Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

Didn’t you see that, on the eve of the holiday, when the teacher was giving prizes to students who performed well in the class, those students who came from poor families and did not study well sitting below all regretted not studying well.

After all, whether you buy a notebook, a pencil or a pen, you need money.

What’s more, the prizes awarded by the school are not only free, but it is also a kind of honor to talk about them.

Many classmates were saying that if only they had stopped playing around all the time and worked harder, they might have won prizes.

After hearing them say this, I was thinking, how can one know anything in advance?

There is no medicine for regret. Even if those people are reflecting on themselves now, when school starts again, they will still play when they should be playing. They will never change.

Even if someone changes, I'm afraid they may not be able to stick with it, because all the students around him are the same."

"Yes, then what about the classmates around you?"

“My classmates around me may not perform as well as I do, but they are not like those people who ignore their studies and only care about playing.

Fortunately, I have completed the homework assigned by the teacher in time. As for the rest, I am not sure. After all, we don’t live together, so how can I know what they are like in private? "

"That's true. Since you know it clearly, you should prioritize. At your age, you should focus on studying, okay?"

"I know, mom, don't worry!"

"Okay, don't worry, Mom, as for Lu Xuanwei, just let her do what she wants!

Her affairs have nothing to do with us.”

“I know mom, I don’t care about her?

But it doesn’t stop me from watching her having fun.”

"You?

I really don’t know what to say to you.”

"hey-hey!

But then again, this Lu Xuanwei, I'm afraid she is not willing to accept the reality at this time?"

"You have to accept it sooner or later. The reality is there, and it is impossible not to accept it.

Does she think she can cover up everything by not accepting it?

What are you thinking about? "

"Yes, considering her temper, I'm afraid she will suffer in the future."

"It's only a matter of time before you suffer a loss."

"Yeah, who cares about her?

She is not related to me?

There are differences even between friends, not to mention that she and I are not even friends.

If we had a good relationship, I might have given her a few reminders, but our relationship has never been good. If I said something like this to her out of the blue, she would think I was laughing at her.

I think it's better to forget it. I don't want to cause trouble for myself!"

"That's right. If you don't want to get involved, then don't say anything. Judging from her personality, if you say anything, she will probably resent you if she can't solve any problems in the future.

Besides, your relationship has not been good in the past. If you tell her too much, she may not believe it. She might even think that you don’t wish her well.

It would be better to say nothing at the beginning and keep a certain distance, just like you two are now. At least no matter what happens to the other person, they won't put the blame on you."

"It's true. If someone like Lu Xuanwei really encounters something, he will never look for the reason in himself. I think it's better to forget it!

For my own good, I'd better not be friends with her, so as to avoid having to accommodate her for the sake of friendship later."

“In fact, whether we are friends or classmates, or even if your father and I are husband and wife, it is impossible for one party to always accommodate the other. Instead, we can go a long way only if we understand, support and accommodate each other.

If only one party is there to give, any relationship won’t last long, you know?”

"I know, Mom."

“Besides that, for kids your age, nothing is more important than studying.

Even if we are just friends, we can learn from each other. As long as we make progress together, our relationship will get better and better.”

"That's right. Even though Lu Xuanwei is a good student, her mind is never on studying. She still prefers to play with people she is familiar with."

"That is, you will learn to do the kind of things that you hang out with.

Just like the educated youth who came to our team, if you look at the first batch of them, how many of them were down-to-earth and hard-working?

If you look at the new batch of educated youth, it is impossible that there are not a single honest person among them. However, the environment they live in is like this, and it would be difficult to expect them to remain the same. "

"Yes, will they really starve to death if they don't work hard?"

"How could that be? Don't forget that we still have food rations. Even though the food rations are not much, they can at least sustain human life.

As for the rest, they have to rely on themselves. For example, if they want to eat better and be fuller, doesn’t that mean they have to rely on themselves?

Look at our Huangzhuang Brigade. Logically, even though we don't have much land, each person gets a limited amount of food. But don't forget that we have the mountains behind us, and it's not easy to starve people to death.

But you have to rely on yourself. If you rely on others, you will starve to death."

"Just like when we first came to Huangzhuang Brigade, we had to work hard to have food. Only by working hard can we live a good life, right?"

"That's right, just like before, even if they don't have the ability to hunt in the mountains like your father, they can still go into the mountains to pick some mountain products. It can be said that as long as there is something edible, people will never starve to death.

If anyone among them was a little braver, instead of going into the mountains, they could at least walk around the outskirts and maybe they could actually hunt prey.

If you are lucky, you can hunt more prey. Not only do you not have to pay for the meat, but you can also mail some leftovers to your family.

If you have none of these and don't even dare to do the most basic thing of going into the mountains to pick up products, then you can only rely on the food in the fields, and your life will only get worse and worse.

You have to know that once the gap is revealed, if you want to surpass others, you can’t just double the effort, but you need many times more effort.”

“Isn’t this just like when we study? Once we fall behind, if we want to surpass others, we have to work harder than them, otherwise we will always lag behind!

Once you fall behind, it will be very difficult to surpass others.”

"That's right. This is not only the gap between people, but also the gap between urban and rural areas, and also the gap between countries."

“That’s why those who fall behind get beaten.”

"Isn't that right?

In fact, when others envy us, we also envy them in the same way. "

“I understand that others envy us, just like when our family bought a bicycle, everyone envied us.