Practicing business and practicing medicine

One of the core ideas of Chinese studies is the word "harmony". As the main content of Chinese studies, traditional Chinese medicine and pharmacy also attach great importance to the word "harmony". Chinese medicine treatment and Chinese medicine preparation have always emphasized the harmony of heaven, earth and man.

As an individual, if a professional Chinese medicine doctor wants to reach the highest level of Chinese medicine and pharmacy, in addition to practicing, refining and practicing medical skills and pharmacy, personal family life must also pay attention to the word "harmony". This aspect makes Chinese medicine doctors, especially those very excellent Chinese medicine doctors, have a certain unique temperament.

In daily life, on a certain occasion, I suddenly ran into a man or a woman, and I felt that his temperament was not quite the same as that of ordinary citizens. I asked casually and found out that he was a very famous Chinese medicine doctor.

In Bian Mu's impression, most of the senior teachers with famous doctor temperament have managed their marriages quite well, harmoniously and happily!

Definitely occupy the word "harmony".

Nie Yixiong, Cen Songxue, Meng Shulan... Almost without exception, at least, it sounds quite happy.

Bian Mu has already encountered a counterexample in this regard: Ouyang Ziye.

According to Huang Boxi, Ouyang Ziye's personal family life is actually quite happy. His wife is seven or eight years younger than him and is a teacher in a national-level ministry-affiliated college. She is definitely a talented woman. In addition, Ouyang Ziye and his wife have a son and a daughter. I dare not say how outstanding they are, but the two children are not ordinary anyway.

However...

Ouyang Ziye just had an inappropriate thought about the female assistant beside him, and as a result...Ouyang Ziye never improved in medical skills, and eventually gradually became a "type doctor", which is quite sad.

Theoretically speaking, if Bian Mu really wants to achieve outstanding achievements in traditional Chinese medicine and traditional Chinese medicine, he should get married at the right age and marry a good wife with both talent and virtue to help him manage the family. Only in this way can he reach the pinnacle of his personal career development in the future.

Alas! What a pity! Theory is theory, reality is reality. The Bian family is quite poor. Let alone buying a house and getting married in Lijin City, let alone going back home and living in the small county town of their hometown, relying on their existing medical skills to make a living, but also to support their family and become famous? At present... it's really difficult!

What era is it now? The Bian family can't even afford a house of their own in the small county town of their hometown. To this day, a family of four still has to rent a house!

Bian Mu has reflected on this issue many times. Logically, my father is a versatile old technician, proficient in carpentry, lathe, fitter, forging, welding... almost everything. Not to mention anything else, several of his apprentices have both a car and a house. It's strange that after decades, my father really didn't save much.

My mother is very strong-willed. Her education level is not low for a small county town. She is smart, skillful, and good at calculations... Although she was unlucky and her original unit went bankrupt and closed down early, it did not prevent her from calculating the family's livelihood carefully...

Bian Mu and his sister have been very sensible since they were young and never spend money recklessly.

Somehow, the Bian family seems to have offended the God of Wealth unintentionally, and it has always been very difficult to turn things around financially...

Since ancient times, it has been impossible to marry a wife if you are poor. No matter how smart and capable Bian Mu is, he is short of money. Let alone buying a house and marrying a wife, he feels a little hesitant even to have a girlfriend in a proper way.

Even so, if Bian Mu is determined to rent a small house and get married, he still has the strength to do so. For example, Nana from the Feng family in his hometown likes Bian Mu, but... Bian Mu does not want to get married just to start a family.

In any case, Bian Mu has to find a caring partner who is like-minded, has similar interests, and gets along naturally. Isn't the Bian family not rich? I no longer insisted on other aspects.

Over the years, Bian Mu gradually realized that he had thought too simply about this matter! The minds of those outstanding girls of the same age were complicated! When dealing with them, Bian Mu was always very immature...even...he was not their opponent at all.

Over time, the desire to start a family gradually faded...

In the dead of night, Bian Mu slowly figured out one thing: the Bian family's financial resources were too thin, and his ambitions since childhood were probably a bit naive. Well! As a second choice, he would first refine his medical skills to the highest level he could reach, and by the way, he would pray to the God of Wealth to give him some fortune and slowly save some wealth for the Bian family. At the very least, his sister Bian Yue must not be too shabby when she gets married in the future!

…

Until he met Qi Yuewei, Bian Mu's gradually cold and lonely "heart of family" began to loosen up…

To be honest, Qi Yuewei is definitely the most ideal partner, not to mention that the two of them have gradually consolidated a certain emotional foundation. Bian Mu always felt that he was not too enthusiastic, but…the difference between the two families was too great. Once the real factors were substituted into the "love function equation" of the two for further solution, Bian Mu's heart immediately became cold…

Bian Mu was good at calculations. Every step of his various calculations had a strict mathematical basis. In this regard, he was always meticulous. In his spare time, Bian Mu often predicted the final direction of himself and Qi Yuewei. Every time, Bian Mu was quite disappointed.

Maybe, this is the so-called disaster? !

…

Lu Yisi and Qi Yuewei came quite quickly, talking and laughing. Lu Yisi opened the door of the store very gentlemanly and asked Qi Yuewei to go first. Bian Mu noticed that the two got along very naturally.

"You're right! They are a perfect match, this golden boy and jade girl! They are the children of a wealthy investment family, so they can be considered a perfect match!" He was really talking about something irrelevant. No one understood what he was talking about, and Dr. Yue even praised him with a few words.

For no reason, Bian Mu's chest seemed to be stuffed with a ball of cotton. He couldn't spit it out, and it was hard to swallow it. It was very uncomfortable!

Fortunately, Bian Mu still had some self-control, and then he gently placed the spoon and chopsticks in his hand on the plate. For a moment, his appetite was gone!

Bian Mu and his friends sat at a small dining table. Qi Yuewei always behaved properly, and naturally chose to sit next to Bian Mu. Lu Yisi sat opposite Bian Mu, and Dr. Yue naturally gave way to him. As a result, Lu Yisi finally took up a large space with his back to the store door.

Seeing that the eldest daughter of the Qi family didn't mind hinting to the outside world about her close relationship with him, the annoying "heart cotton" in Bian Mu's chest disappeared without a trace...

In terms of medical skills, he is gradually becoming a master, but... in terms of personal emotions, Bian Mu is sometimes as naive as a child...

Dr. Yue is not very familiar with Qi Yuewei and Lu Yisi, but she is not unfamiliar with them at all. She has always been decent in her behavior. She called a waiter and removed all the almost finished meals to make room for some new dishes.

The new dishes were served very quickly. Qi Yuewei and Lu Yisi tasted a few bites and praised Bian Mu for his vision.

The four of them were having a great time chatting and laughing...

During the meal, Lu Yisi asked Bian Mu several very sharp academic questions from the perspective of Western medicine emergency treatment, and Bian Mu answered them one by one with ease. After a while, the two of them had a very good chat...

Dr. Yue talked to Qi Yuewei about the recent stock market situation...