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The school bus stopped at the gate of the Metro supermarket.

For the safety of the children, the school specially selected a Metro far away from the urban area. Compared with most supermarkets, there are fewer people here.

Yang Jian led the children at the head of the team, Ning Xia watched in the middle, and Monkey King followed slowly at the end.

Although there are two gods, Sun Wukong and Yang Jian, it is absolutely impossible for the child to get lost, but they still need to save face.

For the teachers in the school, the safety of the children is above all else.

Yang Jian first took the children to buy paper towels and tablecloths. He only stipulated what the children must buy, other than that, they were free to choose.

The eight groups of children deal with money in different ways. Some groups hand over the money to the group leader, buy it together, and distribute it at the end. Others keep the money firmly in their own hands and buy whatever they want. .

Ning Xia thought this was not good before, and said to Yang Jian Sun Wukong worriedly: "Would this be bad, or we'd collect the money and buy it collectively, to ensure that everyone has the same snacks."

The two classes next door adopt this method. They buy them together and distribute the same snacks to everyone. This can save a lot of things. At least the children don’t have to go to the supermarket by themselves. For the teacher, this method reduces a lot The burden increases the safety factor.

Monkey King said lazily at the time: "But what if they don't like what we bought?"

His thinking is very straightforward. When he was in Huaguo Mountain, there were little monkeys who didn't like peaches. You can't let the little monkeys who like bananas eat peaches because of convenience, right?

and……

Monkey King said: "They are all so old, of course they can choose what they like."

Seven years old is already a very old age for monkeys!

Ning Xiaxin said, children in the first grade are not very old at all.

He went to see Yang Jian again, but Yang Jian also said: "Although they are only in the first grade, they still have the ability to make their own choices!" He said, "And I think the children nowadays are very smart, they all know what to do .”

Ning Xia thinks about Yin Shou, and thinks about those children who are very capable before elementary school in "Mengmeng Going Forward", and thinks, so be it!

……

Ding Ling's team chose to manage the money in a unified manner. Ding Ling came forward and wrote a list, including napkins, wet wipes, garbage bags, and tablecloths.

He said: "We will buy these things collectively. After buying them, I will calculate the remaining money to see how much each person can spend."

He glanced at the group members with majestic eyes and said, "Is there any problem?"

The children all said, "No problem."

In the end, they bought 25 yuan for public goods. Ding Ling and the others were a little embarrassed about the choice of tablecloths, because the price of disposable tablecloths was much cheaper than tablecloths made of cloth.

Zhao Jiale is a girl who likes pretty things, so she said, "I'd better buy cloth and make them. Look at these patterns, how pretty are they?"

Ma Xingyu also said: "Mom said that cloth things are more environmentally friendly than plastic ones."

Ding Ling said: "I also think the cloth is better and stronger."

They adopted the method of group voting, and all three children chose to buy tablecloths made of cloth, so even if the remaining two children wanted to buy plastic ones, they would not be approved.

Their special behavior of picking cloth tablecloths caught the attention of the teacher. Yang Jian knelt down and said, "Ding Ling, why did the people in your group choose cloth tablecloths?"

Ding Ling said: "Because we went through a group vote, and all three of us chose the tablecloth."

His expression can be said to be very serious.

In addition to them, many teams chose plastic tablecloths, but these teams did not buy them themselves, but bought them together with people from other teams. There are 20 plastic tablecloths in a pack. They united five teams, one team Take four.

Ning Xia looked at the children's rich choices, and was dumbfounded: "Are all the children nowadays so smart?"

He felt that if he was among them, he would definitely buy a bag of plastic tablecloths, who cares what the other groups think.

Yang Jian smiled and said, "So let the children come to the supermarket by themselves."

He said: "Don't look at them because they are young, they actually have ideas."

Ning Xia looked at these super-capable children and fell silent. He thought, he really shouldn't have inherent cognition. Now it seems that under the premise of ensuring the children's safety, it is better to let them do it themselves!

Sun Wukong walked lazily along with the children. He watched all directions and listened to all directions. No matter what the children were doing, they could not hide from his eyes and ears.

Suddenly, he heard the sound of arguing not far away. When he heard it, the voice was very familiar, and it was a child in his class.

