Practicing business and practicing medicine
Chapter 1353 You need a backup for your life
Bian Mu stood up and replaced the hot drink with a lighter taste for everyone. Luo Zhanqi followed behind and added some fresh water.
Returning to the original seat, Bian Mu continued to explain: "Logically, in daily life, we should also prepare a copy for ourselves and help ourselves from time to time. Otherwise, we will not live very happily in the future, and our life span will not last too long. By the way, what do you usually do?"
"In terms of finance, I am a cashier! There are a lot of things in the company, and I am very busy. Sometimes I just mess around with my three meals a day. If it weren't for her usual care, I'm afraid it would be difficult for me to survive now." As she spoke, the female patient glanced at her friend next to her.
"We rented a small apartment together. We usually get along like sisters. The work rhythm is quite tight. Although I work in the catering industry, I sometimes mess around with my meals. After listening to Dr. Bian's explanation, we have to pay attention in the future." The shorter woman quickly echoed a few words beside her.
"Is that so... No wonder... Financial work is very exhausting, so you should prepare a copy of your life for yourself. Let's put it this way, like you usually prepare a mobile hard drive, a small USB flash drive, etc. to prepare a backup of particularly important financial information for fear of mistakes in your work. That's what I mean." Bian Mu explained with a smile.
"Is that so... When playing games, if you can't save the game in time and don't prepare a copy of the game, you have to start over if you lose. I think I understand a little bit..." The shorter woman muttered a few words as if she had realized something.
The female patient's brain reaction was not as fast as her companions. She frowned and lowered her head without saying anything.
"People, when they encounter a particularly difficult situation, they usually go in two directions: one is to store it in the brain, and the other is to store it in the heart. As for the brain, they can relieve themselves through self-discipline, such as writing a diary, traveling, singing sad songs... or even picking a fight, which can more or less dispel some of the pain. In addition, time! Time is the most effective. Many heart-breaking or humiliating experiences, when you look back on them after three or five years, are like jokes, and you will no longer care about them as much as before. In other words, the mental trauma suffered by the brain is relatively easy to dispel, and the negative load deep in the memory is relatively easy to eliminate, but the heart is more difficult to deal with. In this regard, Western scientists have preliminarily demonstrated a lot in the laboratory. , indeed, what you need to do now is to re-establish a second self in your heart, go to work normally, and do what you should do. As for the deep affection between you and your daughter, it can be completely borne by the original self. What is more important is... on the moral level, you have to accept a fact: downplaying the pain of losing your father does not mean that you lack conscience, are unfilial, and are not close to your own father... those are two completely different things. After a period of treatment, you should slowly get used to the new self, and the old self and the life copy will naturally be discarded. By then, I promise! You can at least recover more than 80%. In addition... may I ask, you should have started a family, right? "At the end of the explanation, Bian Mu suddenly interrupted and asked.
"We've been married for more than three years. He teaches junior high school physics in our hometown. Doctor Bian knows that the academic requirements in Lijin are quite high. He has an ordinary undergraduate degree, which is okay in our place. But no school will accept him here. There is no way... We can only live apart for a while. If it doesn't work... Either I go back to my hometown or he changes his career." The female patient replied frankly.
"Is that so... No wonder... You don't have any trouble with children yet?" Bian Mu asked.
"How dare I have a child in this situation! Although my income is okay... But... The house price here is 70,000 or 80,000... How can I raise a child! Alas..." At the end, the female patient couldn't help but sigh softly.
Hearing this, Bian Mu couldn't help but frowned.
It was almost the same as he guessed.
"Is that so... I have explained almost everything I should say. It's getting late. Please go back first! Take a day off tomorrow. The day after tomorrow, I will help you make an appointment at the backstage. At this time, I will prescribe some Chinese patent medicine for you. Take some medicine and acupuncture first!" After that, Bian Mu stood up and politely sent the two women out. Luo Zhanqi has always known that Bian Mu has studied Western medicine very thoroughly. After sitting with him for a long time today, he once again realized that the reason why Bian Mu became a god at a young age is definitely not as simple as people usually see...
From this moment on, Luo Zhanqi secretly warned himself that when he had time, he must study the key basic theories of Western medicine well, otherwise... one day in the future, even if the boss teaches the relevant procedures step by step, he may not understand it.
Returning, Bian Mu took off his white coat and was about to tidy up the tableware, but Luo Zhanqi hurriedly stopped him.
"I've already cleaned up half of it, so don't do it anymore! So, can that woman be cured completely?"
"That's disgusting! Because of her good looks, her ambition is naturally higher than that of other women of the same age. You see! In all likelihood, she will have to arrange for her husband to change his career. Now he can go to a decent middle school with at least a master's degree. What kind of job can you do in the city?! Unless you work as a busboy in a high-end restaurant next to you, you really can make a lot of money in that line of work, but... what kind of job can a dignified middle school teacher deign to do? Right! I usually keep an eye on the housing market. If I don’t choose the location, there are quite a few good communities with an average price of around 40,000 yuan. You heard it just now, that woman obviously doesn’t like it! She’s asking for help! Come on, it's okay to talk Be more humble. In fact, she is very strong inside! She keeps her eyes on the house in a good location... There is no way to cure her if her character does not change!" As he spoke, Bian Mu carefully put away the eye examination instrument and put it in a corner. Put it inside.
"Then... can't you tell her that you can't?" Luo Zhanqi responded casually while sorting the garbage bags.
"We can cure the disease, but we can't cure the three views! She must be...the three views are a bit special...I didn't inquire further, 80%...forget it, her father has passed away, and she is making unethical comments about others behind her back. We can’t control this kind of thing, so it’s quite remarkable that we can do our best to eliminate its fatal symptoms. In this regard, I never put too harsh demands on myself, so that’s pretty much it!”
"That's right...she, her appearance and temperament are indeed superior...you said...if her appearance and temperament were ordinary, I wouldn't be talking so much nonsense, right?"
"Hahaha... But, I still don't know what your character is! It's only human nature! It's definitely a compliment to cherish the beauty, especially for those of us who are doctors. We must be ruthless to adjust the relationship between the two of them in the future. If you want to live a happier life, why not do it? If you didn’t plan to give her a try, we would have eaten too much and made a few plates of dumplings!
"Hahaha..." Luo Zhanqi was immediately amused.
While chatting and laughing, the two tidied up the clinic, said hello, and Bian Mu went out and ran to the subway station.
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