Breaking the cocoon gl+ Fanwai

Soon, a delicate little character fell into my eyes, an ordinary character, rusted at the end of the scarf with blue silk thread, like the most beautiful character in the world, it made my nose sore and my eyes wet instantly.

Sure enough, I guessed right, this white scarf is for me.

☆、Chapter 14

On New Year's Eve, I sent Lin Yi and Youyou back to Lin's house. Before leaving, Lin Yi didn't look at me more, or showed how reluctant she was to me.Faintly, I couldn't figure out what she was thinking.She gave me a scarf and embroidered my name on it. She shouldn't be unclear about such an ambiguous matter.Or was it just a simple thank you for taking care of her for so long?

On New Year's Eve, I got off the plane early in the morning. When I went out, I specially wore a black coat, put on the white scarf she gave me, and dressed up carefully.It's a pity that it was too early, and I wasn't sure if she had woken up, and I didn't dare to go to her house to say goodbye to her, and I didn't know who I was wearing this outfit for.The senior sister came to see me off today, and this outfit fell into her eyes, and I became the object of being ridiculed completely.

Hahaha I completely understand that women are the ones who please themselves, and the ancients never deceived me.The senior sister patted the steering wheel and laughed heartily while driving.

Senior sister, is it that funny? I was sitting in the co-pilot, propping my head up and yawning.

Tell me honestly, have you two made progress? The senior sister has a gossipy face.

What progress can be made, as usual.I answered her feebly.

No way, didn't she knit this scarf by herself? This is not a small improvement.

But she should have just given me a thank you gift. Not only I have the scarf, but also my parents have it. The meaning is completely different.I said.

You are wrong to think that way. If she is embarrassed to give you a gift alone, and then brings her parents along, don’t you think it’s wrong? Even if she really just gave you a thank you gift, it’s a big improvement , you should be happy.

I get it, do you look like I'm sad? I gave her a glare.

You, I know, Lin Yi may have had a bad attitude towards you before, which caused you to have a pessimistic view of her.You have to have some confidence in her, don't always be so negative, otherwise the relationship between the two of you will not be able to improve.The senior sister is a little bitter.

Um.I replied casually, but I thought in my heart, how could it be so easy, Lin Yi is still avoiding me, and when I get close, she is like a frightened bird. It may be very difficult to like me.

Gu Fan, you should have learned it when you were in graduate school, the phenomenon of emotional transfer from patients to psychiatrists.

Huh? Of course.But I am obviously different from Lin Yi. I knew her before. She understands me, knows that I like her, and resists me.In addition, she didn't know that I was treating her as a psychiatrist, so the emotional transfer between us was not established.

It is a very common phenomenon for patients to transfer their emotions to psychiatrists, because most patients with mental illness have no one to care for or listen to in real life, and people around them treat them badly.The psychiatrist is the only one who will listen carefully to their words and gently soothe their hearts.Especially when the psychiatrist and the patient are not much different in age and are of the opposite sex, emotional transfer is very easy to occur.Patients will mistakenly think that they are in love with the doctor, but in fact it is just an illusion.Transfer is part of treatment, and it is effective in guiding patients, and it is commonly used by psychologists.

And psychologists sometimes have a reverse transfer phenomenon to patients, and fall in love with patients because of pity.Generally speaking, this kind of thing is not forbidden in treatment, after all, doctors are human beings with emotions.But most psychiatrists will untangle this part of the relationship and finally put on the brakes.Those who can't step on the brakes can only give up their licenses and dedicate their lives to this patient alone.

Strictly speaking, Lin Yi and I are not a doctor-patient relationship, but she and my senior sister are.As a nurse, I used my psychological knowledge to guide Lin Yi step by step according to the senior sister's treatment plan.I was not qualified to treat patients with serious mental illness like Lin Yi, because my license is only a psychological counselor, not a psychotherapist.I can only sit in the psychological counseling room of the school, but my senior sister can sit in the psychiatric consulting room of a big hospital, this is the difference.The relationship between me and her is also different from the relationship between a general psychologist and a patient. I have known her since childhood, and she has also known that I like her, and has always resisted me.

I don't understand why the senior sister still mentions emotional transfer.

But after all, I am ignorant and inexperienced, so I only heard the senior sister tsk-tsk twice and said:

You are wrong.She has already had an emotional transfer to you, subtly, it is inevitable.

how do I say this?

She transferred the emotion she had in her head for her ideal lover onto you.Senior sister said.

Senior sister is really eloquent, I feel speechless.