Siheyuan: A Cook in the 60s

Director Jing amiably invited Cao Wei back to his seat: "Comrade, what is your name?"

"Oh, my last name is Cao, Cao Wei."

"What a good name! It sounds like culture." Director Jing slapped his thigh, praised him, and then changed the subject: "You just said that there are Hong Kong businessmen from Hong Kong who want to invest in you?"

"Oh, yes." Cao Wei nodded.

"So, comrade, where did you work before?"

"Oh, I'm in the steel mill."

"Steel mill? Wait a minute." Director Jing found a yellow page in his drawer, flipped through it, and pointed at the page. He understood: "Comrade, I want to ask, is this Hong Kong businessman cooperating with you personally or with the steel mill?"

"Talk to me personally. How can a steel mill know how to run a restaurant? You are joking."

"Yes." Director Jing nodded and organized his words a little: "Comrade, this is the case. We don't have such a regulation now, stipulating that Hong Kong businessmen can cooperate with individuals. Individual businesses are still in the experimental stage at this stage, and the details are not clear. Therefore, I cannot agree to your request."

"Okay, I understand." Cao Wei also nodded, stood up and was about to leave.

"Hey, hey, hey, comrade, wait a minute, wait a minute. Why don't you let people finish their words?" Director Jing grabbed Cao Wei.

Cao Wei asked in confusion, "If we can't even form a partnership, why won't you let me go?"

"That's right." Director Jing rubbed his hands a little embarrassedly: "We are advocating joint ventures now. You see, you can't do it for the time being, can you introduce me to someone? I have the contact information of many old chefs, all of which are state-owned restaurants. If there are Hong Kong businessmen outside who want to invest..."

Having said this, he stopped talking.

What do you mean? Just do it as long as it’s in place.

"Oh, that's what you're talking about. No problem. I'll go get someone for you right away."

"Hey, hey, hey, comrade, no need, no need. I'll go with you. I'll go with you." Director Jing never expected that Cao Wei would agree so easily. He couldn't help but sigh in his heart - what a good man!

Cao·Good Man·Wei led Director Jing to the Lou family’s villa.

After introducing the two people to each other, he left alone under Lou Xiao'e's resentful gaze.

He promised Qin Huairu today that he would go out for a walk with her.

Cao Nian is now familiar with Qin Jingru and follows her around everywhere.

Qin Huairu has had some free time in many years, so Cao Wei plans to take her out for a walk.

Going shopping and dating with women also requires some technical skills.

In later times, ordinary boys have a very boring dating process, from eating to watching movies, and finally checking into a hotel. So the question is, why can some people only be the sucker who pays for meals, and can't even watch a movie? While some people can gallop on horses and have fun.

The root cause is that we cannot see the real problem here clearly.

What is the core of dating?

It is the interaction of emotional value.

In a normal relationship, it is actually a process of seeking common ground while reserving differences.

Why is it that in the past, when I asked a girl out to watch a movie, the two of us seemed to have endless things to talk about and slowly got closer? But now, when I watch a movie, I will be criticized for being boring.

The most fundamental reason is the different historical background.

At the beginning of the 21st century, technology was not so advanced, and entertainment was limited to clubbing, watching TV, and watching movies. Even surfing the Internet, for most families, they had to go to Internet cafes. And girls in this era, TV dramas were not allowed to be discussed. When going out with friends, some conservative activities, clubbing, and surfing the Internet would be excluded.

Therefore, watching movies becomes the safest and most comfortable choice.

Whether boys or girls, they are willing to interact with each other emotionally during the movie watching process, whether they are complaining or enjoying the movie. With interaction, the relationship can last for a long time. In simpler and easier to understand terms, in this era, everyone is very serious about watching movies. But in later generations, watching movies? It is just a process, you can watch it or not.

This is not the best idea for a date, per se.

It can only be regarded as the safest choice.

Why do people say that girls are becoming more and more picky? People who say this actually have no fundamental understanding of the problem.

Let’s put aside the realistic factors, such as bride price and money.

The problem with emotional interaction is that there are too many choices.

In the past, the choices for entertainment were only 1234: movies or TV. There was a large overlap in the ways boys and girls entertained themselves, and this large overlap would bring about a huge amount of topics. With topics and communication, relationships can last.

Now, in addition to 1234, entertainment options can be further categorized. For example, TV has variety shows, TV dramas, singing and dancing, and all kinds of programs. At this time, the entertainment methods of boys and girls have been subdivided into a very outrageous place. Today you talk to me about idols, and tomorrow I talk to you about the sword. The result is that no one is interested in anyone else's field.

The output of emotions is given to a blind person. This will definitely not last long.

Then again, what kind of technical skills are required for a date with Qin Huairu?

In fact, it doesn’t require any technical skills. Just hold her hand and walk on the street.

why?

Because Qin Huairu has never stopped since she came to the city. She had children, and when her husband died, she had another child and took over the job. Then she worked diligently. Do you think she has ever stopped to look at the scenery along the way? No, the key to her happiness is not to watch a movie or go to a romantic place.

Instead, he held her hand, walked on the street, and strolled through the streets and alleys.

Walking slowly.

Just show her the scenery she has ignored, that's enough.

Again, analyze what the core needs are.

The most crucial reason why most Aquamans can succeed repeatedly is that they can integrate into other people's cognition. They can judge what kind of person you are through a short conversation.

For example, if you are drinking alone in a bar, you must be in a bad mood. There are only a few reasons for being in a bad mood, either because you are being bullied at work, or because you have failed in something, or because you have suffered setbacks in your relationship. Then, through some tricks, he will find out the reason for your depression, and then, following your thoughts, within half an hour, under the stimulation of alcohol and the tricks, you will probably feel that he is the person who understands you best in the world.

As mentioned before, there are too many entertainment subdivisions in this era. If the other person talks about things that interest you during the conversation, you should be careful, because this person's level is probably several levels higher than yours, whether he or she is a man or a woman.

As for Cao Wei at this time, it can probably be described in one word - dimensionality reduction attack.