Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

"How can I not worry? But I am worried about my daughter. Does that mean I won't let her get married?

Or does it mean that my daughter must find a son-in-law who marries into the family?

Is this son-in-law who marries into the family necessarily a good person? I don’t think so, do I? "

Besides, our daughter is excellent in every aspect, so there is no need to force a man to marry into the family. Our family has no shortage of sons, so why bother?

As for the Zhao family, we have no way of knowing what they are really like.

But in the past few years, we have also gotten to know them better. After all, they are a local family and it would be okay for our daughter to marry into their family.

At least Zhao Jun is not the eldest son, nor the oldest son. When it comes to taking care of our parents in their old age, with his elder brother leading the way, our daughter can at least have it a little easier.

Also, my daughter is the one with the highest education in her family, except for Zhao Jun, and she has a good job. If the Zhao family wants to meet, they won't do that? What do you think?"

"That's true, but the three brothers of the Zhao family always have a bad relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, and the sisters-in-law. I'm afraid my daughter can't handle this relationship well."

"Not only are you worried, I am worried too, but my daughter has chosen Zhao Jun, so there is no other way!"

"It's a pity that Zhao Jun is not the only son. How great would it be if he was the only son?"

"It doesn't matter to me whether he is the only son or not, as long as he treats our daughter well, that's better than anything else.

If he treats our daughter badly, even if he is the only son, what does it matter? Don’t you think so? "

"Really? Should we also prepare things for our daughter's wedding?"

“Let’s go together!

We don't know exactly when they plan to get married, so we should prepare slowly in advance to avoid rushing back and what if something goes wrong? What do you think?"

"Yeah, then let's go together, and save ourselves the trouble of traveling back and forth."

"That's true, but I'm afraid the money at home may not be enough?"

"Don't worry about this, didn't you just say that they haven't decided when to get married?

Since it has not been decided yet, it means there is still time.

We don’t lack anything at home right now. We only need some money to buy food and eat. The rest is saved. If it’s still not enough, we can go to the bank to exchange it for gold. We can’t save money or other things for the children’s wedding. ”

"Yes, fortunately we still have some assets, otherwise we really don't know what to do."

"What's so difficult about this?

It's nothing more than a matter of how much money you have. More money means a bigger scene, less money means a bigger scene."

"That's true. Fortunately, we don't have many relatives and friends. If we were like those wealthy families, we would have to spend a lot of money just on entertaining them."

"That can't be helped, but fortunately even if I have to treat everyone to a meal, I can always get my money back. After all, you have to pay your dues when you interact with others."

"That's not necessarily true. Before, especially in the past few years, young people's marriages were different from now. Even if someone gave a gift, how much could they give?

Now the times are changing, people are different, and with the rising prices, I am really worried that the money I collect may not be enough to pay for dinner."

"Yes, how come you forgot about the price?

So, we don’t have many relatives and friends, so even if there are few people coming to dinner, even if the prices are high, it won’t cost much!”

"That's right. But then again, there are only three children in our family. The eldest is already married, and now the second and third are still unmarried. Even if they need to spend more money to get married, how much more can it be?

It's not like we can't afford it, so there's no need to worry about it.

Unlike families with many children, they would worry about their children’s marriages.”

"That's right, but not entirely. When it comes to marriage, it's just that rich people do it better, while poor people do it so-so. It's impossible to pretend to be rich in this matter. If you really do that, wouldn't that be a waste of time and effort?"

"Don't disbelieve it, there are still people like him."

"how?

From what you said, which family has done this kind of thing during a wedding?"

"You know what, I actually heard about it, and this person is none other than a colleague from our unit."

"is it?"

"That's right, I tell you..."

"Okay, tell me slowly. I want to listen carefully. Who is so concerned about face?"

"Okay!"

Just like that, from talking about their own children getting married, they turned to talking about other people's children getting married. Don't say that men don't like to hear gossip. In fact, this may not be true.

Fortunately, I had nothing to do late at night, so I just told it as a joke.

As for my children's marriage, I will go to department stores to look at wedding supplies or visit other people's stores when I have nothing to do in the next period of time.

If you find something suitable, write it down and talk to your children about it when you get home. Or if your children really don’t have time, help them buy it and take it home.

Then there is the issue of related customs, which should be inquired about by the child's father.

Anyway, the children will not be embarrassed on their wedding day, and other things are added little by little. Until the children get married, I can finally finish the work at hand.

Not long after I started working, I heard a colleague ask me this.

"How is it, Sister Wang, is there any difference between marrying a daughter-in-law for the second time and the first time?"

"Don't say anything. I don't know how others feel. I just know one word: 'tired'. Really tired!"

"Is that certain?

But it’s still happier than marrying off a daughter!”

"You don't even need to say that. This girl is marrying into another family. Even if the girl's in-laws are high-ranking, they will still worry about whether she is living well in her in-laws' family.

As for marrying a daughter-in-law, only the daughter-in-law worries about whether she will be welcomed by her in-laws. How can the mother-in-law worry about whether she will be liked by her daughter-in-law?

Aren’t daughters-in-law always worried about whether they will be liked by their in-laws?

Didn't you worry about this problem when you got married? "

"Don't say it, it's really like this."

"That's right. Fortunately, we have come through these years. It's not like when we first got married."

"Who says it's not?

Sister Wang, now that you are a mother-in-law, will you let your daughter-in-law get up early in the morning to make breakfast for the whole family?"

"Do you even need to ask?

Of course you have to?

How can a daughter-in-law marry into a family and still let her mother-in-law serve her master?"

"You know what, I really didn't make such an arrangement. As you all know, my eldest brother was in the army when he got married. His wife was not around, so this matter was not arranged.

After the second son got married, our family didn't have any strict requirements. After all, the eldest son's wife didn't have to do it, so why should the second son's wife have to do it?