Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

"If you ask me, it's all the fault of that girl in their family. She chose a newly arrived educated youth, a weak and frail male one at that, when there were so many people she could choose from.

As long as you like someone with good health, it’s fine?

Her boyfriend is obviously sick and doesn't need to worry about dying. Why can't she understand this?"

“Who knows this?

But since our team started building reservoirs and digging ditches, haven’t we discovered the true colors of some people?

Now that we have discovered it, there will always be a way to deal with it no matter what happens, right?

It's better than not finding anything at that time and catching them off guard."

"That's true. Otherwise, if we end up like that family, it will be too late for us to regret it."

"That's right. I've told all the kids at home that if anyone insists on marrying an educated youth, or refuses to marry anyone but an educated youth, he'll be kicked out of the house.

I have raised them for so many years, without asking for anything. What can they give me in return?

But don't make me unhappy. If anyone dares to make me unhappy?

I told him to get out of my house. I don't believe they dare to set up their own business. If they really dare, I will look up to them. "

"That's you. If it was someone else, who knows how much trouble they would cause later."

"Who says it's not?

There are many people in the family, and after the son gets married, there will definitely be friction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, as well as between sisters-in-law.

As mothers-in-law, we don’t take these minor quarrels seriously.

But if I marry someone who doesn't work and only cares about eating, wouldn't that be asking for trouble?

Just thinking about it makes me feel troubled!"

"Isn't that just asking for trouble?

It's not that I look down on these educated youth, but they are really not as good as our country girls.

As for managing the household, do we need girls from the countryside to be good at it? They are more or less not good at it, right? "

“What’s the difference between more and less?

Let me tell you, judging from the way they spend their money lavishly, aren't they the kind of people that anyone can afford to support?

But then again, if the child insists on marrying her, or him, can we as parents really change our child's mind?"

"this?"

"Don't even mention disagreeing. That's just your own opinion. The most important thing is to ask the child. Don't let the parents and the child become enemies in the end?

Wouldn't it be a joke if I turned around? "

"That's true. If he insists on marrying anyone but an educated youth, we as parents may not be able to defeat the child.

Just like that family, didn’t they finally agree to let their daughter find an educated youth as her son-in-law?

And they found a sick person. Don't we have no choice but to accept it in the future?

You can't just say you don't recognize your son and then not recognize your son, or just say you don't recognize your daughter and then not recognize her, right?"

"this!

How can it not work?"

"You can do it, but that only shows that you are hard-hearted. Others may not be like that?"

"That is, how many people can be like you?"

"is not that right?

If it were me, I would really be reluctant to part with my daughter and son."

"No one wants to give it up. Isn't it because they don't know what's good for them?"

"Alas! No matter what, these children are all debtors to their parents."

"Who says it's not?

But no matter what, we still have to talk to the children, at least let them know what the consequences will be if they do this."

"That's true. Although it's good to marry a beautiful wife, let's be honest, this beauty can't really be used to make a living, right?"

"Isn't that right?

If this could be used to make a living, then people like Mr. Guo's wife and the wife of the Lu family wouldn't have to go to the fields to earn work points, right?

But what about reality?

Aren't they the same as us, either working in the fields all day long, or staying at home working all the time? Who is idle at home?

On the other hand, the work points these educated youth earned, to be honest, were not as much as those earned by the half-grown children in the team.

With their current situation, let alone supporting others, I'm afraid they may not even be able to support themselves?

If we marry someone like this into our family, what do we, as the mother-in-law, have to say?

Aren't the other daughters-in-law in the family going to make a scene? "

"Otherwise why would I have told them to leave the house when I first arrived?

Isn't it because you think that if you have a daughter-in-law like this, sooner or later the family will break up?"

"Don't say it, is this really possible?

If you marry someone who is diligent, then there is nothing to complain about. But if you marry someone who is lazy and troublesome, then won’t the family become a mess? "

"Ugh!

After all, children are a debt to their parents! "

"Isn't that right?

Now it seems that I have to go back and wind up my child. I can’t marry a lazy person to my home!”

"Yes, I have to talk to them properly. Otherwise, if I really marry a wife like this, I'm afraid they will be so mad at me that I die!"

"No, no!"

"That's right. If you are really angry, then the worst that can happen is that we split up the family in advance?"

"That's right!

Separate them all out of the way, we can turn a blind eye to them, and we don’t believe they can still jump around in front of us.”

"this?"

"It's okay if you don't want to divide it, as long as you can win when you challenge your daughter-in-law to a duel!"

"What's even more difficult is that even if we win, I'm afraid our son may not agree with us."

"Dare he?"

"Why not? Now that my son is married, he must take care of his own family first, right?

Didn't you have this thought when you married your old man? "

"this?"

"Look!

You hesitated, let alone your own son?

Others don't understand your son, but can't you repay your son yourself?"

"that is!

Ugh!

No matter who this son marries, it won't take long for his heart to be crooked?

We, as parents, may have to take a back seat in the minds of our children!"

"is not that right?

Anyway, when we are old, it will be good if they can remember to give us food, but we can't expect anything else."

“Count on them?

I'm afraid it's difficult, right? "

"It's not that difficult. As long as it can provide for our old age, I won't ask for anything else."

"That's true, but it's not a good thing for our son or for us to not be able to marry the wife we ​​like."

"Who says it's not?

But no matter what, when it comes to our children’s marriage, I’m afraid that no matter what we say, it will be useless.”

"Ugh!

How sad? "

"Isn't it just worry?"

It's just like that no matter how much you worry, how can parents be more flexible than their children?

Fortunately, most of the young people in the team listened to their parents' advice and did not have much contact with the educated youth in the Youth League Home.