Siheyuan: Five mouths waiting for food at the beginning

"Even if you make them suffer, what's the point? Maybe it will help a little, as they will learn to save money, but children who grow up in such a family will have low self-esteem.

It is difficult for a poor family to produce a noble son, let alone a poor family. Even if he is good at studying, there is still a gap between him and others, such as environment and connections, etc.

For example, I, you and the people around you think I am awesome, but when I meet those second generation, I still feel inferior, and I still have to curry favor with them.

I am like this, not to mention those poor people, who may never even see a county magistrate in their entire lives, and the highest official they have ever seen may be the village chief.

My words may sound harsh, but this is the truth, this is reality

What they lack most now is experience. If they read more, learn more, interact with more people, accumulate more experience and connections, they will be successful.

This is the advantage that our generation has worked hard to create for them. Look at the second generation, how many of them rely on their own

Although classes will be eliminated, they will not disappear. When the old ones are overthrown, new ones will emerge.

Although all roads lead to Rome, some people are born in Rome. "

"That's a lot of words, but that's the truth. This is the reality of society.

Of course, your mother is right. You must not learn bad habits. You are all aware of the Shanghai case six months ago. If you commit crimes, even the most powerful family cannot save you. "

"Brother, you're making me a little confused. Isn't studying the most important thing for them at this stage?"

"Studying well is just one of the options for life. A diploma cannot determine the future, nor can it determine everything. However, people can not be without a diploma, but they cannot be without culture."

"You will slowly understand what Dad said in the future. Maybe you don't understand it now, but you will understand it naturally when you have more experience in the future."

"I'm giving you money. If you want to play, have fun. If you want to study, study hard. Don't think about playing when you study, and don't think about studying when you play." Zhao Shanhe took out two hundred yuan from his trouser pocket and handed it to An Huan.

"I'll give you An Huan's money for safekeeping. Is this enough for you to buy ice skates? You don't have anything to do tomorrow, so go with your sister tomorrow and bring An Feng with you. Buy a pair for each of you so that you won't be accused of favoritism. Also, protect your younger brothers and sisters."

"Dad, I was the one who asked you to do that. Why did you give the money to my second brother? I'm not a child anymore. Besides, I've made an appointment with my classmates, and it wouldn't be good if they followed me."

"Humph, I don't want to follow you yet. Do you think I want to follow you?" An Huan said to An Rong.

"Girl, Dad is worried about you. Let your brother follow Dad so that he can rest assured. What if you, a girl, are bullied? If you don't let your brother follow you, then don't go. Go to your grandmother's house with your mother."

"Okay, then I'll follow you. But can you please stop following me, little brother? You're just like a follower."

"You'll be happy if you have a follower brother. When your parents die, he will be the closest person to you. When you get married and are bullied, your brother or brother will be the one who can support you.

Why does Dad have such a good relationship with your uncle and aunt? Because Dad loves his brothers and sisters. You are the younger sister, and An Tong and An Huan protect you. At the same time, you are the older sister, so shouldn’t you protect your younger brother? "

"Maybe now you think they are not that good, you think they are better than your classmates, and you think they are troublesome.

But can friendship compare to family affection? Relationships are also divided into close and distant. Some people you think are good now, but will they be good in the future? Some people are just passers-by in your life, and you may never contact them again in the future.

As for them, they have been with you since childhood. Maybe when you are old, besides your husband and children, they are the only ones who can think of you.

You see, after your grandfather died, the ones who could depend on your father for life were your uncles and aunts. Your third uncle even said that he would take care of your father in his old age!"

"I know, Dad. I will be a good sister."

"Okay, go and have some rest."

Zhao Shanhe looked at his children and thought to himself, they must love each other in the future and not fight over the family property. In later generations, there were many brothers who were at odds with each other over the family property.

The next day, Zhao Shanhe got up late. It was still comfortable in bed in winter. In fact, he woke up early, but just didn't want to get up.

"When are you going to your father-in-law's house?"

"You're not going?"

"Okay, I don't have anything to do, so I'll go with you. It's been a while since I've been there. Where are the kids?"

"Don't you see what time it is? He left early and didn't even eat the meal I made. He said he was going to eat steamed buns and drink tofu pudding."

"To be honest, your cooking is getting worse and worse. It's millet soup every day. Not to mention the children, I'm tired of it. Can't you try something different?"

"In the morning, we eat millet soup and steamed buns with pickled vegetables. Isn't this what we have eaten since we were little? What else can we cook?"

"For example, steamed buns, soy milk, fried dough sticks, and my child is growing up, so I prepare a glass of milk for him every day."

"They're still growing. An Huan is only sixteen, but he's already almost a head taller than me. My daughter is taller than me, too. Even An Feng is almost as tall as me. They're all the tallest in the class."

"I can't help it. My Zhao family has good genes. Look at my second and third uncles' families. The ones in my second and third uncles' families are short. It's a problem if they are short."

"Okay, I'll try something different tomorrow. Let's just make do with this today."

Zhao Shanhe feels that this era is still good. His wife is really obedient. She just stretches out her hand for clothes and opens her mouth for food. She even washes his feet at night.

In the later generations, it’s good enough that they can get up and cook for you. How dare you make suggestions? Go and cook for your wife and wash her feet.

"Dad, Mom, are you home? Your son-in-law is here to see you."

"Jingru, I'm coming, why are you shouting?"

"You came, but the old man and old lady didn't come out to greet you. They felt bad. Last time I didn't tell them you were coming, my parents privately complained to me, saying that I didn't tell them in advance that you were coming.

This time I thought I would call you first, and watch my mother kill the chicken later. "

"Haha, there is such a thing, but it's true, every time I come, my mother-in-law's chicken will definitely not be kept."

Sure enough, before Zhao Shanhe even entered the house, the old man and old lady came out to greet him, "Son-in-law is here, come in quickly."

Then the old man shouted, "Old woman, go kill the chicken and cook some more dishes."

Zhao Shanhe recalled that when he came here before, Qin Xiaojun's son shouted, "Grandma, go kill the chickens."

The father-in-law poured tea and handed cigarettes to Zhao Shanhe, making him feel like an elder. However, it has been like this for years. Zhao Shanhe was not used to it at the beginning, but now he has gotten used to it. The main reason is that if you don't let the father-in-law and mother-in-law serve tea and water, they won't do it.

"Father-in-law, why are there only you two here today? Where are the others?"

"I went out for a walk and did some shopping. My eldest grandson will be bringing his girlfriend home in a few days, so I had to prepare early."

"This is a big deal. I called my eldest brother-in-law and asked him to arrange things over there and come back early."