Siheyuan: Starting with level 8 benchwork skills

However, He Yuzhu always wanted to find a pure woman as his spouse. As she was a widow with a past and children, she never told He Yuzhu her true thoughts, but how could she suppress her feelings?

Later, he took the initiative to recommend Qin Jingru to He Yuzhu, which was also due to some selfish motives.

This nominal cousin had a similar charm to herself when she was young, so she introduced her cousin to him with anticipation.

It was like entrusting her own expectations to her cousin to build relationships with her respected friends on her behalf. This was also like fulfilling her inner responsibility to repay He Yuzhu's years of care.

Later, He Yuzhu's behavior gradually changed. Although she seemed to resist on the surface, she actually slowly got used to accepting him as he was.

This underground warehouse was where Qin Huairu first gave her body to someone else. When she handed herself over to He Yuzhu again, she did not reject the idea too much, even though she knew she could not bear children for him.

Qin Huairu still couldn't help crying when she saw Qin Jingru, who was happily married to He Yuzhu. What's more, she paid countless prices for the integrity of her family, but she was not tolerated and respected by her husband's family, and was insulted, which made her hard to let go.

She lamented that life was helpless and full of misfortunes, as if everything was destined by fate and could not be resisted or escaped. Faced with such a fate, the only thing she could rely on was to hide in the dark underground and cry to release the long-suppressed emotions in her heart and find a place to escape from the world temporarily.

She was startled by the sound of footsteps in the secret room and asked quickly, "Who is outside?"

"its me."

When Qin Huairu saw He Yuzhu coming to see her, she felt even more sad, but she quickly wiped away her tears and forced a smile: "Oh, it's Zhuzi, why are you here?"

Looking at Qin Huairu who was trying to be strong, He Yuzhu couldn't help but sigh in his heart: he didn't have much emotional ties to Qin Huairu, only human instinctive emotions.

But then again, even though they slept together, she was still his spouse...

He walked to her side and looked at the woman who was tortured by life to the point of being unable to breathe - her hands were as rough as dry firewood, she wore a gray and worn cotton jacket with an apron, her black cotton pants were covered with patches and holes, and she wore a pair of old, remade cloth shoes on her feet.

Is this a sad reflection of the times, or is this an exploiter in the eyes of the public?

As an ordinary person, it is difficult for He Yuzhu to interpret everything at a glance! After all, living in this special era, he has experienced completely different vicissitudes of life, which is completely different from the good old days in his past memories!

In the good old days, people gradually learned to be selfish and indifferent; on the contrary, in this era, the pure and lofty beauty of humanity is still preserved: whether it is Qin Jingru's responsibility to the family, the selfless care of the old man for his wife, or Qin Huairu's hard work in raising her children and her attitude of bearing humiliation in the face of a harsh mother-in-law...

How many examples of this kind of spiritual demeanor can we still see in the world today?

In the past, once he lost all his savings, his ex-wife would break up with him without hesitation and was determined to leave him without any sympathy or patience.

In that era, the idea of ​​marriage and family ties was a joke. For those who failed to provide a better economic situation, bystanders were always harsh:

"What good is it to be with someone like this?"

"It's too much to be with this guy, why don't you go away!"

"Please, please stay calm and find someone more suitable!"

He had suffered a lot of these harsh words in the past, precisely because he was one of those losers who were laughed at!

Yes, he had limitations, but he borrowed money without hesitation to invest in order to better his living conditions. But he did not spend the money on decadence or pleasure - instead, he simply went all out to create a more affluent environment for his family. Although the results were not as expected, he did not feel regretful.

It doesn't matter if you fall into the abyss of debt. As a man, you must cheer up and work hard to pay off your debts, and believe that you still have a chance to rise again!

If a spouse can share his or her hardships, she or he does not need to provide financial assistance - just her presence and trust are enough to help him or her get back on his or her feet...

The other party was so cold and indifferent; and He Yuzhu did not blame him - everyone has the right to choose their own path in life!

But a peaceful separation is enough, there is no need to smear his character and slander him maliciously. The worst thing is to be arrogant afterwards and speak out some so-called moral high ground to try to prove how correct and reasonable you are.

He Yuzhu found this quite absurd. Could people really be so ruthless and cruel?

Treating someone sincerely means never letting her suffer or work hard, never giving her the slightest pressure, and bearing all the burdens by yourself!

However, his ex-wife had no human feelings for him at all, and the so-called happiness and affection they once had were all illusions!

"You're actually talking to me about love now? This is too naive! You're so poor now, what's the point of talking about love?

Excuse me! Are you a time traveler from ancient times?

