Rebirth: It's Not You, It's Me

When Candu’s mother, sister, and brother-in-law returned to China, we went to see them off at the airport and brought them a lot of local specialties.

"Aunt, sister, brother-in-law, please come and visit us when you have time. Harbin here is really fun in winter. If you are worried about the cold, we can also go to Sanya." I invited them.

"Okay, we'll come back when we have time."

After I sent them away, Can didn't let me go when I got home. He tormented me for a long time and my waist was almost broken.

After staying there shamelessly for two days, Chandu returned to the country of Kimchi.

I went back to my hometown to be with my parents and children.

My younger brother and sister-in-law are back too.

My younger brother and his wife took a few children out to the supermarket, bought a lot of things, and bought them the same clothes. You can tell they are a family. My older nephew, older niece, younger nephew, younger niece, plus my four children, a total of nine children, all wearing the same clothes.

When I was taken out by my younger brother and sister-in-law, I looked quite cool. After all, there are no ugly children in my family, and all of them are good-looking.

Knowing that I was back, my younger brothers and sisters went out to buy fresh beef and mutton and prepared to have hotpot.

Moreover, we invited my uncle, aunt, grandma, grandpa, uncle, aunt, brother Ming, and his wife to come over, and also arranged for a mobile roasted whole lamb.

The whole family gathered around the table eating hotpot, stir-fried dishes, and roasted whole lamb. There were singing microphones and sound equipment in the yard, and it was very lively.

Several children were running around, some were cooking, some were singing, some were chatting, and of course my two siblings and I were eating.

"Why don't we set up a barbecue grill and grill some food?" suggested my uncle.

When Brother Ming heard about barbecue, he ran to the utility room to look for a barbecue grill.

The barbecue grill was set up in a short while.

"Uncle, I want to eat grilled pineapple."

"No problem, Second Sister-in-law, cut a pineapple. Luo girl wants to eat it."

"Wait a minute, I'm cooking!"

"Sister-in-law, why don't you cut it?"

"Okay." My aunt started cutting the pineapple.

My aunt and my old aunt are skewering vegetables.

My second uncle and grandfather are playing chess.

Dad sat on the side listening to the singing and watching the children.

My mother was busy helping to find this and that.

The old uncle was cooking rice with firewood, the third uncle was preparing the soup for the noodles. The third aunt, who had a bad leg, sat aside and chatted with grandma. The second aunt was washing fruits.

"Xianmeng, call your parents and ask them to come over! It will be more fun when there are more people around." Mom said.

"I'll call and ask. Maybe they've already eaten."

"Well, just say the family is here and ask them to come over for a drink."

"I know, Mom."

My sister-in-law called his parents, and soon her parents and sister-in-law came over, bringing a lot of cold dishes and wine.

Ming and Xianmeng's brother have a good relationship. They chatted while watching the roasted whole lamb. When the second uncle saw Xianmeng's parents coming, he stopped playing chess and welcomed the in-laws into the house. Dad, uncle, second uncle, third uncle, uncle, two brothers and sisters-in-law from the first uncle's family, and the brother and sister-in-law from the third uncle's family, my older nephew and younger nephew from the same class, all came. The adults started drinking first. The younger ones took over the task of roasting skewers and doing the work.

We are still children in front of them.

I often see this kind of lively atmosphere, not to mention in this life. In my previous life, this kind of thing also often happened in our family.

Chandu video-called me and when he saw so many people at my house, he thought something big had happened.

"What happened at home?"

"No!"

"Then why are there so many people?"

"Haha... this is a normal operation in our house!" I walked around with my phone to let him see what everyone was doing.

"I have never experienced such a lively feeling."

"Then next time you come, we can just invite everyone over for dinner!"

"No wonder you have such a good personality. It turns out you live in such a beautiful environment. No wonder."

“Don’t you feel super happy?”

"Yeah! I can feel it through the screen. When I saw Xiao Shi post a photo of your family, I was very curious. It turned out to be this kind of family dinner!"

"Yes, if you come during the Chinese New Year this year, it will be more lively. By then, the married sisters will come back with their families, and there will be more people."

"Brother-in-law, when are you coming? When you come, you have to treat us out for a big meal!" Xiaona spoke, and Xianmeng also came over.

When Chandu saw my two brothers' wives coming over, he was a little at a loss, after all, he had never seen them before.

"This is Ming's wife, Xiaona, and this is Taotao's wife, Xianmeng. They are both my brothers' sisters-in-law, and I only have these two brothers."

"Hello brothers and sisters, I will definitely treat you to a big meal next time I come over."

"Thank you, brother-in-law!"

The two people who got the answer returned to their posts as foodies.

After talking to Chan for a while, I hung up the phone and joined my two younger siblings, watching over the barbecue grill, cooking a little and eating a little.

We also baked egg cakes for a few of the kids.

But what they like to eat more is meat.

After playing for a while, he ran back and ate some meat.

Today they were allowed to play and eat for a while, but usually they can only run and play after eating.

The children who received amnesty were even happier.

Childhood only comes once, so have fun and have fun however you want.

You can imagine how many people envy the atmosphere of your home.

It was a lively day of eating and drinking.

Apart from eating and drinking and not having to look after the children, my two younger siblings and I would just chat about everything under the sun.

"Sister, are you ready to get married? I see that you two have a good relationship, and my brother-in-law's family is also very nice this time!"

"How did you know?"

"Everyone knows it! Look at the entertainment news, they've all been photographed."

"I've seen that, too. I think it's fine if your family is open-minded and you just get married."

"Let's wait and see. My relationship has been so bumpy. If I get married rashly, I'll be traumatized by the prospect of divorce someday."

"I've considered it before talking about whether to get married or not. Just like my ex-brother-in-law, the two had a good relationship, but they got divorced. It's a pity, but I can't help it. In the end, both of them were hurt."

"It's okay, sister. It's okay if you don't get married. We are here, and it's very happy! Look how lively it is."

"Yes, if I don't get married and stop filming, your two families will live next to each other."

"No problem!" the two siblings answered generously.

"Are you planning to have a third child? Now the policy has been relaxed to encourage having a third child."

"Ming and I are not planning on having more children. One boy and one girl is good enough."

"We are planning to have a third child. I like children. I like having several children so that the home is lively. Look at your sister, she has four children. It feels very lively at home. I am super envious."

"Then you should take care of your body and try to have twins."

"I'm taking Chinese medicine for conditioning!"

"I always feel that I am weak and have no energy. How is the Chinese medicine doctor you see? Please recommend one to me. I want to go see him too."

"The old Chinese doctor who treated me is very famous. Sister-in-law, if you want to see him someday, just find me and we can go together."

"Okay! I'll come see you one day when I have a day off."

"Okay, sister, don't you four kids feel uncomfortable anywhere?"

"No, I feel like I can kill a big tiger with one punch."

"I think so too. Sister is in great shape. Her complexion shows that she has regular menstruation."

"Nothing's wrong. I'm in good health. I have plenty of strength."