After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

In a relationship, we have to allow the other person to no longer love us, and to allow the other person to fall in love with someone else. As long as the other person can openly say so, and break up with us before starting the next relationship, I think it is acceptable. At least I think such a person is at least open and aboveboard, whether he loves or not, he is open and aboveboard, and this person is still okay.

The most feared thing in a relationship is the kind of person who won't let you go, who keeps wasting your time, who drags you down, and who is also unclear and secretive with others. If you meet this kind of person, you should trample him to death if possible, but if you can't, at least you should hurt him. This kind of person is the most disgusting and the most hateful. "

Chen Jin agreed: "Indeed."

In Xia Ran's later life, his unit hired a young man who talked about his wife and kids all the time. Seven out of ten sentences were about his wife. His colleagues all thought that he loved his wife very much.

These female compatriots who are used to seeing messy relationships are very relieved to finally see a loving couple. They always feel that what we don’t have, at least they can see in these young people, so they really hope they can stay together for a long time.

It’s just like Xia Ran hopes that those loving celebrity couples she likes will stay together forever and stay together until old age.

Someone has to come out and prove that true love still exists in this world. It can't be that love only exists in novels and movies.

Unfortunately, the young man let the cat out of the bag during a game of truth or dare at a company dinner. He was actually an expert at dating, and he didn't change his expression when he said it, as if it was as simple as eating and drinking water, and his wife was pregnant with their second child at the time.

After Xia Ran's meal, she didn't eat a single bite and couldn't help wanting to vomit.

Later, there was a company dinner where family members were allowed, and I met his wife. She was a very beautiful girl with a very big belly at the time. Her skin was very fair. She had a round face that indicated peace and prosperity. She was very blessed, very beautiful and generous. Looking at her made people feel much better.

But even such a girl couldn't escape the fate of being cheated on. I forgot to mention that this girl also earns more than the boy, probably more than twice as much as the boy.

And the young man began his performance in front of everyone, peeling oranges for his wife, heating milk for his wife, picking up food for his wife, and massaging his wife's shoulders and legs.

Who wouldn't think they were in love? The other colleagues all cheered loudly, saying that they should be given an award as a model couple in love, and they were full of compliments.

And these colleagues who were in the know were more excited than anyone else, no matter how big the trouble was.

Many women who were unaware of the situation secretly pinched the waists of their male companions, feeling that their men were not considerate, understanding, or loving enough for them, and were somewhat inferior.

But Xia Ran was the only one who watched this farce with cold eyes, feeling desolate in her heart. What happened to this world? They were all great actors, how many Oscars did they owe them?

I have seen similar things more than once. After seeing them more often, I found that when someone shows off their love on WeChat Moments, her first reaction is to hope that the man can act longer so that this silly woman can realize her dream longer.

When I was young, I couldn’t help but scream when I saw a dreamy wedding, thinking that the bride was so happy.

Later, whenever I saw a wedding car or a wedding, my first reaction was that there was another silly woman, rushing towards the disaster that belonged to her with full of enthusiasm!

I can only silently bless them in my heart, hoping that they can wash away the worldly affairs, rise from the ashes, and be reborn as the girl with light in her eyes when they come back again!

"Don't say that men get bored easily with the old and love the new. Women are the same. It all depends on whether the conditions allow it. For example, if your husband is only in his 30s, he is already bald, his body is out of shape, he is potbellied, sloppy, and greasy. And he likes to flirt and show off with other girls. Do you still have the interest to face him?

My scalp tingles just thinking about it, and I feel physiological disgust. You see, this is the true nature of human beings. No one is superior or nobler than anyone else. In the end, a marriage depends entirely on conscience, but conscience is the most unreliable thing.

Let's assume that if a clean, fresh, young and handsome boy suddenly appears at this time and happens to be interested in you, will you fall in love with someone else? First of all, I dare not guarantee that I will not do so, because I may not be able to do it. "

But one thing that can be guaranteed is that Xia Ran will never cheat. Even if one day she falls in love with someone else or doesn't want to continue with the relationship, she will definitely break up with the previous one first and then start the next one.

Because her upbringing and pride would not allow her to take that step.

Xia Ran changed the subject and said, "You should be thankful that you don't have a child. If you had a child, you would be even more disgusted. Genes are something that cannot be deceived. Don't expect a gene mutation, as that is a low-probability event. Normal genes follow the theory that a dragon gives birth to a dragon, a phoenix gives birth to a phoenix, and a mouse's son will dig holes.

So when you find a father for your child, you must find someone who is a good person. Even if one day you are no longer husband and wife, at least he is still a person, and you can have another partner in the child-raising project. "Isn't Xia Ran the best example? Just think about it, what kind of thing did she raise!

"Why do you talk about theories so eloquently? And you want to be a partner in the baby raising project? Where did you come up with that?"

"Just tell me, am I right? Marriage is the fastest way to cross class boundaries. It's like, if your child's father is the municipal party secretary, even if you are no longer the secretary's wife, your child is still the daughter or son of the secretary's family. But if you marry a hooligan, then your child will start out as a hooligan, hanging around in small places and having a hard time.

Don’t think that you can have children with anyone you marry. But the starting point of some people is the destination that many people will never reach in their lifetime. Let me give you an example. For example, a female educated youth in Shanghai married in a remote mountain village that she had supported and built. From then on, the starting point of her children was that remote mountain village. She married into that place in one day, but her children may not be able to leave that place in their lifetime.

Her other brothers and sisters all got married in Shanghai. You can wait for a few decades and see how different their life experiences are. They were born of the same mother, but their results are very different. Over time, they may lose contact with each other because they find that they are no longer on the same level, in the same world, and have no common language. Sometimes, family affection is still worthless in the face of distance and interests. "

Chen Jin fell into a long period of contemplation.