mansion delivering things to the Shen's house in a mighty way, so they dared not go to the door of the Shen's house to do anything anymore.

Seeing that the things sent by Uncle Anping's Mansion were indeed what his sister and sister-in-law needed, Shen Yi couldn't say anything if he refused. Madam's kindness, I am ashamed to accept it." His tone was full of gratitude.Shen Yi also asked the housekeeper to go back and tell Uncle Anping that he would definitely live up to Uncle Anping's painstaking efforts, and would take good care of the family, so that Uncle Anping could rest assured.

After seeing off the housekeeper of Uncle Anping's Mansion, Shen Yi opened the reply and read it.

Since the reply post was not something private or important, Shen Yi opened it directly in front of Ah Mo.Ah Mo took a quick glance, and saw the words "@沉屋" on the head at a glance.Ah Mo once again despised himself in his heart, as expected he was rare and strange, he even thought the greeting post written by his master was weird, but he didn't expect that the reply post from Anpingbo Mansion was also in this format.This shows that there must be no problem with the format.

I hate the lack of books when I use them. I look at it strangely, it must be because I have read too few books.Amo thought so.

Ah Mo didn't know that Uncle An Ping was actually imitating Shen Yi.

Uncle's idea is very simple. Since he believed Bian Jingyu's explanation and felt that "@" is a symbol of blessing, since he received Shen Yi's blessing in the greeting post, he would naturally return a copy in the reply post. bless.In Uncle’s view, although this “@某某” looks a bit weird, it should be the same as the “song” and “百佳头头” at the end of the letter. It is a kind of etiquette. sincere.

However, Uncle's reply did not completely follow the format of Shen Yi's invitation.Uncle is still used to writing vertically from right to left.When Shen Yi wrote the letter, he subconsciously wrote it from left to right, but now he was not unaccustomed to the replies written from right to left, so he quickly finished reading the reply.Regarding what the uncle said, the situation is complicated. In fact, the uncle is referring to the punctuation mark, but Shen Yi thinks that the uncle is talking about his father being imprisoned.He felt that Uncle was quite right. This matter really needs to be considered in the long run, and it must not be rash.

In this way, Shen Yi happily reached an agreement with Anpingbo Mansion.

Since the date of meeting was set for ten days later, Shen Yi put aside the affairs of Uncle Anping's Mansion. He has a more important thing to do now, which is to visit his father and elder brother in prison.Because the verdict has been issued, although Shen Deyuan and Shen Si are still not allowed to be free, the prison does not prohibit their family members from visiting them.Shen Yi had to tell them that the family had settled down, so that her father and elder brother should not worry.

Knowing that Shen Yi was going to the prison, Su immediately got ready.She wanted Shen Yi to bring more things to Shen Deyuan and Shen Si, so that their life in prison would be a little easier.Just for food, Su Shi prepared two big boxes.One box is full of fresh food, which can make Shen Deyuan and Shen Si have a good meal.One box is dry food, which can be stored for ten days, so that they can eat enough for the next ten days.

In addition to food, thick clothes are also to be brought.The cell was very cold, and after staying in it for a long time, one always felt that the wind had entered the bones.You also need to bring pillows and quilts, because the bedding in the cell is very simple, and only some damp straw is spread on the floor.Mrs. Su was careful and prepared a patented medicine.This patented medicine is to make Chinese medicinal materials into balls according to a specific formula, which can cure some minor ailments.

"Yiniang, come and help your mother to take a look, but there is nothing left." Su Shi has already packed several large bags, but he is always afraid that he is not ready enough, "If you can bring your father some Just let the books go in. Your father...that's a man who doesn't love books."

Books are of course not allowed.There is a word in the book that the jailers are afraid that there will be internal and external connections and exchange of information.

Su's expression was lonely.

Thinking that her father and elder brother are both talented people, but they are forced to waste time in prison, and don't know how long they will be wasted, Shen Yi also feels very uncomfortable.He sighed and said, "It would be great if there was a computer." With the computer, even if the father and elder brother are locked up, they can know the world's affairs through the computer.Wait, what is a computer?Why do I say that it is good to have a computer?What the hell is a computer!

In the blink of an eye, Shen Yi finally realized something. There seemed to be something wrong with his mind.

Shen Yi frowned deeply.

Su didn't notice what was wrong with her son, she slapped her head and said: "Yiniang is right, I'll go and get ready..."

Mrs. Su left in a hurry, and before she left, she got Liu Niangzi to help, and left the matter of decocting the medicine to Shen Yi alone.Shen Yi was sitting in the kitchen, staring at the medicine that was being boiled for her sister and sister-in-law on the stove, while thinking in her heart, should he grab some medicine for himself?

Yu Shi's medicine was decocted first, Shen Yi poured the medicine into a bowl, got up and called Su Shi, asking Su Shi to deliver the medicine to Yu Shi.Shen Yi is sixteen years old, she needs to be taboo in front of her sister-in-law, basically she doesn't enter her house, so the matter of taking care of Mrs Yu personally is done by Mrs Su herself.

Shen Yi went to the front of the hall to have a look, and saw that Mrs. Su and Liu Niangzi had cut old clothes and were doing needlework.

"Mother, this is..." Shen Yi asked.

Su Shi said: "Sew a pillow for your father and elder brother. All porcelain pillows are used at home, and that thing is fine for normal use, but it's too cold in the prison. I'm afraid that the cold air will enter your father and elder brother along the porcelain pillow. It's going to give them a headache. So, they've got to sew a cloth pillow for them."

"Mother is more careful." Shen Yi said.

Mrs. Su shook her head, looked at Shen Yi with a little relief, and said, "You reminded me of this. If you hadn't said that you were stupid, I wouldn't have thought of it for a while. I've been so busy these days It's my head." Padding the brain, padding the brain, isn't it something that pads the head?Nothing wrong!

Shen Yi: "..."

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Although I don't know what a computer is, I can be sure that it is definitely not used to pad the head.