There are precedents in the history of the Red Chamber

Although for some reason, Shi Dae did not keep his brother's filial piety, Shi Zhongzhu was still strictly required not to eat meat, and even the important method of collecting information in the past - listening to books, was stopped.Extremely bored, Shi Zhongzhu started the formal enlightenment ahead of schedule.

In the past, I had learned some superficial things, and had a simple contact with the "Book of Songs", but now I am formally enlightened, that is, I have studied it in depth.

In order to enter school earlier, Shi Zhongzhu acted like a baby to Shi Dae and Shi Niang every day for half a month, trying to prove his desire to learn.

Shi Niang couldn't bear it, so she had to discuss with her husband to let her youngest son go to school earlier.

After thinking about it for a while, Steve thought it was okay.Now that he is recovering from his injuries at home, it is good to supervise his two sons' studies when nothing happens.So it was established that the eldest brother would go to Shi Die's study to check his homework after school every day, and the second brother would be taught by Shi Die every morning.

In the early morning of the second day, Shi Zhongzhu got up early without being called by the maid, and went to the main room after washing.Shi Tai and Shi Niang got up slowly, washed slowly, and occasionally stopped to say a few words, making Shi Zhongzhu anxious.After finally getting to the table, Shi Zhongzhu finished his meal in two or three bites, and looked at his father eagerly.Seeing him like a living monkey, Shi Die reprimanded him, "Where have you learned the etiquette of dining, sit upright!" Shi Zhongzhu shrank away.

Shi Niang glared at her husband: I just like to tease children.With a smile on his face and eyes, Shi Dae was proud, and he ate his son's anxious expression, eating an extra bowl of rice.

After eating, Shi Dae led Shi Zhongzhu to the study.

Shi Die is an open-minded person, and he doesn't do any process of worshiping the statue of Confucius, but simply tells Shi Zhongzhu to study hard and persevere.

Then, start class.

Shi Dae took out a copy of "Zhuangzi", "Today, Daddy will tell you about "Xiaoyaoyou"."

"Father, didn't you talk about "Zi Zhi Tong Jian"?"

"When did I say that?"

"The last time you asked me to recite "The Book of Songs", you said that I learned it well, and you will tell me "Zi Zhi Tong Jian" when you are free."

"That was then, and this is now."

"It's time..." Shi Zhongzhu muttered, his face was not very happy, as if to say "You don't count".

Shi Dae explained, "At that time, what Daddy said was when you hadn't formally entered school, but now you are begging to officially enter school, so it is naturally different."

"Okay, "Getaway" is also fine."

"You boy, in "Xiaoyaoyou" there is a roc, which can fly tens of thousands of miles, and a kun, whose body is bigger than our house, so powerful."

"Really? Dad, tell me quickly."

Seeing that his son was finally happy, Shi started to give lectures.I thought to myself: At that time, even though I saved Shengjia at that time, the future was uncertain, so naturally the sons of the family must be motivated; Need to find another way out.Learning and knowledge can be taught slowly, but the mind must be established early.Is the lesson of my own generation not enough?

Shi Da Shi Ding is also the second son, but there is not much difference in age between him and his elder brother.His elder brother is not in good health, and the Shi family is from a family of martial arts, so Shi Dae is naturally more favored by Daddy than his elder brother.Shi Dae also thought wholeheartedly that learning martial arts well would make his father happy, and he practiced hard even more.However, the transmission of the title to the eldest son is stipulated by etiquette.Master Shi Hou didn't take it seriously at first, and he always loved Shi Dae more.

Suddenly one day, Mrs. Shihou and his own mother reminded his own father to "be in accordance with the rules and follow the rules".Since then, Lord Shi Hou has paid attention to maintaining the status and authority of the eldest son, and no longer spoils the second son blatantly.Shi Dae was really stunned all of a sudden, is this really a real father and mother?

I just feel sorry for Shi Dae, the half-grown child, who was thrown in the air by his parents, unable to get up or down.If it is said that Shi Tai has the ambition to covet the title, that is not true, what do half-grown children know; if he does not, it is not accurate, after all, since he was a child, the elder brother is not in good health, and the education he received is that he has to set up a family by himself.

If it was just like this, Shi Die would cheer up after being depressed for at most two days.I am most afraid of "but"!But my eldest brother's health is really bad, not to mention that he can't be a general, and he can't be a civil servant either.Such a sad and sick body, how can he become an official?

