Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

"That's right. After all, the three of us are college graduates. My eldest brother has a proper job and is in the army. For a man like my eldest brother, it's impossible for him to find a partner for anything he wants.

As for my sister and I, you and my dad don’t have to worry. The reason we are not in a hurry now is because we are all in school, right?

If we are to join the workforce and enter society, if you are not anxious, then we should be anxious, too, right? "

"How is it possible that you are so anxious?

Stop trying to fool us with nice words. Do you really think we don't know you, your son?

In other words, even though you are saying these nice words now, you still don’t know what you are thinking in your heart? "

"No, Mom, I already have a goal. You know that, and I'm not just talking about it. How can it be considered as an excuse to evade you?"

"It's true that you have a goal, but are you sure about that goal?"

"No, brother, why are you like this?"

"How am I doing?

Am I wrong? "

"no……"

"It's not what it is?

Big brother is absolutely right!"

"Second sister, let's not hurt each other here. It's meaningless to say that. After all, that Zhao Jun is really there."

"You, I don't bother with you."

"Look, I told you not to make trouble for yourself, but you still didn't believe me."

"If you keep talking, believe it or not, I'll beat you up?"

"Xin, although you may not be able to beat me, as my younger brother and a man of integrity, I have to give in to you.

Otherwise, it won’t be as simple as just being beaten by you, I’m afraid I’ll be beaten by a group of people.”

"It's good to know."

"That's right. I'm the most practical one."

It is indeed very practical. Whenever there is a conflict among the three of them, the eldest and the third boy will give in to the second.

Fortunately, the second daughter is not overbearing. Otherwise, having a overbearing daughter would be more than just a worry.

As for the feelings between the three of them, now that they have figured it out and understood it, there is no need to rush.

To be honest, there's no point in being anxious. In the eldest brother's case, no matter how anxious you are, you will never agree to him being with Susan.

As for the second and third children, they both have their own situations and are both in school, so it is impossible to push them to get married right away.

I just hope they can settle down quickly and stop just talking about it for fun. One reason is that I don't want them to do that, and the other is that I'm afraid they'll suffer losses.

Don’t say that only girls suffer in relationships, boys do the same.

Just don't urge them, they really are not in a hurry.

In the blink of an eye, it was 87. In the past two years, the second and third children have also graduated. No one knows what these two children think.

They all unexpectedly chose to stay in school to teach, and not only supervise students but also continue their studies.

In fact, it is not difficult to understand if you think about it carefully. Children in our family are not short of money. Since they are not short of money, why don’t they choose an easy job?

It’s true, being a teacher in a university is a good choice. Although the salary is not high, there are many holidays!

This job is quite enviable. My colleagues around me ask me about it whenever they have the chance.

"Sister Wang, do the two children in your family have a partner?"

"Yes?

With such good conditions, and being a university teacher with a high degree, why haven't you married yet?"

“I would like them to get married, but they all say there’s no rush, so what else can I do?

You can't force them to get married by forcing them to do so, right?"

"You can't stay single forever, right?"

"That's right, even if you're not in a hurry to get married, can't you still date first?

Or do they have a partner and didn't tell you?"

"To be honest, I'm not too sure about this!"

"No, how could you, as a mother, not know?"

"That's right, don't you care about your own children at all?"

"How could I not care? That's my own child, how could I not care?

We only talked about this topic two years ago, but they all had their own situations at that time, so we didn't ask again.

What's more, they were still in school at that time and had not yet started working, so it was useless no matter how anxious we were.

As for now, they have only been working for less than two years. Even if they want to get married, they still have to consider the issue of housing. Otherwise, where will they live after they get married?"

"That's right. If we wait for the company to distribute housing now, who knows when that will take?

But then again, your family shouldn't be worried about housing, right?"

"Don't worry, but you all know that children nowadays will not be so honest to listen to our advice on personal issues and whether they are willing to live with us after marriage."

"Yes, our old son is like this. The more you push him, the more he goes against you.

Whenever I mention marriage to him, he immediately turns around and leaves.

Every time I bring up this topic, I almost get mad at him.”

"The one we have at home is almost like this!"

"It's the same in our family. It's getting harder and harder to understand young people today."

"Who says it's not?

By the way, Sister Wang, your eldest son got married last year, is it this year?"

"What is it?

As parents, we don't interfere in their affairs. As for when to have children, it's up to them to decide."

"No, are you really not in a hurry, or are you joking with us here?"

“Am I the kind of person who jokes?

The eldest daughter-in-law in our family has her parents around her, so even if I urge them to have children, I, as their mother-in-law, probably don't need to intervene.

As for who will take care of the children in the future, do you think we need to worry about it?"

"No, don't the other members of your boss's Yue family have any objections?"

"There's nothing we can do about it. His Yue family also has several children, but after all, they only have one daughter. It's the same as our family, with only one daughter. So we should favor the daughter, right?

Even if not, if the young couple needs my help in taking care of the children, I will not refuse.

But in the end, it all depends on how the couple arranges it."

"Yes, we can't be like the older generation and meddle in everything.

Not only will you not be able to do it well, but you may also be blamed for it.”

"That makes sense."

"What are you thinking about?

They are young and just got married, how can they understand everything? It is better to have elders around.

Not only does he save money but also makes his life a mess.”

"That's true, but everyone has their own ideas about this kind of thing, and it won't be good if we interfere too much."