Sun Wukong walked over in three steps and said in two steps: "What's the matter?"

He found that one child had red eyes and was crying.

Monkey King said without frowning: "Don't cry, crying won't solve the problem."

Such an iron-blooded education method made the child try hard to hold back, even if he cried, he didn't make a sound. Someone happened to pass by nearby, and he couldn't help but say: "You coax him."

Sun Wukong glanced at the man and said nothing. He said to the crying child, "Can you tell me what happened?"

The child was still trying to hold back his crying and didn't speak.

The other children in the group raised their hands and said, "Let me tell you!"

Sun Wukong saw that he was so active, so he called the child's name and said, "Liu Ruimin, tell me what happened?"

Liu Ruimin said: "Our team agreed that everyone can only buy 80 yuan of snacks, because the remaining 20 yuan is shared, but Qi Fan's snacks are more than 80 yuan, and he is still unwilling to take them. Put more back."

Liu Ruimin paused and said, "That's why Qi Fan cried."

Sun Wukong let out an oh, stood up and said, "That's it, then you can solve it yourself."

Qi Fan felt very aggrieved at first, although he bought too much, but he really wanted to take so many snacks at the same time, and now he saw Monkey King standing up and didn't want to care, he couldn't help crying for a long time, and suddenly exploded open.

Liu Ruimin is the team leader and has a strong sense of responsibility. He said to Qi Fan, "You can't cry like this. This is a public place. If you cry like this, it will disturb others."

Sun Wukong was going to leave and let the children solve it by themselves, but now he heard Qi Fan's voice, he knew he couldn't leave.

Sun Wukong said: "Don't cry." He was not lazy, and his voice was very strict, "You are a man, don't cry!"

Qi Fan might have been startled by Sun Wukong's attitude, his voice suddenly became quieter, and then he heard his favorite Dasheng teacher say: "We said before that if a child makes inappropriate actions, it will disturb the Others, his group is going back to the car and can't buy anything."

He said: "Do you think that crying in public has affected others?"

Qi Fan nodded blankly.

Involving other team members, everyone returned to the car together. These two conditions made him very disturbed, so he could only twitch and say to Monkey King: "I won't cry, I won't affect others."

Sun Wukong said: "OK."

He said to Liu Jiamin: "You are the team leader, you can solve the rest by yourself."

Because Qi Fan and the others made too much noise, when Sun Wukong was dealing with it, a circle of people surrounded him. Some aunts who didn't know Sun Wukong thought he was a teacher, but when they saw Sun Wukong stand up, they interjected: "You teacher is too irresponsible, why don't you just ignore it?"

Sun Wukong was quite strange, he said: "Isn't this already taken care of?"

The aunt said: "The child is still crying with grievance."

Sun Wukong was even more surprised, he said: "So I left it to them to solve it themselves," he said, "They are in a group."

When the aunt heard Monkey King's words, she felt even more incredible. She said: "How do children know how to deal with this kind of thing? You should coax them well. How can you let them solve it by themselves?"

Monkey King finally didn't want to listen anymore, he resumed his lazy appearance, and left with the children.

Afterwards, Qi Fan reached a consensus with his classmates, and he put the extra potato chips back.

If it's a group of kids, they can easily convince each other that they can do well without adult intervention.

There is no camera in the Metro supermarket, so the crew sent people, and there were small unmanned cameras to follow up. When Sun Wukong and the others returned to school at night, the members of the program team also conducted a one-person interview with Sun Wukong and asked him why he would So deal with it.

Monkey King said: "There is no reason, because they can do it well, so I teach them how to do it, isn't it normal?"

He said: "It is difficult for you to explain to children what the gray area is. Their point of view is very clear. There are only black and white, right and wrong, but because of this, they have no flexibility when doing things. Everything in one step is [-]% complete.”

"Because Qi Fan did something wrong, he was finally persuaded by other team members. Isn't this a normal thing?"

The program crew said humanely: "But before, didn't he cry aggrievedly?"

Sun Wukong frowned and said, "Oh, that's okay."

The program group said: "Why is it okay?"

According to the thinking of many parents nowadays, it is a very important thing for children to cry, and they have to coax them not to cry before they have completed the usual task.

