Siheyuan: I am the Smart Pillar

In He Yuzhu's home in the middle courtyard, He Yuzhu slapped the table with an unfriendly look and said, "Third Uncle, it doesn't matter if Yi Zhonghai's father's grave was dug up. I don't want to help him. Haven't you seen during this period of time? Ever since my father left Sijiu City, Yi Zhonghai has wanted to control me. I am a living person, not a puppet. Why can Yi Zhonghai make me do whatever he wants? "

Qin Huairu also sat aside and watched her husband. She also felt that what her husband said was not wrong. She had been married to the courtyard for almost a year, and Yi Zhonghai bullied her husband every day. Qin Huairu felt that what her husband said was right. What right did he have to order her husband around?

Yan Fugui pushed his glasses on his nose, looked at He Yuzhu and said, "Zhuzi, don't get too excited. Listen to what I, the Third Uncle, have to say to you, and then you can decide whether to go or not." He Yuzhu snorted coldly, with a very bad expression on his face. He wanted to hear what this old man Yan could say. Yan Fugui came to his house as a lobbyist, and he must have received money from Yi Zhonghai. This old man Yan was really a bastard. All the advantages he had given him before were really thrown away.

Yan Fugui sighed and said, "I know you don't care about dealing with these people in the courtyard, and you even hate them. But think about it, if you don't get along with these people in the courtyard, you don't care, but what about your wife and your sister in the future? Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. This sentence is not a rigid slogan, but is made up of many examples."

Yan Fugui took a sip of tea, pushed up his glasses, and said earnestly, "I am here as an unexpected guest today. Yes, I believe that with your intelligence, you know that I accepted money from Yi Zhonghai. A large part of the reason why I said so much is because of the money. But part of the reason is that it is really for your own good."

"Being a maverick, okay? I think it's good too. You know what kind of people these people in the courtyard are, and I know it too. But adults also have to compromise a lot. For the sake of your family, you should compromise. If Yi Zhonghai tells this matter to others, the neighbors in the courtyard will think you are very ruthless."

"Over time, they will gradually alienate you. Think about it, you two may be okay. You two go to work every day and just sleep at home at night. But you have to think about Yu Shui and your two unborn children. Children are very sensitive. If they feel excluded by the neighbors, it will cause great psychological harm to them."

These words came from the bottom of Yan Fugui's heart. He had taken advantage of He Yuzhu's family for more than a year. He also felt that He Yuzhu should greet the neighbors in the courtyard and integrate into the courtyard. Even if he didn't want to greet the neighbors and integrate into the courtyard, he had to help with funerals like this.

This is human nature. If you never have any contact with your neighbors, both sides will be hurt in the end. Yan Fugui looked at He Yuzhu, and He Yuzhu looked at his wife and asked, "Huairu, what do you think?" Qin Huairu thought about it carefully and felt that what Yan Fugui said made sense. The grudges of people in the previous life really should not be exposed to children.

Qin Huairu nodded and said, "Why don't you go there tomorrow, don't let Yi Zhonghai catch you. Third uncle is right, our adults are fine. If this matter is really spread out, the neighbors in the courtyard will be really heartbroken. Isolating my husband and me is fine, but can you bear to let Yu Shui be without a playmate?"

He Yuzhu nodded. He really didn't want to go in his heart. But adults need to compromise, and he agreed with that. He nodded helplessly and said to Yan Fuguier, "I agree to it. No matter whether what you said makes sense or not, I agree anyway."

Yan Fugui looked at his child who had grown up, thought for a while and said, "Child, let me speak from the bottom of my heart. You have a very stubborn temper, which is really not good. Sometimes you have to learn to compromise. For the sake of your family, you can't fall out with the neighbors in the courtyard. Just look at Xu Damao's father Xu Lide. Does he dare to say that he will not associate with the people in the courtyard? He doesn't dare. This is a society of human relationships. Think about it carefully."

Yan Fugui patted He Yuzhu's shoulder with a smile, put his hands behind his back and walked away with a smile. Humming some unknown tunes, he felt happy. Yan Fugui left like this, but He Yuzhu felt a little empty in his heart. Although he didn't do things to the extent of "I won't offend others if others don't offend me, but if others offend me, I will definitely offend them." But if you bully me, I will stop associating with you, isn't that what should be done?

But I really didn't think about it, I didn't think about my wife, my sister or my unborn child. These days, it's all about you helping me and I helping you. Yi Zhonghai's father's grave was dug up, this is a very big deal. If I don't help in this matter, if these people in the courtyard know about it, they will probably not associate with their family.

Qin Huairu smiled and patted the back of her man's hand, thought for a while and said, "A distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor. There is no need to offend the neighbor to death. What happened just now must be that Yi Zhonghai instructed Yan Fugui to call you. People have already given you a way out. There is no need to hold on. Have a good rest tonight. Yijiazhuang is far from our Qinjiazhuang. I'll make you a few pancakes tomorrow morning. I'm afraid you won't be able to come back tomorrow night. Tomorrow I will ask the leaders in the factory for leave for you, and explain the matter to them clearly."

He Yuzhu nodded and said, "Yes, yes, we must explain the reason for this matter to him. Fortunately, there is nothing important in the kitchen during this period of time. I believe that Master Yang and others will definitely work step by step." Qin Huairu nodded with a smile, thought for a while and said, "I'll go heat up some hot water and warm your feet later."