Siheyuan: From the time I became a fool

"Brother, our family is so lively and wonderful, why do you always want me to find a husband? Brother, I didn't think so before, but now I think I am living well on my own.

I work in the Propaganda Department, I get 35 yuan a month, and I also have the house you bought for me. This life is so beautiful, why do you want to get married?

Look at how miserable Qin Huairu is after getting married. She has to do this and that for the whole family, and she has to go to work and get scolded every day! Even if Qing Huairu did something wrong, I think this kind of life is pretty miserable.

You know what? Now I envy my sister-in-law for finding a man as good as you, but I don't think I will be so lucky.

Instead of doing housework for a whole family during my get off work day and night, I might even have my salary taken away by them.

I give birth to children for others, cook for them, and be filial to my parents, but I still get beaten and scolded. What do I want? I can live a good life. Why do I have to do hard labor for others, get beaten and scolded, and give birth to children for others? "

The key is that giving birth is dangerous, okay? Didn’t my mother die giving birth to me?

Well, let's start. She didn't think it was a bad idea to find a partner for marriage. She even had a relatively good impression of the local policeman Li Jianguo.

Didn't He Yuzhu help him later? He Yushui also asked his classmates and found out that it was true.

If she really married Li Jianguo, she would have to give all her salary to the big family, and when she returned home she would have to cook and work for them. There would even be no place for the couple to sleep in the same bed.

I heard that Li Jianguo's mother was in poor health because she was exhausted and beaten back then. She was so scared that she broke out in a cold sweat.

Then I met a few female classmates from junior high school. Some of them got married secretly, and their lives were not easy. Those who had jobs were a little better off, but they had to pay their parents and work while pregnant, and they were in fear every day.

Those who were not given jobs by their families were even more miserable, as their lives were like soaking in misery.

There are even two girls who have already had children and have to be cautious and look at the men's faces when asking them for a penny or two to buy a bag of salt. What kind of life is this?

"Yushui, don't be anxious. Let's take our time and I'll pick a good one for you. You can't not get married. Don't be scared by Li Jianguo's family and not dare to look for someone else. There will always be a good one."

He Yuzhu was helpless. Why was my sister like those fairies in the 21st century, afraid of marriage for no apparent reason?

"Okay, brother, then you can take your time to choose and help me pick a good one, but you can't force me. No one can force me to get married without my approval."

He Yushui said complacently, "I have a high salary, I have a lot of free time, and I have a house to live in, so I won't get married! I can get married, but the other party must be very good to me and have good conditions, otherwise I will stay alone for the rest of my life! Anyway, I am a cadre now, with a high salary, and I will get a pension when I retire."

"Okay, okay, okay, now that you've said that, what else can I do? Can I force you to get married with a knife? Just don't let some brat fool you."

He Yuzhu was helpless. This woman, you really can't let her read too many books and find a job with too many benefits, too much leisure and too high salary.

Otherwise, this woman doesn't want to be a good wife and mother. She either has extremely high standards or she just wants to live her own life.

Otherwise, why do many old people in the 21st century say that it is because women are more educated that many families have lost their family line?

Alas! It is the same in any world. If a woman is not doing well or is unlucky, she can just find a man to marry.

But if a man is unlucky, he will be single and alone.

"I won't be fooled, at least not now. When I saw how miserable my classmates were after getting married, I knew I had to choose carefully. I would rather live alone than suffer."

He Yushui ate the vegetable dumplings happily while humming

"If there is a good one, it's the son of an old comrade of my dad's. He is already the deputy director of a machinery factory. He got divorced at the age of 26, but fortunately he has no children. The tall and strong one must be about 1 meters, with thick eyebrows and big eyes, and a righteous face." Han Ruoshui smiled secretly

"With such good conditions, why get a divorce!" He Yuzhu narrowed his eyes. "There must be a reason for divorce, but as long as there is a divorce, people will definitely say it is the other party's fault, not their own."

"The woman's falsified test results were discovered, and luckily she didn't get pregnant."

Han Ruo Waterway

"I don't care about this matter. It's up to Yu Shui whether they meet or not, but I don't want my sister to find a divorced man. He's 8 years older than my sister. I feel so bad just thinking about it.

Those who remarry, especially men, will say it is the woman’s fault, saying that there is nothing wrong with him, but I don’t believe it.”

Why didn't he believe it? Because He Yuzhu is also a man, he naturally understands men. How can it be so cheap? You have good conditions in all aspects, but it's hard to divorce your wife. Then my sister met him.

And he thought he could find a wife who was 7 years younger than him, or even 17 or 27 years older. But he felt uncomfortable when his sister wanted to find an older husband.

"I..." He Yushui hesitated.

"Okay then, I'll ask someone to find out more about this. Don't rush into a blind date."

Han Ruoshui nodded, "This matter really needs to be investigated carefully! One of my classmates married a man who was divorced twice, but after marriage, she found out that the man was infertile. But I think, Brother Jiang, this is not the case..."