The continuation of historians in the officialdom, the heavy burden still falls on Shi Tai.Lord Shi put the burden of family continuation on the second son, and tried his best to teach him, but he did not give the family connections, and the resources were still tilted towards the eldest son, regardless of whether the eldest son needed it or not.I still have to beat Shi Dae from time to time, don't worry about the title of the family, and be self-reliant.

This is not to let you eat grass, let you bleed, only let you exert your strength, not let you eat meat, it will be unbearable to put it on anyone!

After Master Shi "repented", how he doted on the eldest son was endless for three days and three nights. Don't you see, the three sons got married and had children, and the eldest grandson is eight years old. The family still uses "eldest son" Grandpa, Second Master, Third Master".Lord Shihou wanted the second and third sons to understand that the family would still be passed on to the eldest son in the future.Master Shi Hou felt that doing so not only maintained the status of the eldest son, but also supported the second son; Mrs. Shi Hou also felt that her three sons had their own way out, which is really great.

Shi Die was chilled by such a "fair and just" approach, and devoted himself to leading his younger brother into a career.Make friends with low-level military officers at the same level without giving contacts, and cast the net widely, and someone will always be promoted anyway.The family doesn't have much resources, so they recruit their own staff.Shi Tai exchanged the monthly rewards he had accumulated for silver, bought Zhuangzi and shops, and gradually had a stable income.At the most difficult time, Shi Tai didn't go out to socialize for a year, just because he had no money!After marrying a daughter-in-law, the financial situation gradually improved.

Uncle Shi and Uncle Shi teamed up to fight in the officialdom, and by the time Lord Shi Hou realized it, his two sons had already left the circle of the country's meritorious service far away.Like military officers from poor families, most of the contacts they make are middle and low-level. The only thing better than poor families is that they have the name of the son of a marquis, and others dare not take credit for their achievements.

Did Master Shi Hou find that his son was alienated from him?How could it not have been discovered that the two sons, especially the second son, behaved in accordance with etiquette, more respectful than close.But what if you find out?

With this kind of historical experience and lessons, Shi Tai tried to treat his sons on the basis of non-discriminatory treatment, distinguishing the primary from the secondary.If I hadn't received the education of "standing up for a family" when I was a child, I wouldn't have suffered so much.

Therefore, seeing that his eldest son was intelligent and progressive, Shi Tai appointed him as his heir.For the second son, before teaching his skills, he must first develop a disposition of indifference and no emphasis on utilitarianism.In the case where the youngest son doesn't know, so as not to hurt the relationship between father and son.

Shi Zhongzhu shook his head and recited "Xiaoyaoyou" with his father. Shi father thought that he would not know at such a young age. If Shi Zhongzhu was really the original product, he would not know it. It's a pity...

Shi Zhongzhu has no objection to Shi Die's approach. In his previous life, he studied agriculture and did technical work.He is only proficient in technology and doesn't understand the world, and others will praise him for dedicating himself to science.Shi Zhongzhu, since he has come, he will be at ease, and he has no pretentious desire to go back.But the traces of the past cannot be erased. I have already developed the temperament of knowing that I am only suitable for learning, and I am afraid that it will not be easy to change in this life.Coincidentally, the training direction at home is also the same, and it just so happens not to change.

After all, the child is young, seeing that his son is not a 3-minute fever, Shi Dae can sit still, and on the basis of the lecture, he also taught tracing red.Shi Zhongzhu's chubby hand couldn't hold the pen well, so Shi Dae held his hand and taught him.He told me to write up to five large characters a day, for fear that the bones would be deformed.It is said to be five large characters, but it is actually ten characters. On a piece of paper, there are two big characters. The homework is assigned, and the sun has risen to noon.The two father and son took each other back to the main room for dinner.

Back in the main room, Shi Niang was waiting, and Shi Bosong also came back from the school, and the whole family had lunch in an affectionate manner.Shi Bosong had to go to school in the afternoon, so he didn't stay to talk, and went straight back to his yard for a lunch break.

Shi Zhongzhu didn't have such worries, his classes were only in the morning, and in the afternoon he was playing around with fish and fish, and he rolled around several times in his mother's pregnancy before going to bed.

After taking a nap, I saw my mother and asked, "Mom, where is dad?"

"Your grandfather called."

ah?Lord Shi Hou doesn't often call him Shi Dae, what happened?