Siheyuan: From the time I became a fool

"Ruoshui, I know you have a lot of questions about me in your heart. It's rare that we can chat so well, but you have never asked me any questions!"

Women also need friendship. In order not to cause trouble to the country, Han Tiejun hid his identity as an old Red Army soldier by being too low-key. Only a few people knew about it, which also led to Han Ruoshui having almost no friends.

Zhou Mingchao was interested, and Han Ruoshui also felt comfortable getting along with her, and after a while they became like best friends.

Han Ruoshui often visited Li Huaide's home, but Li Huaide was very busy and rarely saw him here. But it was precisely because of this that the two of them got along more easily.

Han Ruoshui was chewing on the apple Zhou Mingchao gave her, which was a little wilted but still sweet and delicious. But after hearing what Zhou Mingchao said, she blinked and didn't respond to the next sentence.

I can't respond to her. My identity is a bit awkward. And Liu Lan is her cousin. What can she say? There is nothing she can say!

"My father's rank was high, half a rank higher than my father-in-law, but it was very difficult for a director to be promoted to deputy director. And sure enough, after so many years, my father-in-law is still in his current position.

But we also need the help of the Li family in many areas. The Li family is naturally good at scheming and judging the situation better than my family. Li Huaide and I are in a marriage of convenience.

It was he who pursued me at the beginning, madly. Of course, although it was an arranged marriage, I could still choose one of the arranged marriage partners that I liked.

I can’t say how much I like Li Huaide, but I can only say that among all the marriage candidates, he is the most clear-headed and also the most ruthless.

For people like us, it is a good thing for a man to be unfeeling. Among them, two of them are married but still have deep feelings for the woman outside, which makes the wife's position at home awkward.

Li Huaide's greatest advantage is that he is able to judge the situation best. None of the women he finds outside can threaten my position.

Or maybe those women he has out there are tied down by family and children, so they can't get involved with Li Huaide even if they want to."

"Sister Mingchao, but I still think you are good..."

Han Ruoshui couldn't say the following words. She still felt that Zhou Mingchao was wronged to marry Li Huaide. Which woman could tolerate her husband having an affair? Which woman could feel good about it?

This is like whether a man can tolerate his wife having a lover outside? Can he tolerate his wife giving birth to a child for her lover and still let him raise the child?

But cousin Liu Lan was also miserable. If she didn't rely on Li Huaide, she really couldn't make it. Not to mention that relatives could help, the little bit of food was useless once or twice, and no one could bear it for a long time.

And let's put it this way, when this person is having a hard time, all relatives and friends avoid you. If you rush to go there, you will also be despised and ridiculed. As for asking them for help?

That's it...

Even if there are people willing to help, the emergency needs are endless.

"Ruoshui, your uncle and aunt protected you too well, which made you too naive.

I was born in the Zhou family, and I have enjoyed all kinds of preferential treatment from the Zhou family since I was born. So I naturally have to pay the price for this preferential treatment.

In this world, no one gets only benefits.

Moreover, if I really marry into a commoner family, will I really live a good life? I don't think so. Men from commoner families are both proud and inferior. They may not be as good as Li Huaide.

So why should I bother your cousin Liu Lan! If there is no Liu Lan, there are Zhang Lan and Li Lan. Although her husband is not at home, they cannot divorce, and there are children at home. As a woman, she is also pitiful!"

And what Li Huaide gave Liu Lan were just some insignificant benefits that could be ignored.

Liu Lan can also help Li Huaide do things that are inconvenient for him. Li Huaide needs Liu Lan to accompany him when he entertains others. Do you really think it is a good thing for a woman to drink and eat meat at the table with men? She is just a dish and entertainment at the men's table.

This is the real reason why officials in ancient times kept prostitutes at home, and their wives and concubines were not jealous and could accept it very well.

"I understand. The cook in the machinery factory in our front yard often beats his wife. His father-in-law is a department-level leader, but because he looks down on this son-in-law, he doesn't give him any preferential treatment.

The man felt that he had married a bad wife, so he beat her every day and had affairs outside. I heard that his wife eloped with him despite her family's opposition, and she broke up with her family because of this!"

Han Ruoshui was also very sad. "Once these men have some skills, they go out...

