For the weak in destiny, if you can't make yourself strong, you are actually not qualified to make value judgments, because your opinions are insignificant, abuse and criticism will only corrupt your own heart and appearance, and have no other use.
There is absolutely no value in discussing the boring topic of emotional intelligence. Children only care about the so-called IQ and emotional intelligence. Adults only talk about success or failure. There is only one criterion for judging whether a person has a deep sense of self-cultivation, and that is his state of mind and life. If he is full, healthy, happy, beautiful and happy, then it is profound, not in what he said, read, read, where he went, or what he did. These one-sided details, many truly profound epiphanies , the flash of inspiration, or the poetic and beautiful moment felt by the soul, most of the time cannot be expressed in words, or they are not eager (disdained) to express, sometimes it is better to choose to be silent when there is no soul-connected person around.
All beauty is wisdom, and all good living conditions are the result of long-term and deep self-discipline, not pies in the sky.
Therefore, in terms of emotional intelligence, Xu Qing, who is so smart, of course knows how to behave to please the public, but she is not willing to do it, and she can't do it. Being true to herself, she can't meet the expectations and tastes of the public. Some things that people are not used to, say some things that people are not used to, but this has nothing to do with the level of emotional intelligence.
The so-called emotional intelligence is just a skill to manage one's own emotions and behaviors. Some people do not use emotional intelligence, but rely on their god-given opportunities, talents and hard-working character, which is enough to make it to the top, while some people are servile and servile. The list goes on.
Therefore, some people can't make you feel comfortable, and it can't be concluded that he has low EQ. It may just be because he doesn't like you, is too lazy to please you, and can offend you, so he doesn't care what you think and what you think of him , and don't want to waste precious time and patience to make you feel comfortable. He doesn't care whether you think he has high EQ. He only needs the people he cares to think that he has high EQ. Secular kitsch evaluations are more precious, that's all.
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Xu Qing is such a person, and I hope that each of us can be qualified to be like Xu Qing. If we don’t like a person, we can be too lazy to please the other person, and also offend the other person, so we don’t care what the other person thinks at all. , and don't care about the other party's evaluation, how nice it would be to be so free and easy! .
Chapter 653 Continue to spoil Xu Qing!
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Chapter 654 Everyone Discovered?
There are many popular actresses over the age of 40, including Shu Qi, Zhou Xun, Xu Jinglei, Li Bingbing, Lin Zhiling, Xu Qing, etc. They all have a common feature, that is, they have no children.
For the first four, Chang Huan has no feeling at all, he is only interested in Xu Qing and Lin Zhiling.
During this trip, both Xu Qing and Lin Zhiling were taken down, he felt that the trip was worthwhile!
Before that, because Xu Qing's performance on the reality show was very different from Lin Chiling's performance on the reality show, many people compared Xu Qing and Lin Zhiling, saying that Lin Zhiling was slick and considerate in "Sisters Over Flowers". To contrast Xu Qing's waywardness and princess disease.
Chang Huan wanted to ask those people, what is a princess?Why should the princess have those good virtues in your YY?Just because the princess was born noble and better educated than ordinary people?According to the theories of these people, the emperors of all countries in the past should be the ones with the most good virtues, because they enjoy the best education and the most abundant material resources in the country.But what happened?On average, every emperor kills more innocent people than you have ever seen, and they do too many outrageous and unreasonable things. How come no one says that they are not considerate of others, are not slick, and have low EQ?They are much more self-willed than ordinary people, are they uneducated?Are you petty?The reason is simple, because no!must!want!
Moreover, emperors range from virtuous and humble to tyrannical and extravagant, and so do princesses. How about brain supplements? After all, we live in real life, not in fairy tales.
Like Xu Qing, in her 40s, her eyes and appearance still retain the innocence of a girl, not to mention sister Zhiling, looking at domestic public figures, they are very rare, and they have not been cared for and loved in every way since childhood It can't be done, and it's far from being something that a few funders can spend money on.
If we simply talk about how good Xu Qing looks, that is a matter for the beholder to see the wisdom of the benevolent, but if you add her temperament, it is enough to beat most female stars in China. The combination of classical charm and youthful vitality is very amazing. In short, Xu Qing is a very feminine woman, unruly, self-willed, full of love, aloof and charming.
Many people also criticize her acting skills, but to be honest, as an actress, she is definitely more competent than most traffic florets.
