After traveling through time, my system is a scam

"Big Brother, what's been bothering you lately? Your children are all grown up now and have started their own families. What do you still have to worry about?"

Nanzhi said this and let go of the old man's hand.

"The child is still a child even if he is older. How will the eldest child live without a wife?"

"I don't worry about the second one, but the third one is really annoying. She can't have children and she's sick. If my son-in-law dislikes her, what will I do in the future?"

"How can a father not worry?"

Forehead!

That seems to be the case.

"But is it possible that none of your children need your concern?"

"People of our generation are no longer here. They all have their own opinions. We can just happily be elders and step forward when the children need us. When they don't need us, we can just be invisible and live our own lives. How wonderful!"

"Why bother with the kids?"

"Think about it, if you worry about your daughter making a mess while she's cooking and you keep nagging her, complaining about this and that all day long, it's easy to make your child irritated!"

This big brother is really powerful. Let alone cooking, if your beans are a little too long, he will nag about it for a long time. If the floor is not swept or the clothes are not folded, he will say something if he sees it. How can your child not hide from you?

Also, when someone else got married, after drinking, he went home and called his daughter to start scolding her.

After giving birth, she came back from drinking and started scolding her daughter again.

His three children are like this: today, when the father scolds the eldest, the second and third children comfort the eldest together. When he scolds the second child, the second child digests it by himself. When he scolds the third child, the eldest and second children comfort him together.

To be honest, this family is quite united.

But when family members talk to each other, they basically don’t say more than three sentences. If they say more than three sentences, they will start quarreling and even start to make personal attacks.

They scolded each other from the eldest to the third, except the second oldest.

I experienced food shortage when I was young, and opened a coal mine when I was young, but was later cheated. In my twenties, I came back to the construction site to carry ash buckets to make money.

I work so hard and overtime every month and earn 1200 yuan. I am reluctant to eat or spend it, and only spend 50 yuan a month.

The remaining money is used for children's living expenses and paying debts.

My wife got rectal cancer at a young age. Even though we knew she could not be saved, we still tried our best to treat her and borrowed money for treatment. Fortunately, my wife's family was very nice and helped a lot. However, medical care was underdeveloped, and in the end we lost both our money and our children. A grown man had to take care of three children. At that time, when the eldest child's mother died, he went to a construction site with his father, working as a laborer carrying ash buckets.

Maybe it was because he lost his wife at an early age, so he had a bad temper, but Nanzhi could still understand that.

You said that you have suffered and been exhausted before, but Nanzhi doesn't understand. Now the children are grown up and overall things are pretty good. It's the time to enjoy life, so why would you become depressed?

Nanzhi really doesn’t understand!

Her eyes did not miss the old man's expression, his eyes were empty and dull, and he spoke to her as if he was confiding in her, or as if he just wanted to talk to someone.

"Big Brother!"

Nanzhi saw that the man was sitting there again, not speaking, as if he was listening to Nanzhi talking, or as if he was in a daze again.

Can your mind wander while you're talking?

Could it be that the depression is very serious?

No, isn't this just the beginning?

Nanzhi analyzed the reasons for this man's depression in his mind. It seemed that he had few friends now, which was really strange.

He even spoke very little.

Even the people in the village were the same. They would often start quarreling after just a few words, and later on, people didn't want to talk to him anymore.

Is it caused by loneliness?

What exactly is depression?

Just as Nanzhi was lost in thought, the elder brother who was still sitting stood up and left.

This action awakened Nanzhi who was deep in thought. She quickly reached out to stop the man, "Hey! Big brother, don't leave yet. You haven't finished talking yet?"

"Forget it!"

The man reached out and shook his arm at Nanzhi behind his back.

Nanzhi looked at his hunched back and couldn't tell what she felt for a moment.

Is depression really that scary?

How was it formed?

Nanzhi opened her phone and checked. A lot of videos came up with a random search.

They're all related to depression.

What’s even more frightening is that many of them are junior and senior high school students.

This is too terrible.

What kind of genetic factors are there? The probability of having depression in a family is 8 to 20 times that of a normal person, and the closer the blood relationship, the higher the incidence rate.

No way, this thing is hereditary?

What other chemical factors are there?

Family factors, social factors, and mental stress.

Family factors, the older brother mentioned earlier, his children seemed to be quite annoyed with him, maybe because they quarreled too much, so everyone simply reduced the topic.

He hadn't even opened his mouth when he saw the big brother passing by and left immediately.

This is a family factor.

Then you won’t get along well with other people in the village, and you won’t even have any friends. This is a social factor.

The rest is mental stress.

What exactly is mental pressure?

Is it because other old men have pensions of hundreds of thousands, but he doesn’t?

Or is it because your daughter didn’t ask for a dowry when she got married?

Or does everyone else look down on him?

Nanzhi felt that it was mostly because others looked down on him and also envied him.

Because the relationship between these three brothers and sisters in this family is much better than that of others.

Is it because of this?

If this is counted as one of them, then it does fit the bill.

Nanzhi didn't expect that elderly people would also suffer from depression.

For the sake of the customers, Nanzhi decided to send a WeChat message to Zhang Xiaolu.

Remind the client about her father.

At this time, Zhang Xiaolu had no idea how serious depression was, and other people looked down on her.

Because people nowadays think that depression is just a sign of boredom, while those who are truly depressed are always trapped in their own world and cannot extricate themselves.

Nanzhi actually found that some patients with depression even said that there was always someone in their ears urging them to go to ZS.

I keep saying it, and I'm so tired of it. There are too many people who just end it all on impulse.

The more Nanzhi watched the video on her phone, the more frightened she became.

The more afraid you are, the clearer your mind will be. It seems that you must never force those two children to do things they don’t want to do.

We should not put pressure on them to study.

terrible!

Nanzhi quickly closed her phone, her mind filled with the symptoms of those people with depression and the words of those children.

Physical and mental health!

Physical and mental health!

Nanzhi took two deep breaths and silently recited several sentences in his heart.

After calming down the complicated emotions in her heart, Nanzhi felt an indescribable sense of relief when she opened her eyes again.

It’s so terrible. It turns out that he is so heartless and only cares about eating, drinking and being happy.