However, children who cry have sweets to eat. This principle is not only used in the human world, but also exists in the animal world. Sun Wukong has seen many little monkeys, and some of them often cry, or use other methods to get their mother’s attention. force, so that the female monkeys pay more attention to them.

Monkey King said: "Why do you think children cry?"

The program group said humanely: "Um, because of grievances?"

Sun Wukong said: "No, in infancy, children cry because crying is a way of conveying emotions. They can't express themselves in words, so they can only cry to let you know that they are uncomfortable." He paused He continued, "But when they are two or three years old, children cry because they know that crying is a weapon, and children who can cry have candy to eat."

He shrugged and said: "Of course, this is a subconscious behavior. If a child is crying and his parents come to coax him and achieve his original purpose, then the crying is effective. After a long time, they will know how to cry. can help them."

"That's why children cry."

Sun Wukong said: "At this time, in order for them to develop good habits, and not to cry, we should ignore them."

"The children have this advantage, they are all the same age, and no one will be softened by the cries of their peers."

He concluded: "Over time, children who habitually cry will get rid of their bad habits."

The people in the program group were stunned. Now that Monkey King is in his heart, he seems to be an expert on children. What he said is too correct.

The people who came to interview him were also young people. For modern young people, they often encounter a situation when boarding planes, trains and other long-distance transportation.

That is children running wildly up and down the aisle, or it is the magic sound piercing your ears.

Some parents will restrain their children's behavior, let them quiet down quickly, and stay in their seats, but there are also many parents who don't think that the noise made by their children is a burden to the people around them, and cry when they feel wronged. , or when screaming, the psychological defenses collapse, whatever they do.

The staff of the program team thought: those parents should really see how Monkey King handles it, this is the correct way to raise well-behaved and well-educated children!

but……

He suddenly thought of the aunt who questioned Monkey King's approach before. There are too many parents like Huahua Country. If they don't change their old ideas, it will really be of no benefit to the next generation.

He looked at Sun Wukong with a gleam of admiration in his eyes. As a staff member, he could see Monkey King leading the live broadcast through the screen in the background.

Different from his appearance, Sun Wukong can be said to be very good at raising children, and his educational philosophy is very advanced, which is respected by most young people in modern times.

But because his ideas are contrary to the traditional behavior of loving children in the flower-growing country, when the show is broadcast, I am afraid there will be many gangsters desperately trying to black him!

But only when there are black and white fans can it cause controversy, which proves that the program group is popular.

They filmed "Attacking Teacher" in addition to thinking that the content of the program will be loved by the public, and it may not have caused the people in the flower-growing country to reflect on the way of education.

And this level of in-depth connotation seems to have found a breakthrough in Monkey King.

……

In the evening, the children returned to school excitedly with their own snack bags.

They chattered and discussed constantly along the way, obviously looking forward to tomorrow's autumn outing.

After Sun Wukong and the others sent the children back to the dormitory, they went to have a meeting with the head teachers of other classes.

Luo Bing was very surprised when he heard that they had taken their children to the supermarket.

She said, "No problem?"

After working as a teacher for more than a month, she did not relax, especially when the autumn outing was approaching, she was really nervous.

For the teachers, the most frightening thing is that the children make mistakes. In order to avoid this, the teachers and class teachers try their best to avoid taking the children out. They even hope to break the school tradition and find someone to go camping without taking the children. Go to a normal zoo for a day and go back to school.

Camping sounds dangerous!

However, the school also has their own considerations. They are originally a westernized elementary school, and they hope that their children can develop morally, intellectually, physically, aesthetically and physically. Camping is a reserved project of the school. close to nature.

This is much more useful than putting up signs on young saplings on Arbor Day.

So, while teachers have protested for so many years, the school has kept up the annual camp tradition.

Ning Xia answered Luo Bing's question, he said: "Why is there a problem, haven't the children come back well?"

He said: "You all bought the things and sent them directly to the children?"

Luo Bing said: "Yes, we all think this is a good way."

She paused and continued: "We are still worried about the things the children buy. What if they follow their own ideas and buy too much puffed food, it will be really bad for their health."

