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Chapter 498 Sometimes, letting things take their own course is not a bad thing

Qin Chuyu sat on the swing and suddenly said with some emotion: "I haven't swung on a swing for a long time. After this swing was built, it has always been played by Xiaoqi and the others. I have no time to play with it."

"It's because you've been too busy during this period."

Yang Qianqi said: "Don't push yourself too hard, and don't be too nervous. Relax yourself appropriately, even if it's just to daydream and let your mind wander."

Qin Chuyu grabbed the two ropes of the swing and said, "I also want to be like before, just daydreaming, relaxing, swinging on the swing and drinking fat house happy water, but unfortunately..."

Qin Chuyu didn't say the rest of the words, but Yang Qianqi knew what he meant.

Yang Qianqi used her soft little hands to help him tidy up his messy hair, massaged his scalp, and said softly:

"Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. None of us have the ability to predict the future. No one can be perfect, and no one can clear all obstacles for the future of children."

"Besides, if life is smooth sailing without any ups and downs, wouldn't it be too boring?"

"Children should be allowed to face their future properly. Their lives belong to them."

"Their choice is theirs."

Qin Chuyu smiled faintly, shook his head, and said, "It's easy to say, but as a parent, we all want to make our children suffer less and give them more choices for the future while we can still move and work hard."

"What parent doesn't want their child to have a smooth and easy life ahead? Even if their child lives a dull life, as long as they are happy and live a peaceful life, that's enough."

At this point, Qin Chuyu couldn't help but sigh: "To be honest, I never understood what my father said, what he did, his temper, and the things he asked me to choose that seemed so bland and boring in my eyes."

"At that time, I kept thinking that if I had children in the future, when they grew up, I would definitely respect their choices and learn to let go. While raising my children well, I would also have to live my own life."

"But after having Xiao Qi and Xiao Ming, I realized that letting go is really hard."

"I always feel that I haven't done enough, haven't considered enough, haven't given them enough opportunities to make their own choices, and I'm afraid they won't have a good life when they grow up."

"I am afraid that because I am not working hard enough and not giving them enough paths to choose from, they will be forced to choose a path they don't want to take for some reason. Their lives will be dark, their future will be far away, they will see no hope, and their life path will be bumpy."

"It's like when you were forced to go out to work early because your family had no money and your uncle favored boys over girls and didn't let you continue your studies. But when I was bullied because my parents were not at home, I could only endure it silently at first, even if people pointed their noses at me and scolded me."

When talking about these past events, Qin Chuyu couldn't help but feel a little sour in his heart.

Only in front of Yang Qianqi and Mu Qingcheng could he briefly release his true nature.

If he is free in front of Mu Qingcheng without any constraints, both of them can chat and do things together in the most comfortable way and live the life they want.

In front of Yang Qianqi, he was like a child who completely let down his guard, said whatever he wanted to say and did whatever he wanted to do. Even if he said something wrong or did something wrong, he would not be blamed.

Because Yang Qianqi has always looked at things from multiple perspectives, mainly from his perspective, and never takes sides under the guise of "let me say something fair" or "helping the right side instead of the relative" or "being objective, not personal".

She would consider his perspective first, then anything else.

So Qin Chuyu could tell Yang Qianqi basically anything that was stuck in her heart:

"You know, when I found out that your uncle didn't let you go to school and asked you to go to work early because the family had no money and studying would cost too much money, I was angry and helpless, but more of it was self-blame and guilt."

Yang Qianqi paused for a moment, then continued to rub it and asked, "Why are you blaming yourself? What are you feeling guilty about? It wasn't you who stopped me from studying."

Qin Chuyu exhaled slowly and said, "I blamed myself and felt guilty at that time. If I had been able to work at that time, I could have earned more from the novels I wrote. Then I could have allowed you to continue your studies instead of having to work so early at your best age."

"I have thought more than once that it would be great if I could be as good as the hero in the novel I wrote."

"Even if it's only one tenth of the time, I can still let you continue to study as you like, so you don't have to start working so early."

"To this day, this incident is still a regret in my heart."

"I hated my young age, my inability, my inability to earn more money from my novels, and myself for watching my cousin, who had helped me since childhood, lose her education while I could do nothing."

Yang Qianqi lowered her beautiful eyes and said softly, "But you also said that you were still young at that time, and you couldn't even decide what to eat tomorrow. Why do you keep blaming yourself and feeling guilty about this?"

"In the past few years, I no longer even hate my father, your uncle, who didn't let me continue my studies. I let it go a long time ago."

"This may be my fate. I can't blame anyone."

"Besides, if I hadn't started working early, I wouldn't have been able to help you when you were at your lowest point."

“So, I don’t blame you, nor do I hate you.”

“I even feel a little relieved.”

"So, no one knows how the future will go. No one can predict the future and make all preparations in advance."

“No one can do everything perfectly.”

"Eat when you should eat, drink when you should drink, speak when you have something to say and spend when you have money, laugh when you are happy, cry when you are unhappy, and do your best in what you have to do."

"After success, don't be arrogant or impatient."

“Even if the final result may not meet your wishes, does not meet your expectations, or even fails, you will not feel lost or frustrated.”

"If I can do this for the rest of my life, wouldn't that be considered a perfect life?"

At this point, Yang Qianqi rubbed Chu Yu's head with her hand and said softly: "So, this is also your first time as a human being, and your first time walking this path of life. You also have your own life. Don't put so much pressure on yourself, don't keep forcing yourself and make your nerves so tense."

“Don’t take everything on your shoulders, and don’t put all the pressure on yourself. Just do the best you can.”

“Sometimes, you have to learn to let things flow.”

"There are some things we can work hard to change our fate, but there are some things we have to learn to let nature take its course."

“Sometimes, letting things take their own course is not a bad thing.”