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What they will take care of is that before the children do anything, at least they have to complete the tasks assigned to them. Otherwise, they may not just be scolded for not completing the tasks. "

"Don't say it, is it really possible?"

"this?

No way?"

"Of course not, you don't think that we are the only family that, after someone does something wrong, first asks the reason and then decides the severity of the punishment based on the severity of the matter?

Or are the parents of every child the same as us, and there is still room for negotiation on issues concerning you?"

"I don't know, but there must be a reason why our parents beat us!"

"That's true. In this rural area, not only are there tasks assigned by the team, but even parents at home will assign tasks to their children. If they don't complete the task, they will often be beaten or scolded."

"So that's it."

"In fact, it's not just that. Some parents and elders may not hit people directly, but they will definitely be scolded, and they may even go hungry for a few meals."

"what?"

"this?

Isn’t it too miserable?

Not giving me food?"

"What's this?

After we arrived in the countryside, many children in the team, especially girls, were not given food because of trivial matters. Isn’t that the most common thing? "

“That can’t be the case?

And why a girl? Are boys treated better than girls? "

"I don't know about preferential treatment, but I know that the adults in the team basically favor boys over girls."

"Yes, fortunately I was not born in such a family, otherwise I don't know how miserable my life would be."

"It's good to know, otherwise there will be so many girls on the team who envy you."

"I'm envious, but isn't there someone who approached me specifically because of this? Don't think I'm young and I don't know."

"It seems you are not stupid!"

"I'm not stupid."

"Okay, since you all know, then remember it in your heart. Don't tell others about what we said at home today. Otherwise, if others know about it, it will cause unnecessary trouble."

"Got it, Dad. We definitely won't tell anyone about it."

"That's right. We are not the kind of people who talk too much. If something happens, we want everyone to know about it."

"That is, with that time, why not do something else?"

"It's good to know, but I'm afraid you don't know the seriousness of the matter?"

"How can this be?"

"Of course, we're not stupid!"

"That's right, we won't do anything that's bad for ourselves."

"Yes!"

Regarding the issue of fellow villagers in the team favoring boys over girls, is there really no need to say anything more?

What people didn't expect was that there were so many children in the team. After Grandma Huang San was arrested, they bullied their children there. This may seem like no big deal, but in the final analysis, it is still related to parents' education of their children.

But then again, adults never take the fighting between children seriously, and I think many people haven't noticed this either.

There is one thing that the adults seem to care about more than anyone else, and that is that they seem to be very dissatisfied when children fail to complete their assigned tasks.

Just like what my husband said, scolding a child is the least of it. Some people may not even scold the child, but would just beat the child directly.

Before my children could even tell them about this, on my way home from work, I heard many fellow villagers educating their own children.

"You bastard, where is the pig grass I asked you to cut?

Where did you cut it off for me?

what?

Didn’t you know that you can earn work points by cutting grass for pigs?

Or, now that school is suspended and I'm busy, I have no time to take care of you, so you can do whatever you want!

what?

Tell me, what have you done?

If you don't tell me the truth today, I'll beat you up."

Then they heard the family next door also loudly scolding their child.

"What have you been doing lately, you little bitch?

Why did we only dig up so few wild vegetables? Who will eat them?

I don’t even know what you do for a living?

You really are a money-loser. You still want to eat even in this state? I think you'd better let your wife starve!

You are so lazy, yet you still want to compete with my grandson? You are a big-headed ghost!"

Hearing these words, you can tell at a glance that this family values ​​boys more, and as for girls, as long as they don't starve to death, it's fine.

In fact, there are many people like this in the team. If we want to change this situation, we have to solve it from the most fundamental level, but this solution will not be achieved in one or two days.

Even after a few decades, there are still many parents who favor sons over daughters, whether in rural areas or cities.

It is not easy to change. This kind of thinking is too deeply rooted and can only be changed little by little.

Speaking of which, recently many children have been delayed in completing their tasks, and every time I walk to the door of a house, I can hear voices coming from inside.

"Tell me, what have you guys been doing these days?

Not only did you not earn much from collecting grass for the pigs, but you also messed up the housework. Do you still want to eat? If you don't tell me the reason, none of you will eat today.

If anyone dares not tell the truth, don't blame me for beating you with my shoe soles.

If you don't fight for three days, he will start to tear down the roof.

You really think I have a good temper, I'll let you see what I can do today, otherwise you'll be furious?"

"Stop hitting me, stop hitting me. As long as you don't hit me, isn't that enough?"

"That's it, Dad. I'll tell you everything."

"Then hurry up and tell me, or do you really want to experience the feeling of being beaten by the soles of shoes?"

Anyone who can hit others with the soles of his shoes has a bad temper. This kind of person believes that a good son is made under the stick. As for whether he will get what he wants, it is really hard to say.

And here again a hurried voice was heard.

"Mom, put down the broom and I'll tell you."

"You dare to threaten me? Just wait for me...

Do you really think that I am reluctant to help you?

Don’t think that just because you are my youngest child, I have to pamper you?

And you, you silly girl, how could anyone help to conceal it like this?

Your uncle is young and ignorant. Don’t you know the seriousness of the matter?

Your uncle is just playing around, after all he is the man of the family, and you are a girl, but you have learned to be lazy, aren’t you afraid of not being able to find a husband in the future…”

On that day, no other sound in the entire Huangzhuang Brigade was louder than the children's crying. When it came to educating the children, everyone had no other options except scolding or beating them.

As for whether the adults are educating their children and not doing the assigned tasks well, or because they know that their children have bullied others, only they themselves know.