After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

I usually cook with meat and oil. My second niece and my sister's son come to my house for dinner almost every day. One is four years old and the other is thirteen years old. They are very hardworking and insist on helping me with my work. They are the two floating populations in my family, and they are also the two generals.

Since I had them, I haven't washed dishes or pots. Even the pigs, chickens, dogs and donkeys at home are taken care of very well by these two kids. They are very considerate and smart. When I talk about this, I miss them both. "

Chen Jin asked casually: "I haven't heard you mention your husband. Are you divorced? Or?"

"No, he died in an accident. He was also a very, very good person, and very handsome. Maybe good people don't live long."

Chen Jin said apologetically: "I'm sorry, I didn't mean it."

"It's okay. We are all the same. Sooner or later, we will all leave this world. Some will leave sooner or later. The time is different. Nothing else is different. I am not sad. Everyone comes to this world with his mission. When the mission is completed, he will naturally leave. Some people have husbands, but it is better not to have them. They may not live as comfortably as I do."

"That's right. Many people's lives are not as comfortable as yours." After hearing this, Chen Jin's face showed sadness.

"You're not talking about yourself, are you? What's the matter? Tell me about it. One more person means one more solution."

Chen Jin was silent for a while before she slowly said, "We met on the train. Last time I went to my husband's hometown to help his nephew settle a dispute."

"And your husband, is he dead too?"

Chen Mingli's weird laughter came from behind: "Yes, he died too."

Chen Jin glanced at Chen Mingli and said, "No, I'm here, but I work in the next city, so we live in different places."

"I don't understand this. He's not dead. Why doesn't he deal with his family affairs instead of letting you do it? Have you ever heard of independent self-government?"

"He's busy over there and can't spare the time."

"What's the matter? Could your man be the party secretary of the neighboring city? If so, you really have to go. It would be a bad influence if he went, so for the sake of his career, you can go. But there is a prerequisite. He, as the party secretary, can give you some credit and help you. Otherwise, don't go. Everyone has to solve their own problems."

Chen Jin blushed in embarrassment: "No, no, he is not, he is just a small clerk."

"Oh, he is so impressive and busy, I thought he was the municipal party secretary. Turns out he is not. Then what does his family affairs have to do with you? His family is not your family, why are you in such a hurry? You are so beautiful and elegant, why do you have such a bad eye?"

Chen Jin said embarrassedly: "I was young and ignorant at that time."

"You were young and ignorant before, but now you are older and should be sensible. You should deal with what needs to be dealt with ruthlessly. Don't you have children of your own?"

A hint of sadness flashed across Chen Jin's eyes, and he said nothing.

"You are just stupid. What's the use of a man who can't even handle such trivial matters at home? Look at me. I have been married for 13 years, but I still have no children. My mother-in-law has always been dissatisfied with me and has urged her son to divorce me, but he just ignored his mother. We have separated and lived separately. He and I have both had check-ups and both of us are healthy, but I just can't get pregnant. This may be fate.

But at least, this man never got angry with me, never said a harsh word to me, and stood in front of me to protect me from the wind and rain. When looking for a man, you have to find one who can protect you from the wind and rain, not the one who brings you the wind and rain. I forgot to mention that he is also very handsome, really, I'm not kidding you, 1 meters tall, handsome, sunny, and has a pair of dimples when he smiles.

I have thought it through. In the future, I will either not look for a man or look for a man with a purpose. If I plan to have a child, I will look for a man with some power or family background. After all, I am not only looking for a man, but also a father of the child. I cannot let my child lose at the starting line. If the man is good and considerate, I will keep him. If he is not considerate and is also philandering, I will leave the father and keep the child. In this way, I will have a child and the annoying man will be gone. How refreshing.

If I don't plan to have children, I won't get married, but I can spend money to raise a handsome little wolf dog to warm my bed. If I'm happy with him, I'll be with him. If I'm not happy, I'll change him. As long as I have money, I will never lack men. This is the same as men becoming bad when they have money. So you see, I'm working hard to make money now, and I have to save enough money for the rest of my life. "

"Cough, cough, cough, cough," Chen Mingli choked on the watermelon in his mouth.

Xia Ran looked at them and thought, hey, he forgot that there were others when he was having fun, so he said a little embarrassedly: "You are still here! Hurry up and eat the watermelon, the rest is yours, and leave quickly after you finish eating."

Xia Ran continued to say to Chen Jin: "If it doesn't work, then divorce. If this one doesn't work, the next one will be better. You are such a man that I can't bear it. Why keep him? Just to warm the bed, and in a different place, so far away that you can't reach. Besides, you don't even have a child, what are you insisting on? Just because you don't have a child doesn't mean that others don't have one. Whether you have a child or not, everyone knows it clearly, because you can't pretend to be pregnant, you need at least ten months. But he is different, if he wants to have a child, he can do it in half an hour, or maybe not even in half an hour, maybe in a few minutes.

When you get older, he can just pull up his pants and nothing will happen to him, because his children have been raised somewhere else. As for you, as you get older, if your family is still useful to him, he may play the family card and ask you to bring these illegitimate children back to raise under your name, saying that you can't have children anyway, so his son is your son, and it's better to have one than not, at least someone can take care of you in your old age. If your family is of no use to him, he will divorce you on the grounds that you can't have children. What will you have then? What will you have left? People, it's not scary to stray into a dead end, but it's scary that you have to turn around in time. Otherwise, you are completely hopeless.

If you think of him as a worse person and a more scheming person, he might suggest to you to adopt a child, and the person chosen is his illegitimate child. In the name of adoption, he will raise his biological son by his side, and bring the child to meet the biological mother every few days. The whole world knows about it, but he hides it from you. He uses your connections, resources and money to pave the way for his biological son, raise his biological son, and when you have completely lost your surplus value, he will kick you out and reunite with the other side, living a loving life together. Tell me, what will you have by then? What will you have left? Do you regret it? Are you sick of it? Don't think too highly of human nature. Human nature is the only thing in this world that cannot be looked at directly, and it cannot withstand any test or scrutiny. Whoever takes it seriously will lose!"