Siheyuan: From the time I became a fool

Han Ruoshui watched the family business grow bigger and bigger, and her two daughters and two sons become more and more successful, especially since her parents had been in poor health when she was young.

But with her care over the years, my health has become better and better, and I feel particularly happy.

She was also shaken when she got the golden finger, especially with such good cooking skills that even Zhou Mingchao was jealous. Did Han Ruoshui actually know what this golden finger represented?

But Zhuzi treated her well as always, and she watched Li Huaide go out and mess around all these years. Zhou Mingchao didn't care on the surface, but he actually looked sad.

Especially those who have no skills, Xu Damao also went out to mess around. There are many male comrades in the factory, and even some workers are not honest!

She felt that she was quite content. What mattered if a woman had great abilities? The most important thing was to have a harmonious and happy family.

And she was right in her bet. Zhuzi had always been very good to her and had never changed over the years. But she also had a little secret in her heart, which was that once she found out that her husband was with another woman like Li Huaide did.

She would leave him without hesitation, even when she was 50 or 60 years old.

As for why, it is because men and women are the same. If the other party does not meet their wishes or betrays them, they will naturally kick him/her away if they are fully confident.

As for those who can tolerate their partners’ cheating or even various kinds of abuse in their marriage, regardless of whether they are men or women, it only shows that they lack confidence and are not capable enough!

This world is so real, so Han Ruoshui never feels sorry for those housewives who have suffered a lot of grievances in their families!

Why? Because housewives are replaceable. It is true that housewives work hard to take care of children and do housework, but this kind of work can be done by anyone!

The replaceability is too strong, and is the relationship between husband and wife really supported by the so-called feelings?

In fact, it is not about husband and wife getting along, what really supports it is interests, mutual interests.

Men require women to be young and beautiful, have an independent job, and have healthy parents. Isn't this a benefit? Men require women to be young and beautiful, so that they can have a good sex life and look good when they go out.

Having an independent job means not being a burden to him financially, and if he has any problems, the woman can still help him.

Isn't this also what we ask of our father-in-law and mother-in-law? That is, they should not be a burden to him, but should help him!

Of course, women are the same, women require men to be young, handsome, have a good job, be rich, and have a spacious house, otherwise life will not be stable!

So what men and women ask for are the benefits that the other party can bring to each other. Isn’t the essence of marriage the exchange of resources?

And once the balance is lost, whether it is on the man's side or the woman's side, won't there be problems in the end?

Men feel that they have suffered a loss, and think that no matter what, the woman will never divorce him and the child will live a good life with him. Then naturally they will go out to support a mistress. Aren’t Xu Damao and Li Huaide’s affairs a good example?

The same goes for women, no one needs to say anything to anyone else!

But no matter who does this, there will definitely be problems in the family, and even if they try to avoid divorce, there will still be smoke of war!

So Han Ruoshui was glad that Zhuzi had never done anything to let him down over the years. Of course, Han Ruoshui had never done anything to let Zhuzi down either.