Siheyuan: Dongfang Bubai is in his arms, and all the beasts are eliminated

In this ancient courtyard, although there are conflicts and disputes, everyone has a common goal in mind, which is to make life better.

Yan Jie Di and Yi Zhong Hai are getting divorced, and she takes the opportunity to pester Yang Li Min

Life in the courtyard is always full of conflicts and disputes. Recently, Yan Jie Di and Yi Zhonghai's marriage has had problems. They have been arguing over trivial matters and even divorced. Yan Jie Di was upset and she took out all her anger on Yi Zhonghai, and their relationship became increasingly strained.

One evening, Yang Limin was trimming flowers and plants in the yard when he heard a quarrel. He looked up and saw Yan Jiedi and Yi Zhonghai arguing loudly. Yan Jiedi angrily accused Yi Zhonghai, while Yi Zhonghai said nothing and his face turned pale.

Yang Limin sighed, feeling helpless. He knew that life in the courtyard was always full of conflicts and disputes, but he never thought that Yan Jiedi and Yi Zhonghai's marriage would go this far. Just as he was thinking about how to persuade the two, Yan Jiedi suddenly turned around and looked at Yang Limin, with a complicated light in her eyes.

A few days later, Yang Limin just came back from outside and saw Yan Jiedi standing at the gate of the yard with a melancholy smile on her face. She walked up to her and took the initiative to say hello: "Limin, are you free today? Can you chat with me?"

Yang Limin nodded, and although he was a little confused, he agreed. He knew that Yan Jiedi's mood was very unstable recently, and maybe she just wanted to find someone to talk to. They sat down on a bench in the yard, and Yan Jiedi took a deep breath and began to talk about the conflict between her and Yi Zhonghai.

"Limin, I really don't know what to do. Yi Zhonghai doesn't understand me at all. We quarrel every day. I'm really about to collapse." Yan Jiedi's voice was choked with sobs.

Yang Limin listened quietly, nodded, and gently comforted: "Jie Di, sometimes conflicts in marriage require both parties to calm down and communicate well. You may try to sit down and talk calmly to talk about the problem."

Yan Jie Di smiled bitterly, with a hint of disappointment in her eyes: "Li Min, it's easy for you to say that, but Yi Zhonghai doesn't listen to me at all. He only cares about himself and never cares about my feelings."

Seeing this, Yang Limin felt helpless and was about to give more advice when he suddenly felt Yan Jiedi's hand gently holding his. Yang Limin was stunned and looked up at Yan Jiedi with doubts in his eyes.

"Limin, actually I have always admired you. You are so responsible and treat your neighbors so well. I really hope you can understand me and help me out of this predicament." Yan Jiedi's voice was soft, with an expectant glimmer in her eyes.

Yang Limin was shocked and immediately realized the complexity of the matter. He gently pulled back his hand and said firmly: "Jie Di, I understand your feelings, but there are some things we cannot cross the line. You and Yi Zhonghai still need to solve the matter by yourselves. I can only provide advice and help, but I can't make decisions for you."

Yan Jiedi's face turned gloomy, and a trace of unwillingness flashed in her eyes: "Limin, why are you always so rational? Don't you have any sympathy at all?"

Yang Limin took a deep breath and tried to keep his tone calm: "Jie Di, of course I sympathize with you, but you can't force feelings. You need to calm down and think carefully about what you really want."

Yan Jiedi gritted her teeth, a trace of determination flashed in her eyes: "Okay, Limin, I understand. Since you are unwilling to help me, I will find a way to solve it myself."

After that, she stood up and left, leaving Yang Limin sitting alone on the bench with mixed feelings in his heart. He knew that this matter was far from over, and Yan Jiedi's attitude made him feel a little worried.

In the following days, Yan Jie Di began to pester Yang Limin more and more. She often approached Yang Limin deliberately when he was busy and found various excuses to be alone with him. Although Yang Limin was unhappy, he always tried to keep his distance in order not to intensify the conflict, and tried to persuade her tactfully.

One night, Yang Limin just returned home and heard a knock on the door. He opened the door and saw Yan Jiedi standing outside with a hint of anxiety and stubbornness on her face. She walked straight into the room and started to tell Yang Limin about her latest conflict with Yi Zhonghai before he could react.

"Li Min, we had another fight today, and I really can't stand it anymore. Yi Zhonghai doesn't understand me at all, and we can't go on. I have decided to divorce, but I need your support." There was a hint of pleading in Yan Jiedi's voice.

Yang Limin looked at her and felt helpless. He knew that Yan Jie Di had fallen into extreme emotions, and it would be useless to persuade her at this time. He took a deep breath and tried to make his tone calm: "Jie Di, divorce is a matter between the two of you, and I have no right to interfere. But I hope you can calm down, think carefully, and don't act impulsively."

Yan Jiedi's eyes flashed with anger. She stood up and accused: "Limin, you are always so calm and rational. Don't you have any sympathy? I really need your support. How can you be so heartless?"

Yang Limin felt a headache. He knew that continuing like this would only make things more complicated. He stood up and said firmly, "Jie Di, I sympathize with your situation, but you can't force relationships. You need to solve these problems by yourself. I can only provide advice and help from the side."

Yan Jiedi was stunned for a moment, tears flashed in her eyes, but she quickly regained her composure and turned to leave Yang Limin's home. Yang Limin looked at her from behind, feeling helpless and worried.

The next day, Yang Limin decided to talk to Yi Zhonghai. He knew that only by calmly communicating with each other could they resolve the current conflict. He walked to the door of Yi Zhonghai's house and knocked gently. After a while, Yi Zhonghai opened the door and saw Yang Limin, with a hint of surprise on his face: "Limin, what's the matter?"

Yang Limin walked into the room and said bluntly: "Yi Zhonghai, I think you and Jie Di need to calm down and have a good talk. I know there are many conflicts between you, but avoiding and arguing will not solve the problem."

Yi Zhonghai sighed, a trace of fatigue flashed in his eyes: "Limin, you are right. We have quarreled too much recently, and I feel tired. In fact, I don't want to get a divorce, but I really don't know what to do."

Yang Limin nodded and said sincerely, "Yi Zhonghai, feelings require communication and understanding. You can try to find a calm time to have a good talk and express your dissatisfaction and confusion.