Luo Bing continued: "When we buy things, we can ensure a balanced nutrition, prevent children from competing with each other, and avoid going to the supermarket to reduce the possibility of accidents, isn't it great?"

In her opinion, the three men in the second class next door are the unreasonable ones.

Take the children out to buy things, thanks to them thinking about it.

Ning Xia originally thought so too, but after going out with Sun Wukong and Yang Jian, he felt that it was better for the child to choose by himself, so when Luo Bing spoke, he smiled politely, neither saying yes nor no good.

As for Yang Jian, he had never slapped him in the face, so he had a very decent smile on his face.

As for Sun Wukong, he started to wander again.

There is no way, the great sage is lazy all the year round, he can keep talking for a long time about the things he is interested in, but he has no interest in the things he is not interested in, such as what Luo Bing said to the opposite side.

But fortunately, Sun Wukong didn't have any expression on his face even if he was distracted, so Luo Bing thought it was just that he didn't speak, and didn't know that he was already distracted.

They talked about what to do tomorrow, and then separated.

By the next morning, the excited children had packed up early. They carried their schoolbags and lined up at the door of the dormitory.

Monkey King and the others were very speechless: "It's so early!"

Yang Jian squatted down and said to the child in front of him, "Did you not fall asleep because of excitement last night?"

The child said, "That's right, Teacher Yang."

Yang Jian said: "Then are you in a bad mood today?"

The child said: "I don't know." He said very sincerely, "But I don't think I will be sleepy now."

Yang Jian said: "It's good that you don't feel sleepy now. If we start to set up the tent and you fall asleep, the gain will outweigh the loss!"

The child nodded and said, "Okay!"

40 children in two classes went to sit in the same car, while three male teachers sat in the front.

Yang Jian sat with Monkey King, and Ning Xia sat alone.

It may be that sitting alone is too boring. After hearing intermittent singing from behind, Ning Xia said: "Let's sing together!"

He is a little fresh meat who has released an album!

After hearing this, the children all replied in high spirits: "Okay! Sing!"

Ning Xia asked, "Sing what?"

The children talked about the names of the songs, but they were not children's songs, but pop songs.

This made Ning Xia even happier, because he doesn't know much about children's songs, but he can sing popular songs that the children report.

Ning Xia, who has been unknown for a long time, has rarely found something that only he can do, which is to sing to children.

Neither Sun Wukong nor Yang Jian can complete this job. Needless to say, Yang Jian doesn’t know anything about singing, and Sun Wukong, although he is also a monkey who has gone to the Golden Melody Awards once, he can’t sing songs that Ning really knows. There are many heroes.

And the lazy Monkey King is not willing to make the effort to sing with the children, he just needs to listen to it.

Afterwards, along the way, accompanied by the singing of Ning Xia and the children, Sun Wukong closed his eyes and listened. The wind entered the car through the window and hit him on the face. The orange-red hair was moved by the wind.

Seeing his comfortable and relaxed expression, you know that Monkey King is in a good mood.

After more than an hour, they finally arrived at the National Forest Park.

The national forest parks in the flower-growing country are similar to those in other countries. If there is any special difference, it is that the forest parks in other countries can hunt, but the flower-growing country cannot.

In addition to the common rabbits and sparrows, it is impossible to see other small and medium-sized animals in the forest parks of Huahua Country.

Larger ones are even more impossible.

But after all, it is a forest park. Except for the absence of animals, the other terrain is not too different from foreign forest parks. Yang Jian, who is very experienced in surviving in the wild, of course became the leader.

He said, "We need to find a place with water and a high place to pitch our tent."

Ning Xia took a map from his schoolbag, which was given to them by the school before. After camping became a traditional reserved item of the school, every freshman will come to this forest park under the guidance of the teacher, and they Commonly used, several places that are more suitable for camping are also marked on the map.

Ning Xia said: "Teacher Yang Jian, do you think there is a suitable place here?"

Yang Jian went over to look and found that the locations chosen by the seniors were good. They were basically places close to water sources and with flat terrain, but these places all had a common feature, that is, they were very close to the entrance of the forest park.

Maybe it was to keep the kids from walking too much, he thought, and to relax himself by the way.

