The Right Way to Open a Perfect Life

The vast majority of fans are still very curious and eager to know about the stars, especially their private affairs.

As popular stars, Shen Yan and Yang Mi are a couple, and they are also a couple in a big family. The private affairs between them naturally attract fans even more.

This is also the reason why Zhang Zhiquan asked the Shen family to host the variety show.

It's not that there are big names in the entertainment industry, but the Shen family is the only one. The influence brought by this family and the topics they generate are definitely not comparable to other celebrities and entertainers.

"Isn't there a lot of noise on the Internet now? It's better for children to go to public kindergartens or private kindergartens. It sounds reasonable. Public kindergartens advocate letting children play, not teaching anything, and doing their best. Give full play to the child's nature, this kind of school has more stamina. At the beginning of elementary school, it may not be able to keep up, and its academic performance may not be very good, but it will be much better later. Private schools are just the opposite, they will teach some things, and then go to elementary school It will be better at the beginning, but it may have a certain impact on the children later. Judging from the results, it is obvious that public kindergartens are better, but there is a problem that if the stamina is not brought out, it will be bad, for example I started counting down when I first started school, and then I got used to being a scumbag, and kept counting down "Caiwei is not yet one year old, it's too early for you to plan for a rainy day.

"Why is it so early? Go to kindergarten at the age of two and a half or three. Think about how much time you have left. It's only a year or two. It has passed in a blink of an eye. Do you really wait until then to think about these issues? Don't you You really haven't thought about your daughter going to school, have you?

Yang Mi straightened her body, raised her pretty face, and looked at Shen Yan with surprise and dissatisfaction in her big bright eyes.

The purpose of chatting about family life is to meet the needs of the program, but when it comes to Shen Caiwei's issue, Yang Mi is obviously serious. This has nothing to do with the program or anything else. She has always been extremely cautious and attentive to Shen Caiwei's issues.

As the saying goes, poor parents in the world.If you are not a parent, you will never be able to personally experience the feeling of being a parent. It can be said that the love of parents for schoolgirls is absolutely great. It is the kind of greatness that can dedicate everything for ordinary girls.And don't ask for anything in return, that means raising children for old age, but in fact, even more parents give unilaterally to their children, but never ask for anything.

Yang Mi is no exception. It is not an exaggeration to say that Shen Guo is her life and her bottom line.

For anything else, she can endure and compromise for the sake of her life and her family.

Even if Shen Yan finds Shen Twelve, Shen Shilan, Shen Shishi, and Shen Shiwu.

Don't look at her defense against Shen Yan seems to be very tight, even if Shen Yan and Song Qing look at each other a few times, she will use her eyes.

But guarding is just guarding, just like many parents are guarding against their children becoming bad, guarding against smoking, drinking, staying out at night, and guarding against puppy love. It's shouting, beating, and killing, just like desperately.

But in the end, he said harsh words and then refused, but when something happened, at most he would lose his temper, get angry, and then do whatever he wanted.

I have never heard of any parent who cut off the relationship because the child smoked and drank.

It's the same at Yang Mi's place, there are already ten younger sisters in the family, of course she doesn't want to add any more, there was no way (ccaa) before, the first four identified this man together with her, naturally she couldn't get rid of these four Going out, the last six are because she and Shen Yan didn't have a strong relationship at the beginning, and she was afraid that it would be a chicken-and-egg fight, so she just turned a blind eye and closed one eye to acquiesce.

Now that their relationship is stable and they have a child, her position as the boss of the Shen family has become justifiable. She can use the breeze of a big woman to sweep away all the coquettish and sluts.

Defense must be prevented, and the defense must be resolute and thorough.

But still the same sentence, if the day is really unavoidable, then let it be.

Otherwise, what else can I do?divorce?The child is on the one hand, on the other hand she is also reluctant.

Not to mention quarrels, cold wars, etc., this is even more stupid. It’s useless to talk about it after everything happened, and it will make her position at home awkward. All in all, on this issue, she can compromise, You can give in, but my child, that is the real bottom line, whoever dares to hurt Shen Caiwei, she dares to fight with anyone, and Shen Yan can't do it.

"Of course I've thought about it. My daughter's lifelong event, can I not consider it?" Shen Yan saw Yang Mi's face, and knew that his wife was serious, so he hurriedly explained.

"What is a lifelong event? What are you talking about? I'm talking about going to school. You want to marry my daughter before she's a year old?" "I'm talking about going to school too. Isn't going to school a lifelong event?" In the room, it was already lively because of the chatting between the two, and the barrage quickly passed by,

It turns out that celebrities will also consider whether to go to public kindergartens or private kindergartens. I thought that only the poor people would consider this.

"Go to a prestigious school, anyway, your old Shen family is not short of money."

