Siheyuan: Five mouths waiting for food at the beginning

"Yes, that's right, uncle. Unfortunately, my mother doesn't agree."

Daya said, "Brother, I think it's too disadvantageous for girls to go into politics and business. It's better for me to be a teacher."

"Uncle, look at my mother."

"Okay, then first tell me whether you want to go into politics or business?"

"Uncle, I have already made up my mind. I want to go into business and I want to create my own business."

"Oh, you are being too general. Please be more specific. I want to see if you have a business sense. For example, what industry do you think is promising? What kind of business do you want to start in the future?"

"I haven't decided what to do specifically, but business is inseparable from food, clothing, housing and transportation. I plan to make something out of this. I will do whatever is needed."

"Of course, I lack experience now. If I say anything, you will think I am just talking nonsense. I hope you can allow me to go to the company to learn and talk about it after I have some experience."

"When I graduate and have experience, I will investigate the market and then I will know what I want to do."

"Your uncle supports your desire to go into business. You are smart, have your own ideas, and have clear cognition. You have the potential to be a strong woman, but you have to discuss it with your parents."

"Uncle, my mother listens to you, can you please persuade her?"

"Brother, I don't ask Xiaoqin to become a strong woman in the future, I just hope she is safe and sound. I think being a teacher is good."

"Sister, brother-in-law, let me tell you what I think. When the children are young, we can make decisions for them because they are still young and don't understand right from wrong."

"But they are grown up now and have their own ideas. We should not impose our ideas on them. They have their own lives."

"Should we make decisions for them for the rest of their lives? We can't be with them for the rest of their lives. They have to walk their own path. We are just there to assist them.

You have chosen her future for her, will she really be satisfied? Will she resent you in the future? You always say that you are doing it for their own good, but do you understand her thoughts?

Just like when you were a kid, I asked you what you thought. You said you wanted to study accounting, so I assigned you to finance. What I can do is pave the way for you, not decide your life. "

"Brother, is Xiaoqin really suitable for business? From ancient times to now, I have never seen many girls doing business."

"Whether the road is suitable or not, you can only know it after walking on it. Whether the shoes are suitable or not, you can only know it after trying them on. She hasn't left yet, so you can't just deny it. Besides, we three uncles and her father are here to back her up. What are you afraid of?"

"Okay, Xiaoqin, since you want to go into business, I won't care about you anymore. I'll just listen to your uncle and let you make your own choice. It's fine as long as you don't regret it in the future."

"Thank you, Mom."

"I guess you have chosen your major. Your eldest uncle won't care. If you want to go to the company for training, then you can go find your second or third uncle, or follow your father."

"Yes, uncle."

"Brother, what is An Huan learning?"

"He chose to study medicine, and I respect his choice."

"Study medicine. It's good to study medicine."

"Okay, now that we've decided, let's go eat." Several people walked out of the study.

After dinner, Daya’s family of four left.

The application was completed quickly and An Tong also returned from Guangzhou.

While eating, An Tong asked about An Huan's scores and his major.

"Second brother, why do you want to study medicine?"

An Huan joked, "I don't want to compete with you for the family property, so I chose to study medicine."

"Second brother, am I that kind of person? Is that how you see your eldest brother?"

"Brother, why are you so angry? I was just joking with you. I really want to study medicine."

An Feng came over and said, "Brother, don't listen to what my second brother says. He studied medicine because of Sister He Hua. Don't think we don't know."

"Go away, little brat, what do you know?"

"How can I not understand? You go to see Sister He Hua every day. Don't think I don't know."

"What else are you talking about, He Hua, do you miss me?"

An Feng's words made the whole family laugh.

"You little brat, did you eavesdrop on my phone call?"

"I wasn't eavesdropping. Your voice was so loud. If you don't believe me, ask dad and sister. We all heard it."

"Brother, I've heard this more than once," An Rong echoed.

Zhao Shanhe smiled and said, "I was wondering why the phone bill was so high. So it turns out you call every day?"

"Second brother, I didn't expect that. I thought you and He Hua grew up together, so you were childhood sweethearts and could get along well. I didn't expect you to have such thoughts."

"What's wrong, brother? I learned this from you. When you were my age, you had married your elder sister-in-law. So what if I have someone I like?"

An Huan stopped pretending. Since his family already knew about it, he came clean.

"That's right, I forgot that you are already an adult. Then let dad propose a marriage for you. It would be great if you can go to college with your wife like me.

If Dad goes, Uncle Zhuzi will definitely agree, and he will be able to drink your wedding wine again."

"Okay, An Tong, stop giving him advice. I'm not going. You've already given up on getting married. Don't even think about it, second brother. Do you all treat the marriage law as a joke?"

"An Tong, you are still not eligible to get a marriage certificate, and An Huan is even less qualified. Your father works for the country, and we still have to abide by the country's laws."

"The man is 80, the woman is . This is the marriage law promulgated in . An Huan, just wait until you are . You can talk first. Dad doesn't object to me coming to propose marriage. Don't even think about it."

"Second brother, there is nothing I can do to help you."

"I haven't thought about getting married yet. I will wait until I am capable and can take on my own responsibilities before getting married."

"Yes, I am still supported by my father. It is indeed best to wait until I am able to get married. The national regulations stipulate that the age of 22 is indeed appropriate."

"Brother, I didn't say anything about you, don't take it personally."

An Huan's words made the dinner atmosphere silent, and An Tong's face turned bad, mainly because Yiyun was there too.

Qin Jingru said, "You are brothers. An Tong, Yiyun, and An Huan didn't do it on purpose."

"Mom, I know. I'm not angry with An Huan. What An Huan said makes sense. It's true that I'm married and I still need you to support me. It's really my fault."

"An Tong, don't think too much. You are going to college, go there to earn money to support the family. Study hard. When you graduate from college, there will be many places to make money. Do I, your father, need you to earn money to support the family now?"

"Even if you guys don't do anything, our family's assets are enough for you to have a comfortable life. This is the meaning of your father's hard work, isn't it to make you live a good life?"

"Yes, Dad,"

"Yiyun, are your grandparents in good health?"

"Dad, I'm fine. When we came back, he asked me to say hello to you guys on his behalf."

"That's right. It's good for people to live a peaceful life. Why worry about so many things? Isn't what belongs to Dad yours?"