Miss Witch doesn't want to be a diva

"For some time to come, I will teach Miss Tilan about etiquette."

A maid wearing glasses stood in front of the girl. She looked about 30 years old, neatly dressed, and looked serious.

She seemed to be a strict teacher, Tilan blinked, and felt that the maid opposite was also very strong, at least with Sequence 6, she was a rare elite.

"I see, Teacher Pu Lanli."

She respected these professional teachers very much, and knew that it would cost a lot to ask such people to teach her.

"Uh, I don't need it." Annelly looked at the head maid, feeling a little nervous, remembering the scene when she was taught by the strict nun at home when she was a child.

"Miss Annelly really doesn't need to learn the same things as Miss Tilan..." Anneli was relieved in the middle of her words, but soon the head maid continued.

"However, if Miss Annelly wants to be an excellent adjutant, assistant, or perfectly respond to the scenarios that Miss Tilan may encounter in the future, she needs to complete a lot of things and abilities." She pushed her eyes coldly. Sweeping over Annellie made the girl shudder.

Although she is a promising genius in the family, she has been a little drifting in recent years, so she usually slackens down. Although Hercia can't see any difference, in front of this professional maid, Anneli's usual performance, It can be described as full of loopholes.

"Oh, well, I'll just learn." It looks like it's going to be a hard time for a while, Annelli thought to herself.

"Very well, let's start the class today." The head maid immediately got into the mood.

At this moment, the place where they study is not in the classroom, but in the house where Heshia is temporarily staying at Edsy Academy. The resident teacher in the school, it is said that the objects she served in the past were all famous families in the central star field. If it weren't for the profound network of Ades Academy, she would not have been invited here.

First of all, Pu Lanli asked Heshia to walk, drink water, sit down, etc. in the usual way to observe whether her posture was up to date.

After a little nervously doing so, the teacher Pu Lanli made a comment.

"Although there are still many areas for improvement, it can be seen that you should have received education in this area when you were young, and it is not without foundation. This can save a lot of time."

Thanks to my mother's teaching when I was a child, Heshia has developed a good habit.

Afterwards, the teacher picked up the pointer, flicked it slightly, and snapped it in the air, waking Annelly who was slightly distracted in the distance.

"Listen well, beauty is a powerful weapon in the hands of women, which can give you an advantage in life and work, but! If you don't master this weapon well, it will greatly reduce your points in the eyes of others, and even make you People hate and reject."

"You are still young, you are still at the age of 16-17, which is generally the age when women are the most beautiful and the easiest to receive preferential treatment."

"My emphasis on this is not to take what you're going through and encounter at the moment as a norm, but to realize that this is a benefit that will wear off over time."

"Society's requirements for men and women are different, and the requirements for adults and children are also different. Children can say some things, and everyone will find it interesting and cute. When it is changed to adults, it will become useless. Courteous and hideous."

"If you are obsessed and accustomed to enjoying this kind of preferential treatment now, and you are unscrupulous and don't develop good habits and mentality, then when you are older, you will face a big gap and make people feel at a loss."

"A teenager who asks you for candy and a woman in her forties with a pink face asks you for candy. The difference in perception is huge."

"Habits like this, if you formed them at the age of sixteen or seventeen and lasted for more than ten years, if you want to change in the future, I'm afraid it will be difficult in your life."

"And this kind of habit formed when you are rich will have a big gap and conflict with your later life, making people anxious, mean, and gradually disgusting."

"Although you are all young ladies and have a deep family background, there is a high probability that you can live in a good environment all your life, but this aura on you will only be useful to the lower class."

"Just imagine, even if you and the other party are of the same class with a good family background, but the other party behaves rudely and some behaviors disgust you, you will definitely stay away."

"If you only want to face those poor and lowly people who look at you begging for food and hope you can give them alms, and don't care whether you are rude or rude, you don't need to learn these etiquettes."

"But upper-class people are also human beings. As long as you want to maintain your family business or grow stronger, you have to deal with, cooperate with, and even ask for help from many people of the same class. You must pay attention to the perception you bring to others."

"It's by no means that I can be unscrupulous because I have money. This is common among some nouveau riche."

First of all, she clarified the importance of learning etiquette, and then began the real teaching, including adjusting the girl's sitting posture, walking posture, tone and movements when dealing with people, etc.

It doesn't mean that you have to follow some standard template, but that these behaviors need to be decent and make each other comfortable.

At the beginning, these changes will be a little uncomfortable, but as long as they are integrated into the habit and unconsciousness in the future, you will gradually be able to "do whatever you want without breaking the rules".

"Etiquette does not mean following a certain textbook, rigid manners, but making one's posture natural and revealing one's true feelings, while at the same time appearing beautiful and generous." She gradually added.

Throughout the day, Tilan followed her instructions, constantly adjusting some of her usual unconscious habits, until she finally found a balance point that was comfortable for herself and comfortable for others.

"In learning etiquette, or in other words, there is a misunderstanding in the development of other habits, that is, you only care about the benefits of this habit, and ignore whether this habit is adaptable and comfortable. If a habit makes you extremely uncomfortable, or If you are very resistant, then even if it is a good habit, it will be difficult for you to stick to it.”

"Because maintaining this kind of behavior requires you to resist all the time, which consumes a lot of energy, and it is impossible to continue forever."

"It's best to find a balance point, so that you are not too uncomfortable, and you can also realize the benefits of this behavior, so that you can gradually internalize it into your unconscious habit."

One week after entering the Ades Academy, Tilan began to accept the training plan specially arranged for her by the academy, and the first of these was courses related to etiquette.

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