I Just Hope to Spend a Leisurely Life in the Second Dimension

"Really? So Hirata-san asked me to do something?"

"I think Ayanokōji-san is usually close to them. Can you please persuade them? Although my grades are not particularly good, I still have a little confidence in tutoring."

Are you humble, the total score is stable in the top five of the class and the grades are not good?

"This... Actually, I don't have a particularly good relationship with them. I'll try my best to persuade them." I didn't dare to guarantee it, because I was sure that the three of them would not listen to me.

"Besides, why didn't Hirata-san talk to the vice-president Kushida-san? Rather than me trying to persuade you, the gentle Kushida-san might be more reliable."

Moreover, Ike and Yamauchi have expressed their love for Kushida-san many times. If Kushida-san invites them to participate in the study meeting, they will definitely agree!

Of course, I didn't say the last sentence. After all, neither Ike nor Yamauchi said that in front of everyone in the class, so it's not easy for me to gossip behind my back.

"This, to be honest, I have already asked..."

"Is that so..."

Double insurance.

"Well, I see, I'll do my best."

"Thank you so much, Ayanokouji-san!"

"It's okay, but Hirata-san said there is one more thing, what is it?"

"This...is about Horikita-san..."

Chapter 384

"Horikita?"

"Well, Horikita-san... Ayanokōji-san also knows about his situation in the class, right?"

"know."

"Because of Horikita-san's attitude, I can hardly hold back the girls' opinions..."

"……Opinion?"

"Because Horikita-san has a cold appearance to everyone, and she doesn't pretend to talk to anyone, so the girls have a lot of opinions on her. If this continues, I'm afraid Horikita-san will become the target of being bullied by others... ..."

Indeed, Hirata's concerns were not unreasonable.

Human beings are social animals, and this fact determines that our lives will be in a tense conflict between personal value orientation and value orientation required by society.

This has to say a word: conformity.

Let’s talk about an experiment first, the Axi herd experiment.

The experimenter took college students as subjects, 7 people in each group, sitting in a row, 6 of them were assistants of the experimenter, only one was the real subject, and the subjects did not know the identities of the other 6 people.

After the experiment started, the experimenter showed everyone a standard straight line X, and at the same time showed everyone the other three straight lines A, B, and C for comparing lengths, one of which was the same length as the standard straight line X.Then let everyone (including 6 assistants and 1 real subject) say a straight line with the same length as X.

The experimenter deliberately arranged the real subject as the last one, and the first 6 subjects who were disguised by the experimenter's assistants would all say the same wrong answer according to the prior requirements, and finally the real subject judged which line was the opposite of X. Same length.

The result of the experiment is that 37% of the answers given by the subjects were wrong answers that followed other people's opinions, about three-quarters of them followed the crowd at least once, and about one-quarter of them kept their opinions. Independence has never been a conformity.

As the experimental data finally showed, people generally have a herd mentality.And most of people's social circles are also formed by herd mentality.

For example, there are four people A, B, C, and D in a university dormitory. The four people did not know each other at first, but three of them, A, B, and C, all played the same game, so they quickly got together and became good friends. because they have the same interests.

And D entered the dormitory relatively late, and never played any games. At this time, he would be excluded by other people.

D is faced with two choices, to play their game together, and to keep the original state.

In terms of probability, D has the highest probability of choosing the first item, but we don't talk about probability, but about consequences.

If you choose the first option, you will most likely integrate into their circle, because D has the same common topics as them, and the usual chats will increase, and over time, you will become friends with them.

But what about the second option?

Probably in the next four years of my dormitory career, I was left out in the cold for four years. Even if I could talk to them in the end, I couldn't make jokes like everyone else.

Of course, there are many theories involved in this. For example, after three people who don’t know each other have the same interest, the relationship will quickly improve; That's because he was the latest to join their social circle, and he would be rejected instinctively; this all involves some other psychological theories, but today's focus is not on this, but on conformity.

Conformity, a natural response that makes us more socially adaptable.

And let me tell you another example from my side, Kushida-san.

Is she really capable of making so many friends, one by one?

impossible.

If one were to really calculate the number of friends she had actively made friends with, it would probably only be one-third of what she is now.

The remaining two-thirds, I believe, are due to the herd mentality and her association.

For example, XX heard her good friend say that Kushida-san is a good person, and seeing that she has a lot of friends, she came up with the idea of ​​getting to know her, and later found that Kushida-san He was indeed a good person, so the relationship between friends was settled.

When Kushida-san's friends reach a certain level of proficiency, strangers will think, "Wow, Kushida-san has so many friends? Most of the people I know are her friends? Then let me get to know her too!"

Most of Kushida-san's friends came this way.

Admittedly, having said so much, it seems that if you don't follow the crowd, what kind of consequences and seriousness will there be.In fact, there is no need to say much, because most people will never encounter that moment. No matter how bad or bad the character is, there are always some friends who can talk to them, so there is no need to worry.

There is only...one exception!

Horikita refuses to befriend everyone.