HE with the wrong person (GL) + extra episode

Grandpa said, "Then guess what is the winning rate when Yuan Wei plays chess with me?"

"I heard that the way of chess is also calculated. As long as the brain's calculation speed is fast enough, the winning rate will be higher. So AlphaGo can beat Ke Jie. Yuan Tao's brain is so easy to use, and he practiced with you since childhood, the winning rate should not be low, right? "Qin Lian thought for a while and guessed.

"I'm wrong, she is just like you, she has almost never won." Grandpa said with a smile.Come read the novel!It's fast, my dear!

Chapter 45 Don't suffer for her

"Why?" Qin Lian couldn't believe it.

Grandpa played with the chess pieces in his hand, "Her way of thinking is different from yours. She thinks a lot, sees too far, and ignores what is in front of her eyes." He said with a sigh, "But fundamentally, it's all the same. Too anxious!"

He looked up at Qin Lian, and said, "I can understand Yuan Wei's anxiety. That child has been independent since he was a child, restricted by his age, but he still doesn't like to be controlled. Why are you? I think you should be It’s right to grow up without restraint.”

This is the rhythm of heart-to-heart talks. Qin Lian is already quite familiar with this set of procedures, and immediately sat upright with a smile on his face.

Just don't speak.

When Grandpa saw this, he knew that she was refusing to communicate, so he couldn't help laughing and said, "Don't put on such a fight. You young people just think too much. In professional terms, it's called 'persecution paranoia' '. In fact, if you think about it carefully, you will find that the whole world is not against you, especially your parents and us elders. On the contrary, it is you who have been against us."

"Not necessarily?" Qin Lian couldn't help but said, "Not all parents are as enlightened as you."

"But the parents you and Yuan Hui met were not old feudalists, right? Do you really think that with so many of us, there is no way for you to be separated from Yuan Xian?" Grandpa emphasized, "We don't want to arouse your rebellion. Psychology, and I don't want this matter to eventually become a confrontation between 'children' and 'parents'."

"They may not be very qualified as parents, but they are not unforgivable. And you ask yourself, are you qualified as a child? Don't say something like 'I didn't want to be born'. Everyone in this world has rights and obligations. When you make demands on your parents, have you met the minimum standards that society requires of you?"

On this point, Qin Lian was indeed at a loss.

It is difficult to determine what the standard of a good child is, but the rule that "scores should not be too bad" will never change.

"Okay," she said a little discouraged, "Children with poor grades have no human rights, I accept that. What about Yuan Yan? She is good enough, right?"

"Look, you're wary of me again." Grandpa smiled, "I didn't mean to criticize you, but I just wanted to tell you that any opposing parties must understand each other, give in, and compromise if they want to reach an agreement. "

He turned his head to look out of the window, and sighed leisurely, "In this world, parents often compromise with their children, don't they? From your point of view, you are independent, but from our point of view, it's just that you raised them with one hand. Child, go where you can't see."

When he said these words, he had an indescribably melancholy look on his face.

For some reason, Qin Lian felt a little uncomfortable, and couldn't help calling out, "Grandpa."

"It's nothing, just thinking about the past, I feel a little emotional." Grandpa turned his head to look at her, and asked with a smile, "Qin Lian, do you know what parents are thinking when they criticize a child as old as you?"

"Why is this child so ignorant?" Qin Lian thought for a while and chose Zhou Xiaohong's catchphrase.

Grandpa smiled, "No, it's panic."

"Fear? How is it possible!" When Zhou Xiaohong scolded her, she was obviously full of anger every time, and she was full of reason, so she couldn't refute it at all, so she had to hold her breath.

"How is it impossible?" Grandpa said, "When I was your age, the country was in the most difficult period. When your parents were your age, the domestic economy had already started to take off. In the past few decades, the domestic Things can be said to be changing with each passing day, almost completely changed."

"Have you heard of that theory? The mentality of this world tends to be young. Because you are at the peak of your body and intelligence, and you are the mainstay of the entire society. As you grow older, your ability to learn will continue. Degeneration. In the past few decades, there have been too many new things. Like the high-tech you are using now, many of them are beyond my ability. Just learning is already very laborious. Many people are not as good as me! "

"You said, would a person panic in this situation? This parent faces the growing children, just like we face the ever-changing world. Because the guidance we can give you comes from ourselves experience. But those experiences are now outdated.”

These words, to Qin Lian, could almost be regarded as opening the door to a new world.

She never thought about it before, it turns out that the world of adults is like this.

But if you think about it, it is true.Not to mention anything else, just say that after Qin Dalong changed his smartphone, he would often ask Qin Lian how to use various functions.

It was just a trivial matter that couldn't be more trivial. At that time, Qin Lian didn't have any special feelings. Thinking about it today, he suddenly felt that he had really grown up and his parents were getting old.