Siheyuan: Five mouths waiting for food at the beginning

"You guys have no conscience. I worked so hard to cook for you, and you're left hungry. You all look so tall and strong, but in the end you all have no conscience. I really raised a bunch of ungrateful people."

Qin Jingru was really sad. She didn't expect her child to say such things about her behind her back.

"Mom, it's just a little bit unpalatable, but not that bad," the second child, An Huan, quickly comforted her.

The fourth child, An Feng, said, "Mom, we are tall and strong because of our father. We can be seen to be his offspring at a glance."

Zhao Shanhe wanted to laugh but couldn't, and he felt very uncomfortable. These bastards were really good at comforting people.

But if we don't care about these little bastards, who knows what shocking words they will say, which might even make Qin Jingru very angry.

"You guys are so outrageous. Didn't I tell you not to speak ill of others behind their backs? And that person is your mother."

"Dad, we didn't say anything behind your back. Mom could hear it."

"It's just that it tastes bad, we didn't say anything wrong."

"Dad, tell me honestly, is the food Mom cooks delicious? Do you think we don't know that you always find excuses to go out to eat after get off work in the afternoon? I've seen you eating alone in restaurants several times."

Qin Jingru looked at Zhao Shanhe eagerly, and Zhao Shanhe didn't know what to say. The food Qin Jingru cooked was actually not that bad. It was just that after opening the restaurant, she had eaten too much of the chef's food and had become picky about it, so the normal food became unpalatable.

"In fact, the food your mother cooks is not bad. Many people can't even eat it. It just depends on who you compare it with. You are from an ordinary family. The food your mother cooks is the best of the best. There are still many poor people in rural areas who have never eaten it.

It’s just that when you were born, your father and I were already a high-income earner, so the food was naturally not bad. And I never heard you say that your mother’s cooking was bad.

When did I get this feeling? Was it after the restaurant opened? What kind of person is the chef of our restaurant? He is the heir of several cuisines, and his level is almost the same as the chefs who prepare state banquets.

You all have such a big mouth. How can you compare your mother with others? Their profession makes a living by doing this.

It's all dad's fault. He raised you so well. He always believed that those who plant trees will enjoy the shade. You have lived in a honey pot since childhood and have never had to endure any hardship.

At a time when not everyone can have enough food to eat, you are actually pursuing delicious food. I think I should find a way to make you suffer when I get back.

It just so happens that your Third Grandfather will be taking your wife back to his hometown soon. You can go with him then to see the rural life, experience the hardships, and go hungry for a few days. Then everything will taste delicious.”

"Also, the last thing you should do is to talk about your mother. Do you know how much your mother went through to give birth to you? You will understand when you become parents.

Your mother has been worrying about you all the time. She quit her job for you and spent all her time on you. This is how you repay her.

Your mother is right, you are such a heartless bunch, I think you will all be ungrateful sooner or later, your mother and I can no longer count on you for support in the future."

"Also, if you don't like something, don't say that other people's food is not delicious. People are shaped by the local environment. Some places love spicy food, some love sweet food, and some love sour food.

Don’t deny it just because you don’t like it. If someone can open a restaurant, he must have some skills.”

An Rong pouted and said, "Dad, you are preaching again. We are not children anymore. We understand what you said, so we didn't say it in front of the boss.

Also, didn’t you teach us from childhood that being a good person is more important than studying? At the very least, we should be honest. Aren’t we just telling the truth? "

"Child, you don't understand because you haven't experienced the beatings of society. There's nothing wrong with being honest, but sometimes you can't be too honest. Sometimes you even need a little white lie.

Speaking too directly can easily hurt others. Sometimes you have to be more tactful. Speaking is actually an art. Some people can offend others to death with just one word. In ancient times, speaking out of turn could result in death.

Some people can make others feel relaxed with just one sentence, especially in the system. You should be more careful with what you say and think before you speak.

You see, your words have made your mother so angry that I have to punish you today.

I will punish you to clean the house and prepare the New Year's Eve dinner. If you don't think your mother's cooking is bad, you can just make it yourself."

"Dad, it's obvious that you just want to be lazy, and you think language is an art. We don't accept it. It's you who taught us to be honest, and you're still going out to eat."

"Well, since you don't accept it, Dad will prove it to you."

"An Huan, if your leader assigns you to do something in the future, what will you do?"

“Then I’ll say I can’t.”

"I can see that you haven't thought it through. You expressed your attitude first and then denied yourself. Leaders don't like people who don't know anything."

"You see, if you put it another way, it's different. I don't know how to do it right now, but I can learn.

This sentence first shows that you are not just temporary, and then I can learn, which shows your positive attitude towards learning. Sometimes people look at your attitude. "

"An Rong, if you think your best friend's clothes are ugly, or the color is particularly ugly, what would you say?"

"Then I will definitely tell her directly that the color of this dress is ugly."

"See, you don't use your brain, and you might offend a friend with this sentence."

"What would you say then, Dad?"

"I would say, this dress doesn't suit you, especially this color, it doesn't highlight your temperament, isn't it, it immediately elevates the other person, it explains the problem without offending people.

My family has a clothing business. If you go back and take a look, you will see that in the same store, some people sell the same product well while others cannot.

Why is this? Because the art of speaking is different.”

"Dad, what should we do if this happens today?"

"For example, if your mother's food is salty, you say it goes well with rice; if it is sour, you say it is appetizing; if it is bitter, you say it clears heat; if it is spicy, you say it is rich.

If you think your mother's cooking is unpalatable, you can tell her that she has worked too hard and should not work so hard. "

"Dad, you are awesome. I have learned it."

"Once you have learned it, start working and use it as tuition."

The three siblings started to work. Zhao Shanhe wiped Qin Jingru's tears with paper and said, "Don't be angry. Your body is your own. There's no need to be angry with them. What will you do if you get angry?"

"Brother, you also think my cooking is bad."

"Well, didn't I say that it depends on who you compare yourself with? Compared to a professional chef, you are definitely inferior. You are not a professional chef, but compared to ordinary people, your cooking is delicious."

"Dad, what should I say if I think my brother is fat?"

"You just say cute"