Three or Two Things about Rebirth

Qin's mother pushed Qiu Luming to sit on the sofa and moved a chair to sit close to her. Qin Huifang and Han Meifen both covered their mouths and sat by the window watching the fun with smiles on their faces. No one came to the rescue.

Mother Qin held Qiu Luming's hand and said, "This little hand has so much fine hair, so soft and white, and the palm is not messy. You can see that you are destined to enjoy a good life. In my opinion, among the three of you girls, Huifang is too hard and too violent, and Meifen is too soft and gentle. Only you, Luming, are not bullied and are not overbearing. You are just right!"

Your mother is the woman I admire the most. She is talented, beautiful, and has good character. I was thinking the other day, how can there be such a perfect woman in the world! Tell me, can the child raised by your mother be wrong? "

"Well, my mom is not perfect, and neither am I. I can't cook, I can't grow vegetables, and my grades are poor, really poor!" Qiu Luming stuttered. To be honest, she really couldn't handle the enthusiasm of Qin's mother.

"Hey! Those are all rumors spread by others. Your father and mother are both high-level intellectuals, how can you be any worse? Those people outside are just jealous of your family, spreading nonsense out of jealousy! I never believe those words. Huifang played with you back then, and I supported you 100%!"

Qin Huifang nodded rapidly on the side.

"Luming, don't worry. I told my sister's sister-in-law about your situation over the phone. She is very understanding and even feels lucky that Fei Yuanhang was unlucky, so Mou Shanjiang got the advantage!

That's settled then. I'll babysit the kids at 10am on Sunday, and all you ugly youngsters can go upstairs to Huifang's house to play mahjong, watch videos, etc. Meifen can go too, bring your partner with you so you can get to know each other. Let's not even talk about blind dates, because you youngsters don't like blind dates, and Auntie Huang knows that. Ah, that's settled!"

Qiu Luming finally got a chance to speak up, "Uh, Aunt Huang, I don't have a strong opinion. I need to go home and discuss this with my parents."

"Okay! That's exactly what I want!"

"Well, Aunt Huang, Huifang, I'm going home. Meifen, are you leaving?"

Han Meifen also stood up and said goodbye, and the two walked in silence all the way.

After turning a corner and arriving at Binjiang Road, Han Meifen suddenly got off her bike and said, "Luming, let's take a walk."

Qiu Luming also got off his bicycle.

"At our age, we have no place to talk even if we want to. Our parents' home is not our own home after all."

Qiu Luming smiled but said nothing. She knew that was her parents' home, but she always felt that it was also her home. Her mother also said that the small north-facing bedroom would always be kept for her.

“Every time I turn onto this road, I think back to the power outage and the time we were stopped by that motorcyclist…I’ve had enough of living on this street!

Lu Ming, during that incident, I endured as much pressure as you did, but no one, no one, ever comforted me the way they comforted you!

My mother even scolded me: "You deserve it! You are a grown-up girl, but you insist on going out in the wild in the middle of winter. Who else would I rob if not you?" Listen, this is what my own mother said."

Qiu Luming stood down and stroked her arm covered with a woolen coat. "During that time, I only cared about myself and ignored you. I'm sorry, Meifen."

Han Meifen turned her head and wiped a tear on her scarf, "You didn't do anything wrong to me, you even blocked a lot of rumors for me.

You still remember what Aunt Huang said just now, she said I was gentle and mild, I know she wanted to say that I was weak and cowardly!

But what can I do? I also hope to have a mother like Teacher He who teaches me how to grow up, a father like Dr. Qiu who is kind and tolerant, and a brother who cares for me unconditionally! I don't have any of them!

I have fantasized countless times that one day your second brother suddenly fell in love with me, and I married him. Then I became a member of your family and suddenly had everything that you have!

Luming, you can call me shameless, but that’s what I really think! "

Qiu Luming shook his head.

