Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

"Yes, it's Er Gouzi's house."

"is not that right?

His grandmother secretly gave Er Gouzi an egg to eat, and his aunt scolded his grandmother for being biased.

"Yes, that's really ugly!"

"It's really hard to hear. It's just an egg, why did it become like that?"

"This is not a question of eggs. You have to know that in this country, many children your age can only eat eggs on their birthdays or when they are sick, let alone an egg a day.

For example, Er Gouzi can eat eggs, which shows that the old man loves his grandson. However, no matter how much he loves his grandson, not all grandsons are loved. Otherwise, why would Er Gouzi's aunt make a fuss?"

"this?"

"In our family, our parents are the head of the family. We don't have any elderly relatives at home, and we only have three children. Compared to other families in the team, do we have the fewest children?"

"That's true. Whether in the city or in the country, there are only three of us brothers and sisters in our family."

"This is only because there are only three of you. If there were more children in the family, Mom wouldn't be able to guarantee that each of you would get an egg a day.

When I was living in the city, both eggs and meat were limited.

Now that you are in the countryside, if you want to eat eggs, at least you don’t have to worry about exchanging them with others.

But even so, what do you think would happen if others knew that you could eat eggs every day?"

"He must be jealous of us."

"anything else?"

"envy."

"why?"

“Because we are all human beings, why are we so different?

Just like when we lived upstairs before, Fangfang, wasn't she jealous of how good mom was to her sister, so she wanted to lie to her sister and then still be mom's daughter?"

"Yes, not only her, but their whole family is jealous of our family.

Mom, do you mean that there is someone in the team who is like that person from the Qin family?

No way? "

"What do you think?

Why not go back? Don't forget that the Qin family has at least one regular worker, one temporary worker, and a whole family making matchboxes.

They earn a lot of money every month and are always jealous of other people's things.

In contrast, the villagers in the team have other sources of income besides working in the fields and earning work points every day.

Isn't it just relying on a few chickens and pigs raised at home?

The bulk of the money earned every year, apart from the work points, goes to the pigs raised at home. I’m afraid that unless there are special circumstances, this will definitely not be touched.

That's the chickens they raise. In other words, when the country people need money, they rely on the eggs laid by the chickens. They can't bear to eat them.

In this case, what would happen if you let others know that you can eat eggs almost every day? "

"I don't know. I just know that I don't want anyone like Fangfang to appear around me again."

"I don't want to either."

“If you don’t want that, then remember not to tell anyone else what you eat.

Now that we have come to the countryside, we are country people. Since we are country people, why should we eat what the country people eat?

Even if you know that you are different from others, you can only pretend that it doesn't exist.

Otherwise, not only will you have no friends in the end, but others may also approach you because of this?

Don't think it's just an egg, or something else.

But in the eyes of some people, just like Fangfang, they can recognize someone else as their mother just for the sake of stuttering.

Actually, this is nothing. I’m just worried that because of your kindness, you might end up feeding an ungrateful person who you don’t know well. What should you do then?

It’s not that mom doesn’t want you to be kind people, but we have different situations.

In other words, when our own family members are hungry and hungry, should we take care of ourselves first?

In the past, my parents at least had jobs, so after deducting household expenses every month, there was always some money left.

But now, with your father as a substitute teacher, he only makes so much money a month, and he has to exchange the money for food.

In this situation, how can we be generous to others and sacrifice ourselves?

If the other person is a kind-hearted person, then it’s okay if you help him once or twice, right?

If the other person is not a kind person, and despite your repeated help, he/she stabs you in the back, what can you do? "

"this?"

"Although you are young, mom knows that you understand everything you should understand.

Just like this trip to the countryside, logically speaking, no matter how it is arranged or regulated, he can't be your father.

Even if it is your mother's turn, it will not be your father's turn, but what can be said about the facts?

Our family of five was forced to move to the countryside without our knowledge.

In theory, the cadres going to the countryside this time are all voluntary, but unfortunately we have no relatives in the countryside, and we are not from the countryside, so we have to go to the countryside. Do you know the reason behind this?"

"I don't know, Mom, do you know?"

"Yes?

Mom, why?

"Mom, do you mean someone is behind this?"

"To be honest, Mom and Dad don't know the details, but we can guess a little bit. It's just that someone is jealous. Otherwise, why would it be our turn to go to the countryside?"

"Is it okay to be jealous of others?"

"Yeah, isn't this too bad?"

"Let me know who the other party is? Look at me..."

“What are you looking at?

What can a child of your age do?

Even mom and dad can’t do anything about it, so what can you do?

Speaking of jealousy, it can not only harm others, but also do many things, even harming others and yourself in the end.

What mom wants to tell you is that when we don’t have enough strength, it may not be a bad thing to temporarily avoid the spotlight.

I tell you all this today because I want to tell you that you should not be too high-profile when you are outside and should think twice before doing anything.

Even if it's just an egg, don't make a fuss about it at the time, otherwise it will be very difficult to deal with it later and no one will have an easy life.

If you can't make up your mind for the moment and your parents aren't around, you three can discuss it, but don't let anyone else hear it, understand?"

"Got it, Mom. We won't tell anyone else about our situation."

"Yes, they have been asking us recently about our life in the city, but we haven't said much."

"Of course, we eat the same thing every day, just steamed corn bread or pancakes with pickles.

As for meat or eggs, we never mention them even as snacks.