Fortunately, Zhuzi is quite honest in this regard, at least for now. You may not know that the woman I envy the most in this world is my mother...

Although it may not look good on the surface, I actually think my mother is the happiest woman in the world."

"That's exactly what you said! And even if the man is a good person, he has a whole family! It would be even worse to marry him like this. Unless someone is like the mentally ill woman in your hospital, no one would be so stupid.

It's really rare to find a man as good as my uncle."

Zhou Mingchao didn’t know the term “love-brain”, but he had already analyzed the consequences of love-brain.

To be honest, although she envied him, she would never marry Zhou Mingchao if he married a man like Han Tiejun.

"If Ruoshui remembers correctly, uncle should also enjoy the treatment of a department-level official. At the worst, he would not be lower than level 17."

“Well, I heard from my father that he was given level 17 at first, but later I don’t know how he did it, it reached level 14.

The salary offered was that of a 14th-level official, but my father was illiterate, in poor health, and he did not think he had leadership skills. He insisted on being a doorman and did not want to live in the assigned house, so those people gave him the chance! "

And her father was in really poor health, and he was very worried about her. She had been cheated by a man and had lost all her family. She had to go through the same experience as the woman in the front yard.

But the woman's family in the front yard was really cruel. They really treated her as if she had never been born and didn't care about her life or death. Otherwise, the cook wouldn't be so angry.

"That's good. Uncle will compensate him in other ways for what he gave up. It will also save your family a lot of trouble. For example, none of the people in your grandma's family are easy to deal with." Zhou Mingchao nodded.

"As for the details of my uncle's treatment, I think even Liu Lan doesn't know. But it's good this way. I don't have to let others know. I can just live my life well."

"Yes, that's what my parents have always said. They don't need me to do anything for them. They just hope that I can live a happy life."

She was even repeatedly asked to keep a low profile, and repeatedly told that the meat is in the folds, not in the wrinkles, and that vanity can only kill people.

"If you have time, please take care of Xuanyunduo, even if Xuanyunduo is a living dead.

But as long as she has breath, she should be well taken care of. Without the minced meat provided by Manyuduo, the workers are in a much worse situation, which Manyuduo deserves.”

Zhou Mingchao patted Han Ruoshui on the shoulder and said, "We should have a broad mind and a bottom line, and we should also know how to be grateful."

"Yes, I will. Han Duoduo is my cousin no matter what."

But if he really went to see her and take care of her, it was just a matter of face. He gave Liu Lan a hand, but that was all. After all, Liu Lan got a job for her son. And he got an extra salary for one more person, right?

"You should be careful with Qin Huairu. She is not only scheming, but also flexible. She is not a simple character.

Fortunately, this woman has little education and vision! You must keep everything in your family firmly in your hands and don't let this woman take advantage of you.

Once you get attached to this woman, it's hard for someone as honest as you to get away from her. Even if it's the baby she gave birth to, you should stay away from them. You'd rather be scolded for being cruel than give them a grain of food.

Especially when you have children in the future, you must not let your children get along with anyone from the Jia family, including Qin Huairu's children."

Zhou Mingchao has always had a sharp eye. Since he has some sincerity towards Han Ruoshui, she will naturally give her some advice.

"Sister Mingchao, you are right. The Jia family, especially Qin Huairu, are really annoying and always put on airs."

Speaking of this, Han Ruoshui nodded involuntarily. Fortunately, Zhuzi was smart and decisive enough, otherwise it would be easy to get stuck.

This is my neighbor. It’s hard to get rid of him, right?

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"Aunt Yushui, what are you eating in the house? It smells so good! My sister and I are so hungry!"

He Yushui had a holiday today, and her brother and sister-in-law were not at home. She picked up the two boxes of steamed buns her brother had left for her, and was hiding in her room, eating the beef jerky her brother had given her.

This Bang Geng came knocking on the door holding his sister. The Zhang family has become smarter now. She did not show up, and let her grandson carry her granddaughter.

How could He Yushui, an unmarried little girl, be so cruel as to refuse?

Even if you can refuse it this time, what about next time? What about the next time? Anyway, I will focus on being shameless and asking for a profit. Even if I don't give it, I will still make up for it.

Even if I can't get what I want, I can still disgust you.