"It seems that the children of celebrities all go to private prestigious schools. Li Xiang's daughter goes to that kind of school. The tuition fee is tens of millions a year."

"There are also public schools, but most of them go to private schools, and the public schools are not the kind we know. They belong to the kind with a small number of places and you have to be connected to get in."

"Time flies so fast. My wife is going to go to school in a blink of an eye?" "Finally, the day has come. My father-in-law and mother-in-law have finally considered my wife's life-long affairs. Well, it seems that I also have to make a down payment to buy a house."

"Everyone don't want Bilian, Shen Caiwei is less than one year old and you start thinking about it, are you still a human? Parents, don't listen to their nonsense.'

"At first, I was looking forward to Shen Caiwei growing up. My parents have such excellent genes, so I can't be disabled.

978

Chapter 978 Care is chaos

Yang Mi couldn't catch the barrage, so naturally he couldn't catch thousands of son-in-laws above him. Of course, what his father-in-law said was obviously a netizen's bragging, so he couldn't take it seriously. don't care.

She is now focusing on her daughter's schooling, not just for the show, but to seriously discuss with her husband.

Even if it's just a kindergarten, a good marriage is obviously extremely important. Ding's daughter Ding's small matter, if it falls to her heart, it is a big matter for the Shen family~.

"Then what do you think?

Yang Mi sat up, crossed her beautiful legs in black stockings, and said to Shen Yan.

Shen Yan curled up his little finger and stroked his head, he really didn't think about this, it's not that he didn't care about Shen Caiwei's matter.

But it's too early to be true, can't you think about it a few months in advance?Now Shen Caiwei is only ten months old, and it takes at least two and a half weeks to go to kindergarten. Considering this two years in advance, it is too much to stand in advance.

Of course, thinking about it, these words obviously cannot be said, otherwise Yang Mi would definitely explode.

"I think that both public and private schools have good sides, and each has its own strengths...

"Isn't this nonsense, didn't you hear what I said just now?"

Yang Mi slapped her man without giving any face, she could see that this bastard really didn't take her daughter's matter to heart.

'Hahaha' and 'Boss Shen mighty' swiped the screen in the live broadcast room.

Shen Yan sighed silently, sat up and said, "If you really want me to say it, I don't think it matters...

Seeing that Yang Mi was about to explode, Shen Yan hurriedly said again: "Listen to me first, I think it is up to you to go to school after all, the external environment is indeed important, but it is not that important, and to put it bluntly, our daughter goes to school , whether it is a public school or a private school, it must be the one with particularly good conditions in all aspects, and it is impossible to have obvious defects, just like a student who studies acting depends on a university, Jingying or Moying, which one do you think is better? Not all the same.”

"Then how can it be similar, we must be better than our Jingying.

Yang Mi answered, and after finishing speaking, she laughed, and then put her hands together, with a pretty face, and said to the camera seriously, "Don't worry about the jokes, especially the brothers and sisters of Moying.

, Sisters and sisters, I am just blind, not trying to start a war. "

Everyone can see that Yang Mi was joking just now, but the explanation still needs to be explained. There are many people who are chasing rumors and fanning the flames on the Internet, let alone those entertainment media. I am afraid that the world will not be chaotic. , being moved by people's appearances and taken out of context, it is really possible to cause tearing and scolding

After all, Jingying and Moying, including the three major cinema chains of Huaxi, look down on each other, and they can burn for a long time without lighting a fire. Yes, even if the difference is subtle, it is definitely different. Going to school is definitely a personal thing. If you don’t work hard, it’s useless to go to any school, but the external environment can also play a decisive role. A A good environment, good classmates and friends will definitely have a particularly great impact on the growth of children."

Yang Mi brought the topic back to her daughter again.

Shen Yan shrugged, noncommittal about this, paused and then said: "Actually, it's not good for you to be like this." Yang Mi heard this, her bright eyes widened immediately, she tilted her head, looked at Shen Yan very seriously, and said, "What do you mean?Does this mean I'm old?Do you know how many people like me?Shen Yan gave Yang Mi a blank look, and said, "I mean, your attitude towards children's education is too much, and it's not a good thing for children.

Yang Mi was even more surprised than before. Surprised to the point of agitation, she gestured with her tender little hand and said in disbelief: "My life is about to be given to her, isn't that a good thing? Am I not doing it all for her good?"

