Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

"Yes!"

"Also, my girl, I've told you that we girls can be weak, but we can't cry easily.

Just take the case of Liu Zhiqing. Although the male comrades all sympathize with her, for the female comrades, she is simply a white lotus. "

"Mom, what is a white lotus?"

"White Lotus is someone who likes to pretend to be weak, innocent, wronged, pitiful, and cowardly; she is good at getting along with the opposite sex!

But she doesn't really like the same sex, and always acts like they are bullying her!

Or maybe they clearly don’t like the other person, but don’t show it or actively reject them, and secretly compare them with other people, hoping to meet a better person of the opposite sex!

In fact, the definition of white lotus is very broad, but in my mother's opinion, these two points are the most important.

My daughter, you have to know that people can be kind, but they must be sincere. If your kindness is disguised, I would rather not have it. "

“Like Lu Kunming’s mother?

Is it okay even if she always has that expression?"

“Although her expression may be disliked by most people, she is sincere and not the kind of person who says one thing on the surface and another behind the scenes.

If they are unhappy, it is all on their face. Even if they have evil intentions, they are not that bad. "

"That's true. I've never heard of her gossiping behind others' backs, but the grandmothers, aunties, and aunts in the team have done that a lot.

But they are different from Liu Zhiqing, aren’t they? "

“Yes, they are different. Everyone is an independent individual. How can everyone be the same?

Although the women in the team like to talk a lot, one thing is certain: in this difficult environment, they do not rely on others, but on themselves to support themselves and their children.

Look at Liu Zhiqing again. She is also a female comrade, but she is very different from the other female comrades in the team.

Even if she is from the city and she is not used to living in the countryside at first, it will take some time for her to adjust.

You have to know, it has been such a long time since she came to our Huangzhuang Brigade, but she hasn't changed at all.

Whether it's food, clothing, or manners, they're all the same as in the city. Do you think she's going to change?"

"That's true. Why did Liu Zhiqing do this?

Is it just to avoid having to work?

But even so, do I have to rely on men all my life?"

"Not necessarily all of them. It's also possible that she feels that she won't be able to stay in the Huangzhuang Brigade for long. Otherwise, how dare she keep taking advantage of the people in the team?

You have to know that even if her purpose is not pointed out today, over time, everyone is not a fool. Those who help her will sooner or later know what kind of person she is, and may take other actions.

If she hasn't left Huangzhuang Brigade by then, what do you think will happen to her?"

"Now that it has come to this, she can only choose one person among those who helped her to marry, otherwise her reputation will be ruined.

What if she could leave?"

"If we can leave, then we can only say that those people in the team who helped him or her were all wishful thinking, just like your Aunt Huang's brother, who helped Liu Zhiqing willingly!

It wasn't Liu Zhiqing who forced him to do it. Even if he was forced to do it, he could choose to refuse. But he never intended to refuse from the beginning. So Liu Zhiqing pretended not to know and kept using him. "

"Can this still happen?"

“That’s why you are still young. Now is the time to observe the world. No matter whether it is people or things, you can’t just look at the surface. You have to look deeper and think deeply.

At the same time, you must know that you must be sincere, but you must also be flexible.

We can't deceive others, but we can't let others deceive us, understand?"

"I understand. Even though sometimes what you see isn't necessarily true, right?"

"Yes, when making any decision, you have to consider all aspects before making the decision."

"I understand, but I'm still a child and I can't do this at all. What should I do?"

"It doesn't matter if you can't do it. It's because you are young that you can learn slowly. People like mom and dad at this age can't do that. They have to think carefully before doing anything.

After all, once the wrong decision is made, it is not just one person who will be affected.

Don't forget that once you get married and start a family, the things you have to consider are no longer trivial matters.

You just need to study now, and as you grow older, you will gradually develop habits and won’t have to worry about anything else. ”

"What will happen to Liu Zhiqing?

If everyone says this to her, will she be upset? "

"Others might do the same thing if they were in this situation, but even if someone like her were to do the same thing, she would probably have to consider what's best for her!"

"what?

Do you have to calculate even this kind of thing?"

"Who knows this?

We are not the worms in her stomach."

"That's right, it has nothing to do with us, we can't stop her from doing anything she wants!"

"Isn't that right?"

When everyone here saw Liu Zhiqing running away, no one cared, except for a few young men who wanted to chase him and comfort him, but unfortunately his family did not agree.

Didn’t I hear their families say this?

“Where to go?

Hurry up and go back to work?

Don't you know what time it is?

If you dare to be lazy in front of me, I won’t care whether you are old enough to get married or not, I will still beat you up, believe it or not?

Did you hear me?

what? "

"Okay, everyone's watching?

Just say less!

Doesn't my eldest grandson have any dignity?"

"Would he do such a shameful thing if he wanted to save face?"

"That's true, but it's not his fault. It's all because of that educated youth. If it weren't for her, would my grandson be like this?"

“How can he have the nerve to blame others?

I'm afraid you are still blaming yourself for not being capable enough?

Seeing my beloved crying there!"

"Ugh!

No, I have to find a wife for my grandson quickly, otherwise he will be obsessed with this matter."

"Yeah, once this person gets married and has kids, that's it."

And here I heard another family say.

“Where to go?

Isn't our assigned task over there?

Don't tell me, I need to find a place to relieve myself, and it's not convenient to relieve myself in this cornfield, so hurry up and get back to work!"

"Oh!

What am I not planning to do?

I really just want to find a place to solve it.”

"Do you think I believe it?"

"No, I really don't mean anything else, mother, please listen to me..."

"I'm too lazy to listen to your nagging, hurry up and get to work. If you can't finish today's work, don't even think about eating, just starve!