Xu Qing's acting skills are definitely underestimated. It may be that her personality is too controversial and her appearance is too dazzling. Basically, few people will discuss her acting skills. In fact, Xu Qing's female characters are both aggressive and dignified. They have their own advantages, they are smooth and smooth, and they are self-contained. The limitation is that they can't play too ugly and mediocre roles.Just click on a work and watch it with the eyes of appreciating her performance, and it is easy to have a correct understanding. Her acting skills are the kind of good food that God appreciates. Her natural expression is better than many people's painstaking efforts. It's brilliant, at least Tang Wei's performance still has traces of sculpting, and Xu Qing's performance is a whole lot more brilliant.
Xu Qing has never suffered in her life, she will not please others, and she does not need to please. There is no compromising in her survival philosophy. Only when others are happy, I am also happy, but I will not force myself to please you. Such a woman It will not be liked by the public. The only fault is that you should not expose your character to the public.
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Chang Huan wiped off the fragrant sweat on Xu Qing's body, dressed her, picked her up, and put her on her hammock.
Then, he cleaned up all the places where they fought just now, so as not to be seen the traces of the battle the next day.
They were not on the mat just now, they were still standing on the bow like Jack and Rose in "Titanic", paying tribute to the classics in that posture!
Therefore, Chang Huan also cleaned the bow of the boat to remove the smell left by Xu Qing.
Afterwards, he unlocked everyone's sleeping holes so that they could wake up naturally tomorrow.
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The next day, when everyone woke up, Li Fei'er saw Xu Qing's face and asked in surprise: "¨` Sister Qing, your complexion looks very good and radiant, what did you use (from Zhao?) Skin care products?"
"It's those skin care products from before." Xu Qing was stunned for a moment, and immediately realized that after being moisturized by Chang Huan last night, her complexion was very good, too good to hide, she couldn't directly say what happened to her and Chang Huan last night, She used her previous poetic words: "You all have so much love. I have been surrounded by your love and nourished by your love, so I am very energetic..."
Li Fei'er and Zheng Wei were thoughtful and stopped asking any more questions. Zhang Xueying and Ju Jingyi believed it was true.
Liu Tao gave Chang Huan a coquettish look, the meaning in the eyes was obvious, you scoundrel, you were the one who nourished Sister Qing last night, right? .
Chapter 655 Encountering the Giant Amazon Crocodile!
The boat keeps moving forward on a tributary of the Amazon River.
When everyone got up, Wu Lei was still sleeping, and everyone jokingly took a photo with him who was full of embarrassment while he was sleeping soundly.
Afterwards, Chang Huan went to the kitchen to make breakfast for everyone, mainly for Xu Qing who was exhausted yesterday.
Xu Qing tried many poses with Chang Huan last night, which made her very tired even after her initial radiance.
After breakfast, Xu Qing lay in the hammock and slept for a while.
Zhang Xueying also said ignorantly: "Sister Qing, what did you do last night, why are you still so sleepy now?"
Liu Tao, Li Feier, and Zheng Wei smiled and said nothing.
Li Feier and Zheng Min looked at Chang Huan, both of them felt very strange, obviously they could guess that Chang Huan and Xu Qing were the one last night, but their affection for Chang Huan did not decline, on the contrary I envy Xu Qing, and wish I could fall in love with Chang Huan one night.
After more than ten hours of trekking, they finally arrived at the wooden house on the water, which is a rare foothold in the rainforest.
Don't let it go too much when you live here, because the animals are the boss here.
In addition to trees and floods, there is nothing here in Huashaotuan.
Big boats cannot go directly to the huts, they reach the huts by small boats.
There are many little monkeys around the wooden house, and none of them are very shy.
Next, Hua Shaotuan has two tasks, catching piranhas and catching crocodiles.
There are many fishes in the Amazon, many of which are very large. Piranhas are petite, but they are known as lunatics on the killer list. Some people have seen with their own eyes that they can (cabd) tear up a cow in a few seconds.
The boats they were on were all leaking and it was raining heavily, it looked heart-wrenching!
Chang Huan, Zhang Xueying, and Ju Jingyi are on a boat to take care of two little sisters, Xu Qing and Liu Tao are on a boat, Li Feier, Zheng Wei, and Wu Lei are on a boat, and there is a camera on each boat.
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