It's better to be lingering (intentional whispering sequel)

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Xu Maimai found out with guilt that she had never cared about Yunfei for a long time because she was too busy to take care of herself, but she always turned to Yunfei for help.

"You and Du Peng, have you made up your mind?" Xu Xiaomai asked carefully. (I'm afraid everyone will forget that Du Peng is Yunfei's lover for 10 years. I remind everyone because I can't remember the name myself, so I went back and looked it up.)

Yun Fei paused for a moment, "From the moment I saw their family, I no longer feel that I have a clear conscience. If I continue to entangle, I will despise myself even more."

Neither Xu Xiaomai nor Kou Yaner said anything, it was too difficult to answer.

"Don't worry, Du Peng has turned the page. He's home." Yun Fei smiled bitterly.

Kou Yan'er has already guessed the outline of the story from Yun Fei's few words.Moreover, she saw sadness and reluctance in Yun Fei's smile.

"It's also possible that this Du Peng's heart will never go back." Kou Yan'er wanted to say it, but he didn't say it.She herself has a deep understanding that since she fell in love with Xu Xiaomai, she can never go back.

As if there was a tacit understanding, Yun Fei went on to say, "However, my heart can no longer go home. You can see that I am haggard because I am in the process of divorcing Fan Zhi. Divorce is more difficult after all. Getting rid of that A paper marriage is really troublesome." (Note again, Fan Zhi is Yun Fei's husband.)

"Yes, very troublesome." Kou Yaner said. "Don't be bored alone, please contact us if you have troubles. We are friends."

"Okay. Don't talk about me. It's your turn, start showing your affection. Don't worry about adding salt to my wounds." Yun Fei regained his usual humorous ease.

"Yunfei, we also encountered difficulties and need your advice. Let me tell Yan'er that you are my life mentor." Xu Xiaomai said hastily.

"Life mentor, this hat is a bit too big, I can't bear it. The problem I encountered is about the little button?" Yun Fei is so smart, Xu Maimai and Kou Yaner came to ask her for advice, what else could it be?

"Yeah, I think you are the most experienced." Xu Xiaomai was sure that he had found the right person, and he would not disappoint himself today.

"I don't have experience, but I have lessons. In other words, in fact, experience often has no reference value, and lessons are the most important."

Kou Yaner nodded.Yun Fei was quite right.People like to read the experience of success, but often ignore the lessons of others' failure.In fact, no one can copy the success of others, and those experiences are subject to specific conditions.The so-called lessons are those shortcomings that cause failure, which have warning significance for everyone.

"We don't need to talk about irresponsible parents, we are all too responsible. You also know that I quit my job and stayed at home for my son. I thought I had done my duty and I had a clear conscience. But, you know, I went abroad last year to see When I was with my son, I realized that his feelings were completely different from what I imagined."

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"My son said that when he left home to study abroad, his biggest feeling was relief." Yun Fei said briefly, "Relief" was read out one by one.

"You put too much pressure on him?" Kou Yaner asked.

"He used the word debt." Yun Fei didn't seem to want to go into too much detail, so he stopped the topic. "That's about it. Back to the little button. What's your trouble?"

"Yunfei, you have paid so much, but what you got is that you don't understand. So what kind of attitude can we use to treat Xiaoguanzi?"

"This is the lesson I said. We need to know that children understand the world from a different perspective from us, so they will come to completely different feelings and conclusions. Sometimes adults feel that as long as they are good enough to children, they can pursue themselves But the child still feels like an outcast. Sometimes, adults think that self-sacrifice for the child is lamentable, but the child thinks that the adult is hypocritical or overwhelmed, like me."

Kou Yan'er looked at Yun Fei in frustration, "Your statement blocked all my paths. Is it all right?"

"Ha, Yan'er sometimes panics. Come on, Mai Mai, and highlight the key points." Yun Fei turned to Xu Maimai.

"Okay, let me read and understand. The point of this passage is that children have different perspectives from us. Therefore, I think Yunfei's meaning can be understood in two layers. The first layer is that we should not simply give what we think is right. It's about finding something acceptable for a small button. The second layer, since there's no good way, then we'll look for the least bad way."

"Haha, Xiaomai obviously thinks too much, and he thinks better than me." Yun Fei felt that Xu Xiaomai was always the one with whom he had the most tacit understanding.

"Let me add one more thing, don't underestimate children's observation and understanding. Don't think that adults' disguises can fool children. If you can't be watertight, don't try to deceive children. My son told me that he looked down on his father, Because he knows what his father has done. He also looks down on me, because I pretended not to know it in front of him. I even have to be thankful that my son didn't find out about me, otherwise he would have despised me completely." Yun Fei It's a bit sad to say.

Kou Yaner held Yunfei's hand, "Yunfei, thank you for your advice. We will work hard."

"Yan'er, you are very lucky to meet Mai. I often think that if I met true love back then, I might not have made such sacrifices, and I didn't need to sneak around to find a lover. In that case, maybe my son At least you won't look down on me."

"Yunfei, no one has the right to look down on you. You have done a good job." Kou Yaner said sincerely.It is rare for Kou Yaner to speak so bluntly.She thanked Yun Fei from the bottom of her heart.

Kou Yan'er vaguely had some ideas and direction.

Yun Fei is right, since there is no ready-made experience, it means that you have to be ingenious and eclectic, boldly imagine and handle carefully.

"By the way, let me tell you, Sophie came to have dinner with me last week." Yun Fei changed the subject, "I am delighted to hear that I have been promoted to be Sophie's only friend in China."

"Then what?" Xu Mai felt that Yun Fei still had something to say.

"Then, Sophie said, she will not agree to your coming to Guangzhou. It's not for revenge, but your actions are inappropriate."

"What do you think?" Xu Xiaomai asked.

"I think sophie is right. One cannot be greedy and want everything."

"I understand." Xu Xiaomai still has a lot of things to do, in short, he can't be overwhelmed with confidence just because it goes well for a while.A pragmatic attitude is never out of date.

Xu Maimai went back to Shanghai to go to work.Kou Yan'er said, give Little Button a cooling-off period and let her digest it slowly.

Life was back to normal again, which calmed down the little button a lot.

If it is said that the divorce of her parents three years ago made Xiao Button terrified for quite a long time, the life of two people with her mother made her feel at ease.The main reason is that my mother still maintains the original appearance, and even behaves a little better, and is more reasonable, except that she is a little stricter in her studies.But compared with other mothers, it is still considered relaxed.

Slowly, in Little Button's view, having a fake father might be a worse thing than having no father.She doesn't want a fake dad, that is to say, Little Button has stepped into his comfort zone, the free and simple carefree comfort zone he's used to.

Sometimes the little button would go to his father for a meal or something, and when Kou Yaner had something to do, he had to leave the little button at Li Zhiqiang's house for a few hours, or even overnight.

Kou Yan'er never criticized Li Zhiqiang, nor did he say a word about his current life.Kou Yan'er grew up with her mother's resentment and impatience, so she would never let Little Button experience that kind of boredom and hatred for her father.