Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

"That's easy. I'll add one more item when they're practicing boxing and kicking every morning, and ask them to memorize it when they have nothing to do. I don't believe they can't learn it well."

“Is this also a solution?

Are you afraid that they won’t be willing by then?”

“This is not up to them!

After all, we are doing this for them, so they have no choice but to do it.”

"Yes, you can arrange it later."

"Row."

Since coming to the countryside, especially after the house was built, the family lived separately, and there were only a few houseworks that the three children could help with.

The rest of the work was not done by just the couple. In the morning, Guo Huaian first watched the children practice boxing and kicking, and then began to clean the pigpen and chicken coop, and sweep the yard.

I would also get up early and prepare breakfast for the whole family.

After the eldest son went to the primary school in the commune, I would take the extra effort to put his lunch in the rice bowl in advance.

In fact, I don’t cook any special meals. I just prepare the food for the day in advance when I get up in the morning to cook.

This way, when it’s time for lunch and dinner, you can just stir-fry some dishes or cook some porridge.

As for the eldest child bringing lunch to school, does that mean he should bring whatever he made in the morning?

To be honest, I have to apologize for this. For lunch, apart from steamed corn bread and cornmeal pancakes, the only dishes were pickles.

It’s not that I’m reluctant to let him bring other things, I just don’t want him to get into trouble.

Even though my child is only 10 years old this year and is already in the fourth grade, after all, he is the youngest child in the fourth grade at his age.

Even if he is a boy, wouldn't it be easy for someone to bully him?

It would be better to eat the other two meals at home except lunch. After all, no one will know how you eat at home.

We try our best to avoid having meat on the folds. It is better to eat meat secretly than to be watched by others.

Since arriving in the countryside, I have taken the opportunity to catch a lot of small fish by the river.

Sometimes we would boil a pot of fish soup and drink it together to nourish the body. All other fish would be cleaned, dried and kept for later consumption.

Even if they were given a few small fried fish at every meal, they would still be better off than other families.

But they were never allowed to take it out, because in this countryside, people could start a fight even over a piece of candy.

It was rare for the three children to come home late, so he asked them the reason.

"Mom, I'm sorry. We were so busy enjoying the fun that we forgot the time. We won't do that again in the future."

"Yes, we won't. Even if something happens, we will come back in advance to tell you so that you and my dad won't worry."

"I'm sorry, we will never let this happen again."

"Okay, I don't mean to blame you, I just want to know why you came back late, it's not a big deal.

As long as the three of you don't sneak down to the river, or don't sneak into the mountains, and don't follow others around, it's not a big deal if you come back late.

But you just said that you came back late because you were watching the fun. What’s going on?

What excitement?

Can it make you all forget about time?"

"It's nothing, actually?"

“Really nothing?

Just because of a piece of candy."

"sugar?

What sugar?

"Mom, isn't it just because of a piece of candy?

how to say?

This is all because of the problem that arose when Huang Sizhu's son stole the candy hidden by his grandmother and was discovered by the other children in his family. "

"Yes, at first we just thought it was because of a piece of candy that the other people didn't get to eat, so we reported it to the elders.

But who would have thought that it would be the case until the end, and that Huang Sizhu's wife almost separated from her husband's family?"

“Separation?

Just because of a piece of candy?"

"Not really. I think their family has been living together for too long and the resentment has been building up. This piece of candy is just an excuse."

"Yeah, did they split up in the end?"

"How can it be?

Huang Sizhu and his wife wanted to divide the family property, but the old lady in their family threatened to commit suicide, saying that they could divide the family property unless she died. Otherwise, they could forget about it.

Mom, tell me, life has become like this, why don't you separate and continue to live together? Is it fun for everyone to live together?"

"how to say?

It is indeed boring in my mother's opinion, but in the old lady's heart, it must be very interesting to be able to control the food and drink of the whole family!

You know, once the family is divided, she will lose that right.

Besides, over the years, it is impossible for her to be kind to every daughter-in-law with all her heart. After the family division, if her son becomes the head of the family, he will definitely not forget his mother.

If the daughter-in-law becomes the head of the family, it is hard to say whether she will be provided for in her old age.

And the most important thing is, even though we have not been in Huangzhuang for a long time, we more or less know the situation of every household in the team.

As for this old lady, she has always attached great importance to her eldest son's family, so much so that his family is usually lazy at work. If she really agrees to split up the family, how do you think the life of this old lady's eldest son and his family will be?"

"How about it?

It still takes some thought. The other companies may have a hard time at the beginning, but with their willingness to endure hardships and work hard, they will not do too badly in the end.

But the eldest of their family might end up starving.”

"Brother, are they really going to starve?"

"Thinking of what?

Big brother, this is just an analogy. It's just that life will not be as good as it is now."

"That's right. If you can figure it out, how can the head of the family not understand it?

As for the old lady who has lived for most of her life, how could she not understand it?

Otherwise, why don’t they split up? Isn’t it because they know what kind of situation they will face if they split up? "

"So that's how it is. It's a pity that just because you have a smart head, you are doing something so inhumane!"

"That's right, but we can't tell anyone what we said, or else their family members will scold us."

"Mom, don't worry about this. I won't tell you anyway."

"I can't tell you, either."

"I won't tell them. Not only that, I don't like to interact with their family members."

"Why, their kids came to play with you?"

"Play, if you want to play, that's fine. Since we moved here, those kids in their family have been the ones causing the most problems."

“Yes, every time he meets us, he asks about the city.

At first we thought they were just curious, but we never thought that their children, just like the adults, would always ask about how our food and drinks were.