Shen Yan smiled, and said: "See, no one is exempt. Have you ever heard of a saying that the greatest malice in this world is to forcibly interfere with a child's freedom and freedom in the name of 'I'm doing it for you'?" Choice, which seems to be love, is actually more like a burden and shackles to children, and it can only play a negative role in many cases. "

…for flowers

Yang Mi was obviously dissatisfied with her husband's words, so she stretched out her hand and slapped Shen Yan on the arm, and said, "What do you mean by calling me in the name of being good for you? , can’t even say a word, do you still want Shen Caiwei to choose kindergarten by herself?” Shen Yan said: “Now you think she is small, and you will think she is small in the future, the same is true for kindergarten, elementary and middle schools, including interest classes, You will also habitually feel that the child is young and ignorant. After going to college, you must feel that the child does not understand the world. When the child falls in love, you will feel that the child does not understand people, does not understand marriage and life, etc. Once this kind of inertia is formed, it is difficult to change.

Yang Mi stopped talking this time, with a thoughtful look on her pretty face.

Huaxia's parents can be said to be the parents who love their children the most in the world. Many parents will even develop their love into doting, and always involuntarily protect their children under their own wings.

Working tirelessly, giving everything, and giving selflessly, from this point of view, Huaxia's parents are great, but everything has two sides. While giving everything, many parents will force their own will or will to For children, the starting point must be good, and it is indeed for the good of the child, but a good starting point does not necessarily lead to good results, and sometimes it will have a negative effect.

Rebellious, inferior, sensitive, cowardly, under heavy fatherly love and motherly love, it has created an unsound heart.

Although Yang Mi's educational background may not be very high, but the industry she is engaged in, her knowledge, and her experience, her vision and thinking are doomed to be incomparable to ordinary people.

It stands to reason that she should not be so rigid, like so many parents who bind their children with their own love.

But this is just a theory. In fact, when a woman becomes a mother, her thoughts and perspectives will inevitably change dramatically.

To put it simply, Yang Mi's situation at the moment can be summed up in four words - concern leads to chaos.

979

Chapter 979

If it happened to someone else, Yang Zhong would definitely be very sensible. Could it be that she really doesn't understand what Shen Li said?

No, she is very clear and clear, and she also knows what is too much, but once things fall on her head, on Shen Guobei, then she can't be calm and rational. When love is deep, reason will become particularly fragile,

Shen Yan also saw this sign, that's why he had what he said just now.

He is quite rational, he thinks very clearly, he doesn't have any special requirements for Shen Guowei.

As long as the child is happy, happy and healthy, that is enough.

As for whether she is good or bad in her studies, and how high she will achieve in the future, these are all trivial details and are not important.

After all, life is hers, and she can only decide how to live it.

"Then we don't care about "[-]"?"

Yang Mi sighed slightly, she understood the reason, but it is not easy to let go.

It seems that many people know that staying up late is not healthy. It is one thing to know, but another thing to be able to do it. There are many examples of people still going their own way knowing this.

"You can't just ignore everything, some bottom line must be for her." Yang Mi gave her husband a sideways look, and said, "For example? '

Shen Yan drank the tea and said, "For example, you can't break the law, you can't hurt or hinder others."

"Then you don't care if your daughter smokes, drinks, and goes to nightclubs in the future?" Don't let others do it? Of course, these have to wait until she becomes an adult."

Yang Mi; "Then if Shen Caiwei finds a boyfriend in the future, don't you like it?" Shen Yan said with a smile; "You also said that she is looking for a boyfriend, not me, what does it matter if I like it or not?

Yang Mi: "Then what if she finds someone in her late teens? Or what do you do if she finds a big radish like her father? Don't care?"

Shen Yan strangled Yang Mi's neck, hugged her in his arms, and said, "Why do I feel that you are retaliating?"

"Who, I'm just telling the truth, aren't you a big carrot?" AT looked at the couple upstairs together, and the live broadcast room became busy again.

"I was caught off guard and forced to eat a mouthful of dog food."

"I'm an old couple, and my children are about to go to kindergarten. If you still cuddle like this, can't you think about us single dogs?"

"Looking at it now, celebrities are also human beings. My child is three years old. He thought very well before having a child. He must be open-minded, learn to respect the child, and let him be responsible for his own life. As a result, he really became a parent. It turns out that’s not the case at all.”

"It seems that my father-in-law's ability to accept is relatively strong. I'm only about [-] years older than my wife Caiwei. I will definitely be recognized by my father-in-law in the future."

"Tiger mom and cat dad, I can imagine that Shen Caiwei will definitely like dad more in the future."

Near ten o'clock in the morning, the wild vegetable digging team returned to the inn.

I have harvested a lot, and I seem to be happier. Occasionally doing farm work is also good for relaxing.

At noon, Shen Yan cooked a big meal, which was particularly sumptuous, and Song Qian and the three other guests naturally ate more comfortably.

After lunch, Song Qian and the three began to pack their luggage and prepare to leave. Before leaving, they left ratings and comments for the inn.

Naturally, the ratings and comments should be higher. After all, they are filming a show, and the theme is to have fun. Not to mention that the three of them are more comfortable playing together. Even if there is any dissatisfaction, it must be kept in mind.

"goodbye!"