Secret love turns into love, women never want to escape

Chapter 790

"Then you still like him?" Long Youfei said in shock. "Obviously, the original suicide was just his plan, but he accidentally lost part of his memory. I don't think he would accidentally forget you. Now there is a technology abroad that can be used to For the research and development and data of depression, it can cut off the patient's memory for a period of time." Long Youfei said.

"Long Youfei, I'm very tired now. I don't want to hear or think about anything. Let me rest for a while, okay?" Bai Xi said.

She didn't wait for Long Youfei to agree, she hung up the phone and fell on the bed.

My heart still hurts.

There is a kind of hard work, over thousands of mountains and rivers, up the mountain of swords, and down the sea of ​​fire, and finally found him at the Naihe Bridge.

He told her to let her find him and let her wait for him.

But he drank Mengpo soup and reincarnated with others.

Goodbye, he just said, don't like it anymore.

Very sad, very wronged, very sad, but, emotional matters cannot be forced, and it is not that the harder you work, the more you will succeed.

Often, the harder you work, the more sad, sad, and entangled you are.

She turned over, and based on what she knew about herself, she would definitely not be able to sleep tonight.

She took out her mobile phone, thought about it, and called Anton.

"Bai Xi." Anton greeted warmly.

"Is it convenient to call you at this time?" Bai Xi asked.

"It's convenient, I'm writing next week's manuscript, and the code writers don't go to bed so early." Anton said, "What's the matter, from your tone, I'm not in a good mood."

"Men, if you don't like a woman, will you marry it?" Bai Xi asked.

"In fact, many men will marry someone they don't like, or don't like very much, some because of family pressure, some because of social pressure, some because of work pressure, some because of interests, and some because they feel that they should There is a wife to meet the physical needs, face needs, and other needs." Anton said with a smile.

"If there is no love, will marriage last?" Bai Xi asked pessimistically.

"A long-term marriage depends on many factors. First, it comes from oneself. I have a couple. When the two of them fell in love, they fell in love with each other. They got married regardless of family opposition. After marriage, they found that their personalities were not compatible. , divorced a year later, in fact, the reason is very simple, it starts with good looks, passionate love will make people's IQ zero, coupled with the obstruction of their parents, they feel that they must be together, after calming down, they find that each other's body is different. This kind of problem, finally unbearable divorce." Anton said.

"So love is beautiful at the beginning, but appearance cannot keep love fresh for a long time."

"I also have a couple of clients, and they are even more typical. They met each other on a blind date. At first, the woman didn't agree. Later, she saw that the other party had a car and a house and a decent job. They talked about it for the purpose of a wedding. After a year, they got married. After marriage, they gave birth For a daughter, the two parents have very different views on education. When raising the child, there was a big conflict, and then both parties looked down on each other, and the young couple also divorced."

"En." Bai Xi responded.

"There is another case, which is also very typical. A man and a woman married for six years and gave birth to a man and a woman. After ten years of marriage, the man cheated on his female colleague, which led to the breakdown of the marriage. Now both parties are married separately. said Anton.

"This is the most heart-wrenching, right?" Bai Xi asked.

"This is actually the norm. After being married for a long time, both parties understand each other well. We know all about our weaknesses, dark sides, and personalities. There is no mystery, and there is no room for beauty and fantasy. In addition, after having a child, as we grow older, our body will lose weight. Deformation, less sexual needs, at this time, marriage is very weak, if there is temptation, people will make mistakes, so I told you before, marriage must be managed, and even managed with heart." Anton said.

"How do you manage it with your heart?" Bai Xi asked, although she was married once, it was a marriage by agreement, and she didn't spend many days with Xiao Ye.

"As a woman, you should treat your husband as your boyfriend, the kind of man who will lose at any time, don't expose your shortcomings in front of him, don't pick your feet in front of him, don't cut your toenails, and it's best to keep your makeup, give him Space for imagination, give him freedom, and give yourself freedom. It is best to have your own career, because if you are at home, although you contribute a lot, such as having children, doing housework, cooking, and taking care of the elderly, most men are Very intuitively, what they see is that the income you bring to the family is zero, not the value of your doing these things.” Anton said.

Bai Xi was silent for a few seconds, and said, "It feels so tiring, home is comfortable, but it sounds very reserved."

Anton smiled, "Most people just can't be strict with themselves, so in the end, they watched their husband cheating again and again, but they couldn't do anything, and became pitiful and pathetic, cheap and without dignity. another kind……"

"what?"

"Marry...a man who has nothing but you, hahahahahaha." Anton laughed.

"No, have you always loved someone for a lifetime?" Bai Xi asked.

"Yes, it depends on the management. Also, listen to my advice, never relax. Even if you become a better self, you must continue to manage. I know many people, and they all think that their husbands only love themselves. Then when I found out that my husband cheated, I felt like I was struck by lightning. In fact, many men don’t love you all the time, but they don’t have the temptation of others, or they just don’t have the opportunity. Of course, there are some special cases of men.” Anton said.

"What man?" Bai Xi asked.

"Men who have a strong sense of responsibility, strong moral values, and don't want to be troubled by messy things, they have strong self-discipline, know what to do and what not to do, and also know that doing things they shouldn't do will make you I'm so irritable, so they abide by themselves, and as long as they marry, they will take it seriously." Anton said, "But, don't expect them to be so gentle and understanding, it depends on their emotional intelligence. "

Bai Xi felt that Ji Chenling was like the special man Anton said, "If they don't love, they will marry, isn't it irresponsible to themselves?"

"So, generally speaking, they will marry the one they love, unless there are special circumstances. For example, their parents are dying and they want him to marry. For example, they were pregnant before they were unmarried. The result after analyzing it." Anton said.

After Bai Xi finished listening, she felt that she... had to... think about it...