Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

"Who said it wasn't? It's not good for a young couple to be separated after getting married."

"How can I put it? I can only say that there is no such thing as perfect in the world.

After all, we can't wait until your eldest son meets the requirements to join the army before getting married, right?"

"That's not the case. What I mean is that as a mother, I don't have any big requirements on what kind of partner our eldest son looks for.

At least you have to have a decent job, otherwise the couple will be unequal and there will always be conflicts over time.

After the woman gets a job, can't she continue to work even when she is able to join the army?

There is no need to stay at home to take care of men and children."

"Yes, then are there any other requirements?"

“As for other requirements, our family doesn’t have any, except that our eldest son took the college entrance examination last year.

He did well in the exam and is currently studying at a military school. Since he is a college student, his significant other must also be a college student."

"what?

Is your eldest son also a college student?"

"That's right?

Any questions? "

“No, no, I just didn’t expect you two to be so powerful?

Three universities were created at once!"

"What's this?

The children are responsible for their studies themselves. Their father and I only take care of the logistics. We can’t help you much with other matters.”

“Isn’t it enough to take care of the logistics?

You know, in our current conditions, it’s not easy to eat stewed meat happily.”

"That's absolutely true. Fortunately, our children have worked hard and have been admitted to university. We don't have to worry about their future anymore."

"Yes, your eldest son is a college student. Does that mean your future daughter-in-law must be a college student?"

"How do you say that?

I can’t say it so absolutely. It mainly depends on what my son thinks.

What else can I do if he falls in love with an uneducated lesbian?

If the lesbian he likes is more educated than him, I will definitely not object.

Anyway, they will live with their couple in the future, not with me as their mother, so they don’t have to follow my opinion if I have any.”

"this?

What about the second and third children in your family?"

"The second and third children are still young, so their priority at this stage is to study. It won't be too late to talk about marriage after they graduate from college.

What's wrong? Why are we suddenly talking about our children's personal problems?"

"Hi!

I think your child is good in all aspects and you two are very honest people, so I want to ask if your child has solved his personal problems?

If not, maybe I have the right person here, but I didn't expect that your family has three college students, and you are not in a hurry now."

"We are indeed not in a hurry. Let's not talk about the situation of the two younger ones. Let's just talk about our eldest son. No matter how anxious my wife and I are, it's useless if the children are not at home.

It is his life to live, and he has the final say on what kind of wife he will find and what kind of life he will live in the future.

As for what kind of partner he wants to find, it is entirely up to him. My husband and I will not interfere in this matter.

It's really a big deal to have a mother-in-law as sensible as you. I don't know which girl will have such a good mother-in-law in the future."

"No, no. Please don't say that. The reason I can have this idea is entirely because I don't have a mother-in-law above me and have never been suppressed by her.

As for other families, I have seen a lot of relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When I think about their lives, they are not as easy as mine without a mother-in-law.

Another thing is that we have sons, so there is no need to wait until he gets married to act like a mother-in-law and show off our power. There is no need to do that at all. "

"Yeah, what about your daughter?

Even though my daughter is still young, she will get married in the future, right? "

“How do I put this matter?

I would like to say more, but our child hasn't figured it out yet, and it would be like talking to a cow if I said so to her.

Let's wait until she understands it!

Now when I tell her about this, she doesn’t even bother to answer me.”

"what?

Isn’t it said that girls become smart early?

How come your daughter is already sixteen or seventeen years old, but she still hasn't figured it out?"

"Who knows this?

Our daughter has been playing with boys since she was little, and never with girls, otherwise she would have become smart a long time ago."

"Yes, so it seems that you don't need to worry about your children's marriage in the next one or two years!"

"It's hard to say. You never know when you'll have to worry about this."

"Too."

I don’t know if it was true or not, but I just know that within two days after I started chatting with the other person, the person who had that idea around me disappeared in an instant.

Even if we meet on the road, the other party will not bring up this topic again.

It seems that they really have this idea. Well, if there is something, why don’t they just ask me directly? It would be too much trouble for me to guess.

Don’t you have high expectations for your children to find a partner? It’s just that we just moved here not long ago and we haven’t met everyone yet?

How could you agree to meet someone so casually? Even if the girl or the boy is good, you still have to inquire about them carefully. It's not too late to say anything after you have found out everything.

It is impossible to listen to other people's one-sided words. , without asking the children whether they are willing or not, just arrange for them to watch.

Another thing is that all of my children are currently in school. Except for the eldest who served in the army for a few years, the other two children don’t even have an income, so how can they support the other half?

Even though the eldest brother received a monthly allowance as a soldier, it was only a few dollars a month, which was not enough for him to spend.

He's still planning to date someone, so what? Do you want your parents to help support him?

What are you thinking?

It's fine to want to date, and your parents don't object, but at least you have to be able to support the other person.

If you can’t even support yourself, forget about dating.

If the other party doesn't care whether the man can support her, and she has the ability to support the man, although she doesn't object to this, she is afraid that her own children will not agree.

As for my daughter, she has her own hands and feet.

If someone agrees, we can only say that the other person is a gigolo.

Another question is why does she need someone else to raise her? For a little girl who is only sixteen or seventeen years old, it would be considered premature love if she were to fall in love now, and it would not be allowed in the Guo family.

If you want to fall in love, you have to be at least an adult. Otherwise, once discovered, the consequences will be very serious. Don't think that this is just a scare tactic. If you don't believe it, you can try it.