"I was very sad when your second brother got married, but I wasn't that sad later. He was a little different from what I imagined. Oh, I will always keep a corner for him in my heart.

Fu Xinyang's conditions are very ordinary, so he is very good to me. No one has ever been so good to me. His mother treats me better than my mother. I can't help but be moved. Lu Ming, you are making fun of me. I have no future, so I can only find a family like this. "Han Meifen's voice choked.

"Meifen, I'm not making fun of you. I'm just worried about you."

"What do I have to worry about!" Han Meifen's voice suddenly became louder, as if she was going to quarrel with her. "There are only two people in their family. No matter how difficult their life is, can it be harder than ours? Why don't you believe that they are really good to me! Are you and Qin Huifang the only ones who are loved, and I am not worthy?"

Qiu Luming was stunned and looked suddenly at Han Meifen.

Han Meifen looked at her for a second, then immediately lowered her eyes, got on her bike, and rode away.

Qiu Luming sighed. Han Meifen was just that kind of person. She didn't dare to conflict with powerful and arrogant people. When her parents and siblings bullied her, she didn't dare to say a word. When someone bullied her outside, she didn't dare to resist.

Only when she realizes that someone is kind to her and will not hurt her, will her courage surge, and she will dare to express the resentment in her heart.

But as soon as Qiu Luming glared at her, Han Meifen became afraid again.

Qiu Luming slowly pushed the cart back home. She felt that she had handled Han Meifen's matter inappropriately and was too embarrassed to mention it to her mother when she got home.

She only said that Qin's mother wanted to introduce her to someone.

He Manshu smiled and said, "What's the big deal? It's normal for a girl to be sought after by hundreds of families. It's been three months since you broke up with Yuanhang. You might as well go out and have a look. Just don't drink or go out late at night."

"I don't want to go. Aunt Huang is so mysterious and never tells the truth. Mom, I'm so fed up. A few days ago, our Director Liu also said that he wanted to introduce me to someone, and said that he worked in the Transportation Bureau. I said that I haven't considered finding a partner yet, and she was not happy. But I really don't want to find one! Now Aunt Huang has also joined in the fun. If it weren't for Huifang's face, I would have directly rejected her!"

"You will be 24 this year. If you can find someone suitable at the beginning of the year, you may be able to get married by the end of the year. Otherwise, it will be your zodiac year next year, so it will be difficult to get married. Of course, if there is no suitable one, we will not settle for it. We will get married after our zodiac year!"

"Mom, do I have to get married?"

He Manshu was horrified. "If you don't get married, will you become a nun? Don't let your imagination run wild. After a year or so, the sadness in your heart will fade away. Yoyo, mom is telling you, don't believe those stories in novels. A person doesn't really need to be affectionate. Just live your life well. Life is only a hundred years. Be a little cold and selfish, and you will live a happy life."

Qiu Luming laughed after hearing this, "Mom, Aunt Huang just told me that you are a perfect woman and she admires you the most. Do you think she would still say the same thing about you if she knew that you were teaching your daughter to be a selfish and cold-hearted person?"

"You believe her words." He Manshu snorted, "As long as a woman lives according to her own wishes, she is already imperfect in the eyes of outsiders!

In this world, the people who make the rules are often the ones who least follow them. Since ancient times, men have used laws, regulations, village rules, poems and songs to restrict or hint at women, making them become what they want them to be: the three obediences and four virtues, gentle, virtuous, and generous. There are also the seven reasons for divorce and the chastity arches. Oh, the world is not yet rich enough to truly sympathize with the weak. If you are cowardly and a pushover, you will become a tool for others to exercise their courage and the safest punching bag for others!

The same is true between women, and even more so than the oppression of men against women. "

When Qiu Luming heard this, he pointed at He Manshu and chuckled, "Does the mother-in-law's teaching to her daughter-in-law count?"

He Manshu rolled her eyes at her and said, "You have to listen to what your mother says! No one else will tell you this except me!"