After all, the bus can only take them to the gate of the park. The equipment for setting up tents, pots and pans, and ingredients must be taken by themselves.

Their group has reached a perfect distribution. Tents and other equipment for the children will be distributed in groups. Anyway, they are 5 people living in a small tent, a total of 8 groups, and each group is assigned by itself. See how to get the tent equipment.

And those big things like pure water, pots and pans are taken by three adults, which is why they each carry a hiking bag.

If you give up making a fire to cook and use dry food for dinner, there will be a lot of problems. Due to physical strength and safety concerns, the next class does not bring pots and pans and food that needs to be cooked, and the camping The equipment is distributed to each teacher.

Because the two class teachers in the next class are both women, considering their physical strength is not as good as that of men, all the life teachers are in their group, so in terms of physical strength, it is fair.

After looking at the map, Yang Jian said to the children: "Is the luggage still moveable?"

The children replied in unison: "It can be moved!"

Yang Jian said: "Now we have two places to camp, one is on the mountain, a little farther away from here, where we can see the stars, and the other is by the river, a little closer to here, the water is very clear, look, where do you want to go Camp."

After hearing the choice given by Yang Jian, the children were stunned. The monitors of the last two classes summed up and said to Yang Jian, "Teacher Yang, give us 10 minutes to discuss."

Yang Jian smiled and nodded, discussing casually.

The children in their school are all well-to-do and well-educated. They are only 7 years old, and they have already learned almost all the common characters. In addition, they learned how to spell Chinese Pinyin in kindergarten, so there is no problem with typing.

Ding Ling took out his mobile phone, and the monitor of the class next door also came over. They typed the four words "camping site" on Baidu, and began to search for better places.

There are four principles for choosing a camping site, namely, water supply, level camp, leeward and shady, and away from danger.

After reading it, Ding Ling said to Yang Jian, "Mr. Yang Jian, do you have a map of the park?"

Ning Xia immediately sent the map to Ding Ling.

The eight team leaders were together, discussing in a hurry.

"It's better to live by the river, it's close, and it's convenient to camp. Didn't the camp rules say to ensure water supply?"

"But it's so close, what if someone falls while playing in the water."

"That's right, although we can guarantee that we won't play in the water, what should we do if other people go there secretly?"

"However, the mountain is a bit far away."

"Agreed, although you don't feel tired carrying your luggage now, you will feel tired after a while."

Ding Ling watched the debate for a long time, but none of the eight people could come up with an answer, so he said, "Well, let's talk to the team members and then vote."

After being the class president for a while, he found that voting is a good way to satisfy the requirements of most people, although not everyone.

As for the fact that children are easily persuaded and follow the crowd when voting, Ding Ling couldn't think of it.

The team leaders also felt that what he said was right, so after communicating with the team members, they prepared to come to Zhao and the two squad leaders to summarize the final results, but at this moment, Yang Jian shouted: "Kids, you only have 1 minute left. "

Cultivating children's concept of time is very important in the education process. Even Monkey King and Ning Xia pay attention to limiting time for children when doing homework.

Procrastination is not a good habit. If you don't pay attention to cultivating children's time concept when they are young, they will easily have habitual procrastination when they grow up.

Ding Ling and the others have already developed a habit for Sun Wukong. After hearing Yang Jian's countdown, they settled the vote as quickly as possible, and then the monitors of the two classes, as representatives, ran up to Yang Jian and said, "Teacher Yang, we decided to Alright, let's go to the mountains."

Yang Jian said: "On the mountain, if you are too tired carrying luggage, you should tell us."

Ding Ling nodded and said, "Okay."

Then the children were happy and followed the three teachers to the mountain.

Being able to choose a camping location on your own makes the children feel more involved in the autumn outing. Even though holding a tent is a bit tiring, the children can grit their teeth and persevere even if they are a little tired when they think that they are willing to go up the mountain by themselves.

The teachers have taught them before that as long as they make their own decisions, they cannot go back on their word, so even if some children feel tired halfway through, they just grit their teeth and stick to it.

Sun Wukong kept staring at the children from behind, and when he found that many of them were tired, he waved to Yang Jian in front, saying that they could take a rest first.

Yang Jian immediately said: "Let's rest for a while."