Forget it, don’t waste your breath anymore. Just accompany me to go through the divorce procedures tomorrow.

Why do you ask me this? Because you have completely ruined my future possibilities and prospects. Marrying you is simply bad luck!

How dare someone like you get married? That's ridiculous!

Now you not only have nothing but are also heavily in debt. The only property you have is just a small house located in a remote town. You don't even have a decent car. Do you think that this is enough?

We break up! If you don't offer me one million yuan as a condition, don't even think about me giving up. I want you to make up for the years I spent with you. If I had known this earlier, I would never have married you!

Five hundred thousand yuan! This is the bottom line for me. If I remarry in the future, I will have to bear the stigma of remarriage.

Your entire family is really too much, you are completely crazy! You actually want me to change my mind about divorce, you are just dreaming!

Solve it quickly! I don't want to be entangled anymore! I can't tolerate this happening!

Come with me to go through the divorce procedures tomorrow. I don't seek any compensation from you in exchange for my sense of loss of youth. I only have one request, that you need to shoulder your personal responsibility alone, and it has nothing to do with me! "

He was always taciturn, and at the end of the debate he only answered with one word: "Okay!"

This was the result of He Yuzhu’s divorce in his previous life.

Who is right? No one can figure out the exact problem!

What was the reason? Was it because of women's view of the real world? Or was it because I was blinded by my own shortsightedness?

Is the blame on emotional problems? But can emotions really provide a basis for survival?

But people often think that emotions, blood ties, and love, etc.

Is this what the general public values ​​most and what is worth pursuing?

For He Yuzhu, all this made him see through everything and lose confidence.

New-age residents in modern society,

The older generation who lived through the hard times of the old times…

Grandpa and grandma are very filial to their deaf grandma

On the contrary, some people in a prosperous society bully their relatives, even drive the elderly out of their homes.

There are also those elderly people who live alone who are willing to go to court to fight for houses and money, and they cut off their friendship and have no contact with each other until they die...

Qin Huairu takes meticulous care of her mother-in-law and selflessly raises her children in the hope of giving them a better future.

In many modern families, the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law often becomes the focus of discussion. Some say that the mother-in-law abuses the daughter-in-law, while others say that the new daughter-in-law is disobedient and unfilial.

Here she complained that her mother-in-law did not help her with confinement care but instead let her eat fast food and cold leftovers;

She said that she had done everything with all her heart but her daughter-in-law was still picky and refused to eat the food!

Some people are dissatisfied with traditional old ideas and believe that they are superstitions that may mislead people into crisis!

There are also those who think that it was the normal attitude towards life in their time, so why can't they accept it?

No one cares about the children after the divorce!

Even when you find your ideal partner again, you will ignore your children!

When they get married again, they choose to abandon their previous children!

When you can no longer support yourself, you no longer care about your children!

There are too many cases where children are born but not raised!

So this person who works hard for her children, is not afraid of public opinion, and faces great pressure to take care of a difficult mother-in-law is Qin Huairu...

After a lifetime of hard work, Sha Zhu almost lost his family because of her! On the one hand, she took good care of her relatives, but on the other hand, she was very mean to Sha Zhu.

People debate whether a character like Qin Huairu deserves sympathy?

At this time and place, He Yuzhu appeared again, and he faced the widow living in the slum with a completely new way of thinking.

As he stared at Qin Huairu, a thousand thoughts ran through his mind, and he decided to treat her with his sincerity and true heart.

In fact, he is just an ordinary person!

Humans all have emotions and thoughts, which are our noble qualities. Without emotions and thoughts, and without ethics and morals, we are no different from animals.

He Yuzhu is not cold and heartless;

I feel both anger and pity towards others, and I have both good feelings and hidden disgust towards them.

What he needs to consider now is: Should he, He Yuzhu, bear the burden of Qin Huairu's life and protect her from the wind and rain?

At this time, He Yuzhu finally understood why everyone called him "Shazhu" and called the place where he was "the compound full of emotions". He understood why Shazhu let Qin Huairu take advantage of him, and how he could forgive the individual who hurt him. It turned out that although he was a little clumsy, he still had a conscience.

He is honest and kind, and can clearly distinguish right from wrong. He would rather sacrifice himself than help others.

The deaf old lady was right: "In this courtyard, Shazhu is not pitiful; it is really stupid to make fun of Shazhu."

Although he felt regretful, he was too kind-hearted to really mind.

Or he can be praised as a charitable person.

Otherwise, he is a completely stupid person.

This is exactly the kind of fool who doesn't understand the meaning of selfishness or cruelty.