Siheyuan: Crossing the two worlds, if you don't obey, you will be a beast

"Looking to the future, you are destined to become a person who can lead hundreds, thousands, or even tens of thousands of employees. Therefore, the qualities you need to possess are courage and perseverance, and you must act decisively and without procrastination. And if you really want to become such a person, the first thing you must do is not let yourself be bound by so-called love."

"On the contrary, you should become someone who can control love. After all, if you can't even handle a mere woman, then when I provide you with a broader development space and opportunities in the future, I really don't believe that you can hand in a satisfactory answer and achieve perfect results."

"I believe that with your intelligence, you should have fully understood what I mean, right? It's just controlling a woman! How difficult is that? You know, we are now in such a vast and mysterious forest! Here, only the strong can survive and stand at the highest point to overlook everything."

"When you become strong enough, will you still worry about not having women throwing themselves at you? Of course not! Besides, the old people often repeat a wise saying: 'A man should marry a virtuous woman.' Because only a virtuous wife can become a gentle and kind mother; and only a wife with good moral character can become the powerful force behind you that unwaveringly supports you to keep moving forward! So, don't be fooled by the woman in front of you, you must look further ahead!"

"If you can't marry a virtuous and kind wife, won't your family be thrown into chaos and unrest after you bring her home? In short, no matter what, I will neither express clear opposition to your love for Su Meng nor give you active support. However, from the bottom of my heart, I sincerely hope that she can become a capable and virtuous wife to you, rather than becoming the one who always causes trouble for you and holds you back."

"In addition, if you really want to test whether her feelings for you are sincere and deep, in my opinion, you now have a relatively stable job and a decent source of income, and you are almost old enough to start a family. So, I suggest that you go home tonight and have a good sleep, and wait until the next morning, go to find Su Meng in high spirits and propose to her in person. If she agrees to you without hesitation, even if she may have some shortcomings or defects, I believe that in the days to come, with your care and help, she will be able to gradually improve and perfect herself."

"Anyway, there is still a long time to go, and as long as you can correct it in time, it won't be a big deal. However, if she always finds various excuses to shirk responsibility, or puts forward some conditions that are completely beyond the normal range and common sense, then I think you have to re-examine the relationship between the two of you. But don't let such a beautiful relationship turn into troubles and pain that you will never be able to get rid of in your whole life because of momentary weakness or impulse!" Li Dongyu said earnestly.

As soon as he finished speaking, he no longer paid attention to the others, but picked up the pot of wine on the table again and took a sip. To be honest, after drinking one more glass, he could taste a different flavor, which made people linger.

At this time, he turned his eyes to Han Chunming who was sitting there motionless, his brows slightly furrowed, his eyes staring into the distance, as if he was immersed in deep thought about what Li Dongyu had just said. Obviously, these words had touched him greatly, and he needed time to slowly digest and understand the deep meaning contained in them.

Seeing this situation, Li Dongyu decided to give the other party some time to allow him to calm down and think seriously about what attitude and method he should adopt to deal with the relationship with Su Meng in the future.

At this moment, Han Chunming was in an extremely difficult situation. He knew very well that his senior brother Li Dongyu would never intentionally harm him. Otherwise, which senior brother would deliberately want to murder someone as ordinary and unremarkable as him?

Turning back to look at Su Meng's situation, just as Senior Brother Li Dongyu said, he had been too attentive and flattering to Su Meng over the years. Even a small action she made inadvertently would be magnified into a crucial event in his eyes.

However, his love for Su Meng was so deep and sincere. This feeling had quietly taken root since they were childhood sweethearts, and it was love at first sight that made his love surge like a tide.

With such an unforgettable love, how could he not be willing to please and protect Su Meng in every possible way? Perhaps to outsiders, his various behaviors seemed a bit humble and "dog-licking", but only he knew in his heart that this kind of dedication came from the uncontrollable affection from the bottom of his heart.

However, what the senior brother said did give him some inspiration. Yes, if he wanted to find out whether Su Meng loved him as deeply as he did, he should try the method that the senior brother just mentioned.

After all, they are both at the age of marriage now. Entering the palace of marriage as soon as possible will not only make this relationship settled, but also completely cut off Cheng Jianjun's malicious covetousness towards Su Meng. Thinking of this, he secretly made up his mind to find the right time as soon as possible and test Su Meng's feelings according to his senior brother's advice.

After a slight sigh of relief, Han Chunming felt that the huge rock that had been weighing on his heart had finally fallen to the ground, and he felt much more relaxed. His eyes, which had been somewhat dull, now became bright and energetic, as dazzling as the twinkling stars in the night sky.

At this moment, a bold and romantic idea gradually took shape in Han Chunming's mind. After careful consideration, he secretly made up his mind: to propose to his beloved Su Meng tomorrow! Once this idea came into being, it spread quickly like a prairie fire, occupying his entire mind.

Han Chunming smiled and looked at his senior brother Li Dongyu who was sitting opposite him with gratitude. Then he raised the wine glass in his hand without hesitation and toasted in the direction of Li Dongyu respectfully, saying loudly: "Senior brother, thank you so much for your patience and guidance! If you hadn't pointed me out, I would still be lost in this maze of emotions. Now I have completely figured it out and have an idea in my mind. Come, I'll toast you a glass and wish you all the best! Also, I'm going to propose to Su Meng tomorrow!"

Hearing this, Li Dongyu was stunned at first, and then he smiled with relief.