"Oh!!!"

The children cheered. They usually sit in the school, and now they are a little tired after walking in the forest park with their luggage for so long.

Yang Jian made three chapters with them and said: "But we have agreed that although you can rest, you can't run too far." He paused and said, "Be careful when you go to the river."

They had seen it before they came. There are no deep rivers in the forest park. They are all shallow streams. Even if a child more than one meter falls into the river, the water can only reach their waist. That is to say, there will definitely not be such a big problem as drowning.

But even in this kind of river, if children fall into it, they will get wet all over, which will greatly increase the possibility of catching a cold.

The children said: "Good!"

Then, like a pony that has been unleashed, it ran around wildly and happily. I was so happy.

Sun Wukong said: "I'll go and see them." Then he left with the crazy kid.

Yang Jian said: "I'll go ahead to explore the way first, and see how long we have to go."

Ning Xia said: "Okay, then I will stay here and watch the children and luggage."

Although most of the children ran away, there were still a small number of children who liked to be quiet, or who felt a little tired from walking before, stayed where they were and rested.

Moreover, the child who ran wildly was clever. Before leaving, he put all his luggage and bags in place. These things need to be watched by someone.

Ning Xia took on this important task.

The third teacher assigned his own work, and then he did what he should do.

Although Monkey King is only one person, he takes good care of the children, no matter where they go, they can't hide from Monkey King's sight.

But he doesn't care how the children play or where they go, as long as nothing happens anyway.

This is the experience that Sun Wukong saw from watching monkeys and monkey grandchildren.

Little monkeys are very wild, so we can't restrain them.

Moreover, originally camping is to get along well with nature, if they are confined to one place, there is no way to get along with nature.

The children have a special fondness for water. Although they remembered Yang Jian said to be careful near the water, they still couldn't help running to the edge of the stream.

Ma Xingyu said: "Ding Ling, can we play in the water?" He said, "There are fish in it!"

Ding Ling said old-fashionedly: "That depends on whether the water is deep or not."

Ma Xingyu said: "This creek can be seen to the bottom at a glance, how can it be deep?"

Dan Ding Ling is a very principled child, he said: "What you see may not be true."

He looked at Sun Wukong who was sitting by the tree and said, "Teacher Dasheng, how can we tell whether the water is deep or not?"

Monkey King said: "It's simple." He looked around and said, "Find something that can test the depth of water, insert it into the water, and compare."

Something that can test the depth of water?

Ding Ling also looked around, what can measure the depth of water?

Suddenly, a broken branch came into his sight.

The small light bulb on Ding Ling's head lit up and said, "Yes!"

Then he ran to the edge of the tree, picked up the branch and said, "This can test the depth of the water."

The river is very narrow, and a branch less than one meter is enough to reach the bottom of the creek.

It turned out that even the deepest part of the creek did not reach the children's calves.

So the kids started to get high. They first rolled up their sweatpants to their thighs, then took off their shoes and socks, and went into the river one by one.

The weather in October is still quite hot. After the children went down the river, they didn't feel too cold. In the end, they were stimulated by the stream water

Monkey King was very curious to see the children going down the river one by one, so he called out, "What are you doing going down the river?"

Zhao Jiale replied loudly: "Teacher Dasheng, we are going to catch fish."

catch fish?

The lively and active heart of the monkey suddenly moved.

Monkey King stood up and thought, he wants to see how these little brats catch fish.

The author has something to say:

The child cries and the aunt accuses this paragraph of having a prototype. I have a teacher who gave birth to the baby, and then when her family took the baby out, they carried the baby out with the baby's sling (yes, that's right, it's The kind of suspenders that foreign dads carry their children on their chests)

Then many aunts accused my teacher and her lover of not being able to take care of the child and should hold the child in their arms

In fact, I think the strap is very good and healthy (laughing and crying), and it can also free your hands

I think many of the older generation’s ideas about raising children are incorrect, because some of them are really easy to spoil their children, and they are also easy to quarrel with passers-by, including the mentality of giving their children whatever they want when they cry. Especially prone to bear children...

This chapter is to talk about my views on this phenomenon (of course, you author, I am still a baby, so I can only talk about it on paper in combination with educational videos)